16/f. I've liked a certain guy, lets call him A, since I was 11 in the 6th grade. That's a pretty long time. We are both now sophomores. Its a major crush. This guy...I'm like in love with him. I don't even think it's infatuation..because its just been there for such a long time. I dream about him, when I see him, my heart just beats really quickly...I always want to impress him. He notices me, but doesn't say anything. Just kinda...puts his head down...and listens to what I'm saying to my friends (JUST TO GAIN HIS ATTENTION =[) He smiles at me a lot.
When we make eye contact in class, he smiles. He nods...there's this certain understanding between us (we both speak Russian) But I don't know if he likes me or if he doesn't. Thing is...I've lost so much weight and gotten so much better looking since those 5 years ago. I KNOW that I have 'potential' without being conceited. But Ive never had a boyfriend. And I just really want it to work out with him. He's a really shy guy and rarely talks to anyone. But he's just so amazing, smart and nice. I actually think we might both be shy...because I'm way too scared to start up a conversation with him! I don't wanna sound stupid ;_; I'm just..so confused. I want him to know. I don't know how though. It's tearing me up!
Any help will be VERY appreciated
orphans answered Sunday December 16 2007, 5:24 pm: Wow! You've liked him for that long? So, what's holding you back? I'm sure that since you are both russian, have a mutaul understanding of one another, and are both shy, that is a lot to have in common with a person you don't even know. Just imagine how much more you two probably have in common! Just talk to him, I'm sure he wouldn't mind since he is obviously attracted to you. And even though you haven't had a boyfriend, this guy seems like he would be your best bet to have one. So go say hi, introduce yourself, in the long run, I bet you'll be happy that you did. Trust me, I would know. :]
Good luck with the relationship! Hope I helped. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
russianspy1234 answered Sunday December 16 2007, 4:32 pm: aw come on, russian people are friendly, even if you do seem a little stupid when you first go up to talk to him. you should go for it, just strike up a conversation about something, and see where it goes. [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
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