Question Posted Saturday December 15 2007, 4:07 am
ok i broke up with my boyfriend cause he was starting to become a very flirty person =| worse part i talk to him about this about how this was m y only reason to brake up with him cause hes all the time meeting new girls that are obviously itnerested on him (by the comments they say to him) and he just doesn't see that as a bad thing ,not even when he kind of encourage them to keep that behavior towards him, i told him that if i see that he changes maybe we'll get back , but i just found that he's still like that ( he tells me he deleted them adn block them at msn and i found out he didn't ) it seems like he just doesn't trust me enough to say hey i got this new female friend..he always has to be hidding them from me :S saying things like ..oh i barely talk to her (then by myspace , facebook, msn or anything) i found out they do talk and lots and shes flirting with him and he like flirts back...imagine this multiplied times other 15 girls ...i really like him and this situation its just killing me :S either hes a very good liar cause i can tell he really wants me back hes been like begging for almost 3 months now, but still he doesnt change this behavior. he just pretend he has changed and he is just the same just that now he hiddes things better :S any advice?? =S
orphans answered Saturday December 15 2007, 11:10 am: Sounds like he's a player to me and your having doubts, so go with your gut instinct. If he wants you back so badly, he wouldn't be lying to you or talking/flirting with other girls. If you can't trust him, I would suggest just having a mutual frinedship with him. Not all guys are like that, so just because one boy is doing stupid things, don't give up on all of the others!
Hope I helped
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