girdy_goo15 answered Friday July 23 2004, 1:08 am: dear help,
there is no rite age to have sex. just when youre both emotionally and physically mature enough. i would prefer you not to until you are older and married but i can't controll you. but think about all of the risks of sex: pregnancy, stds, etc... so just make sure youre ready to handle it. and get your mom to get you some birthcontroll. and always use a condom. if you need anything else or any ideas on the best of the list above(birthcontroll, condoms,etc..) just ask. hope i helped *~~`shana~~~* [ girdy_goo15's advice column | Ask girdy_goo15 A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Thursday July 22 2004, 8:41 pm: the right thing to do is wait until you are married, you know your in love for sure, and your not going to do anything stupid. Forget what they've made nowadays there are so many ways things can get screwed up.. emotionally and physically, really im begging you to wait, you will be so proud of yourself in the long run i PROMISE you that. [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Thursday July 22 2004, 4:56 pm: The right age is whenever you're mentally, emotionally, and physically ready for all the risks you take when you have sex. I lost my virginity a few months ago to my boyfriend, and I knew I was ready. I wasn't sure I would be, but I don't regret it.
Good things to do...
Use a condom.
Try to be on the pill or some sort of birth control. Saves you a lot of worry. The first two times I had sex, I wasn't on the pill and I worried like hell until my period came.
Make sure he's gentle - it may hurt the first time.
Don't let the guy push you into doing anything you don't want to do.
Don't be afraid to tell him what you want/don't want.
Relax. Helps with the pain a little ^^
Hope I helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
dancer_freak05 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 2:13 pm: There is no set age. You just do it when you feel like you are ready. Wait as long as possible, because you will probably end up regretting it. For example, my friend Amanda said that she really regrets it, and wishes that she would have waited until she was in love. She really got off to a rocky start, and she realized that you should just wait for a while and have sex with the person that you are in some sort of relationship with.
Dont rush it, it will happen when the time is right. Virginity is a precious thing, I would be proud to keep it. [ dancer_freak05's advice column | Ask dancer_freak05 A Question ]
queenbee answered Thursday July 22 2004, 2:11 pm: There is no right age to have sex. A good way to tell if your ready (emotionally) is if you can talk about sex without getting embarrassed and if you can go but condoms w/o freaking that someone will see you. Also, are you financially prepared for the possibility of getting pregnant? Do you know if your potential partner has any STD's, make sure your protected even so, you can still get gentital warts and/or herpes from contact with another persons genitalia (just something to think about) And as far as being physically ready, most guys under 18 don't know what they are doing and most girl's under 18 are to afraid to say anything. [ queenbee's advice column | Ask queenbee A Question ]
itsallabOutkimbO answered Thursday July 22 2004, 1:57 pm: there isnt exactly a right age. i lost my virginity a couple of months ago and im 16. but im in love and i know it. just make sure that your body is mentally and physically ready before you make this big step in your life.
x0xKimx0x <3 [ itsallabOutkimbO's advice column | Ask itsallabOutkimbO A Question ]
endilwen answered Thursday July 22 2004, 1:18 pm: Everyone is different. There isn't a standard of "right age" (although the law is there for a reason..), you should have sex when you meet someone you love and want to be intimate with, and feel that you are ready. Too many people give into peer pressure or pressure from their partner and have sex early, and then regret it. [ endilwen's advice column | Ask endilwen A Question ]
Pink_Flamingo answered Thursday July 22 2004, 1:06 pm: the right age? Prefrebly when you can support a child and are in a solid relationship. It would probably be good to wait tell your married just incase a child comes along. [ Pink_Flamingo's advice column | Ask Pink_Flamingo A Question ]
Hotblonde123 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 12:29 pm: Well now that I am not a virgin I honestly wish I would have waited untill I was married. I thought I was ready but I wasnt. You cant really ask ppl when the rigt time is cause you are the only one that can answer that. Good Luck with your question. [ Hotblonde123's advice column | Ask Hotblonde123 A Question ]
Angel_advice answered Thursday July 22 2004, 12:03 pm: The right age is usually at least 20 or whenever your ready.
xogiggles37xo answered Thursday July 22 2004, 11:59 am: sum ppl like waiting until their married... sum like waiting till their parents tlk to them about it... but itz really ur choice when u think itz the right time, go for it. <3 xogiggles37xo. [ xogiggles37xo's advice column | Ask xogiggles37xo A Question ]
xOchErrytWistOx answered Thursday July 22 2004, 11:55 am: there is no right age to have sex. phsyically, when you hit puberty, your body is ready to have sex. emotionally, you may not be ready so early. if you feel ready and you want to do it, you should. if u have doubts, wait on it
xoxo
ali [ xOchErrytWistOx's advice column | Ask xOchErrytWistOx A Question ]
d0rkymex3 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 11:44 am: its not really good to have sex before u get married .. thats what i think i`m not gonna have it ever .. unless ii get married !! [ d0rkymex3's advice column | Ask d0rkymex3 A Question ]
L0VELLE answered Thursday July 22 2004, 11:35 am: there is no right age to have sex...sure there are some strange ages...if you're too young it could work against you- but the right age is different for every person...you need to be physically and emotionally ready for sex...if you're 11-14 i doubt you're ready...if you've been with a person for a LONG time...and you feel emotionally stable in the relationship ...then i would say ok...but youi need to think of it this way- are you going to be ok with the person and with your decision after you get it done...will you be happy to know that you gave something up that you can only give up once...if not- then you're not ready... <3 elle [ L0VELLE's advice column | Ask L0VELLE A Question ]
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