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how do i get him to believe me
well my ex is at again... he told my bf that i cheated on him with an ex from years ago who isnt even in town and lives far away...wtf...well now my bf and ex are becoming good buddies and my bf said he was sorry for asuming in an email but then when i talked to him he said he jsut wants to drop it and he dont believe me but he jsut wants ot be with me so bad that he dont care... ok if i cheated would i be here trying to figure it out... no and i didnt and i swear on my life.... how do i get him to believe me... ps i have cheated on him once before but so has he... so taht makes it harder please help
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have you sworn it to him?
does he take you seriously if you look him in the eyes??
you need to talk to him, like, not on the phone, but in person. look at him and tell him that you're serious and you want him to take you seriously. it may be a little awkward, but if things go well, you'll feel SOO much better afterwards. it's one of those trust things.
ask him "who are you going to believe...my ex or me?"
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Well if he just wants to drop it because he loves you and wants to be with you i would just forget that anything happened. Just dont make any contact with your ex unless you absolutly have to and dont do anything that would make him think other wise..try to be with him and make him feel like he is the only one for you by reminding him of how much you love him and dont want things to end and how happy he makes you.
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My bf and i have always been loyal to each other so thats different than your situation, but at one point he thought i was cheating. it really hurt. how could he think that? after over 2 years of being together i thought he knew and understood i could never do that to him. i love him too much. i asked him what i could do to prove to him i was bein loyal. he said he was suspicious because i was acting different. i realized at that time that all the stress i was going through was taking a toll on how i was treating him. we got through it. so if there is anything at all that you are doing differently, that may be a cause of his suspicion. Since you both have cheated before and are still together, that shouldnt be the reason. So focus on why he thinks you are cheating and work on it from there.
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You both cheated on one another and he doesn't believe that you didn't cheat on him again? Hmmm, sounds to me like you two have some trust issues and your ex isn't helping. I think that you should stop flirting (if you are) with every guy except your boyfriend because this will prove to him that you can be trusted and that he is your only sweetie :] hehe. You should also probably try talking to him again, and if he doesn't care, maybe you should just leave it at that. You know that you didn't cheat on him, and if he doesn't believe you or not, at least you guys are still together. Just act normal as usual, like nothing ever happened and move on with your lives, you'll have a better time that way. Maybe your ex is just jealous, and that's why he is starting trouble, but don't worry, just be loyal to your boyfriend and everything will be okay.
Good luck and I hope I helped!
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