Um..I look like a weirdo, I feel like a weirdo, so I most likely am one.
But, I'm pretty good at giving advice.
I'm a nice person, I wont discriminate against you because I don't know you personally, so feel free to ask me anything.
Gender: Female
Location: Among some cornfields in the midwest, US
Age: 16
Member Since: July 27, 2006
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Last Update: August 12, 2008
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Any creative advice on how I can spice up the walls in an apartment?
I can't paint them and I'm going to put up pictures but I need something bigger.
I like bright, vibrant colors and I really want my apartment to reflect that. (link)
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Me and stargirl have the same idea, haha
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/category.jsp?popId=A_FURN_BEDDING&navAction=jump&navCount=28&id=A_FURN_BEDDING_SPREADS
^ sheets that can double as tapestries.
I think you'll enjoy these if you like color. :)
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i need help with my dorm room. it is pretty small, but i want a few things to spice it up. mainly these things will be on the walls because i won't be able to have a lot of furniture or anything in such a small space.
-i am a creative, artsy person that likes music, art, poetry, dance intellectual things
-i'm a huge girly girl
-my bedspread has blue and white colors in it so far but i dont want to confine myself to only shades of blue
-i am into tropical things
-i love black
i am kind of all over the place. thus, i dont know how to decorate my dorm!!!! pleaseee help (link)
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I definitely agree with heybbylovee in that lighting is a key factor.
Also, you colud buy a tapestry for your walls since you can't paint them.
urbanoutfitters.com has a lot of sheets that double as such. and lots of other odds and ends.
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/category.jsp?popId=A_FURN_BEDDING&navAction=jump&navCount=56&id=A_FURN_BEDDING_SPREADS
^ There's a link to some you can look through, good luck!
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Hi! I'm the 8th grade class president at my school... One of my jobs is to design a shirt for our class... I've gone around and gotten some ideas from people.. But nobody can think of anything... We would really rather it say something about 2013 instead of 8th grade.. I hope somebody can help me!!!!! (link)
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How about something simple like, "Class of 2013- Who says it's bad luck?"
Or something along those lines, good luck with whatever you choose to do though!
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(14.f) Sorry if its long.
Okay well,I noticed that I sweat sometimes and then it starts to stink now..I asked my parents for deodorant,but they said it's "bad" because it covers your armpit and you can't sweat,etc.etc. I want to use deodorant 'cause I'm worried about school.It's just that they won't let me! They also say like if you use it, then you have to use it more and more and then you might get cancer or whatever at your armpit.What can I do? How do I make them know that I need it? Even my mom uses it sometimes, but then shes like, see even I don't use it alot!
Then I have another issue about my body hair on my arm and my leg.As you see, for PE,I usually have to wear capris or sweat pants, but my gym teacher says I should wear shorts.Well I mean I want to wear shorts on like hot days.But instead I wear capris.But now if I wear capris, you can then see my leg hair.AHEM,once again, I cant shave,wax,or use those lotion/spray to remove my hair!A lot of my classmates don't have hair and they can wear shorts without looking bad.I also have some on my arm.Well its better then my leg.Its much more skinnier, but now my leg hair is more thicker.Well I don't want to shave anyways..I heard waxing hurts..I wanna use that lotion/spray thing.But Since I have bad skin(dry, etc.), my parents say like,"what are you thinking?!?you know you have bad skin,if you do use it then don't tell me when its red or whatever.I won't take you to the doctor, and then starts giving me a lecture.Well none of my parents or aunts have body hair,I'm like the only one. Except my dad has some.BUT NOT A LOT LIKE ME.Well he's a guy so I don't think they should be so caring about it anyways.Well..I'm a girl so I care..Is there any way?!?!?!?!? I really wanna get rid of the hairs on my leg for sure!!
ANY ADVICE, I WOULD APPRICIATE!!! Please help.. Thankss! (link)
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I'd buy deodorant and keep it in my gym locker at school, or hide it at home.
And about the hair dilemma, I'd start shaving and making sure I use lotion afterwards.
Your parents can't do anything to stop you after you've already gotten rid of the hair. And hair growing back thicker is a myth, it just seems thicker because the razorcuts the hair at an angle. And if you shave regularly, you don't have to worry about it much anyway.
But don't try getting rid of your arm hair, shaving will make them stubbly, and it's just weird looking.
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i dont know if this goes here but w/e now this is embrrasing to ask ok so is it normal or abnormal to have one mipple bigger then the other one? i mean like one is bigger then the other so is there any thing i can do to make them the same size besides any type of surgery???? please help me i feelakward asking this but w/e (link)
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Don't even let that worry you.
Everyone is different, and if whoever you're with really cares about you, it wont matter to them either. They should just be glad you're willing to show yourself to them.
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does anymore know any good household products at home that can get well this is a little embarassing but blood stains out of your underwear? (link)
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Cold water and dish soap.
Then wash them in the washing machine.
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Hehe hi everybody, i may be the only guy in this column.
I am wondering... my girlfriend likes it when im neat and tidy... downstairs, but its a major hassle and really quite dangerous if you ask me. Would this Nair shit, the mousse or whatever be able to help me out or would it burn uncontrollably? i mean for everywhere, not just above the waistline.
Thanks everybody (link)
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I'd stick to shaving- cremes and gels along with waxes and other products can have some nasty side effects and I think I'd rather be with a guy that was hairy than a guy with burned, freakout-out skin.
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Hey, my boyfriend and I just broke up after 2 years. He doesn't really care anymore, yet i'm still torn after the whole thing, so i need songs to make me feel better.
What are good break-up songs (that aren't slow) that'll make me feel better? (link)
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I really don't know what kind of music you listen to or anything so it's hard to tell you music to listen to.
But um, I've been in a relationship for about a year and a half, so if you need to talk or anything my e-mail address is checkered__demon@hotmail.com
So yeah, feel free to add me to msn or anything, but don't feel like you have to. I'm just trying to help. :)
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what are some good eye shadow colors for brown eyes that make them like really pop? kthanks in advance (link)
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I'm not going to go in-depth with this since you've already gotten a bunch of answers, but try using navy blue eyeliner (Or eyeshadow, I've never tried it, but you might as well test it out). It makes the whites of your eye look brighter, which causes a nice contrast and brings out the brown in your iris.
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do you think this would be an efficiant workout to do to lose a few pounds in about a month? i'd probably do it about 4 times a week.
:100 jumps (like jump roping without the rope lol)
:50 bicycles
(then do that again & again for 10 mins straight)
:then dancing for 10 mins to hip hop or something
do you think that that would help me burn a little bit of extra fat from my thighs and lower back/sides?
thankss (link)
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If you're looking to burn fat from your thighs, squats are a good excersize.
Try about 15 the first time and work your way up to fifty. It also helps in strengthening your leg muscles.
Good luck, and if you have any questions about this, feel free to ask.
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I have very low self esteem and I dont like being around people because of my figure...
im about 5'7''-5'8'', and a little under 150 lbs. I dont think I am "ugly" but im not skinny at all. My first day of school is in like 20 days, and I wanna look a little better if possible. I dont want to like crash diet, but I do wanna work out and stuff. I need some ideas on how to tone up my body, please and thank you. (link)
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Um. You're probably not going to be thrilled over my comment here, not many people are.
But, I'm a vegetarian, and have been for over a year and have lost a lot of body fat because of it and look a lot leaner. But if you go that route remember to find other ways to get protein in your diet, by vitamins or eating soy products like boca burgers.
People don't realize how much weight we gain from eating red meats like steaks or beef.
Also, if you're not into totally giving up meat, you can still try eating white meat like chicken OR eat fish.
This, plus a little regular excercise and staying away from fatty and sugary foods will help you both look and feel healthier. Although it does take a little time and self-discipline.
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well I do know the whole "always use a condom" thing, but every now and then its just not there right? SO I was wondering if you keep up with your birth control taking it the right time every day and you dont use a condom what are the chances of gettin pregnant? (link)
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If there's no condom available, you don't have sex. Easy as that.
Then you don't have to worry about how effective the pill is and if you're somehow pregnant.
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I really like this boy but know he is useing me. he and i are "friends with benifits" It doesn't matter how much i tell myself he doesn't like me, i just can't keep myself from callig him, answering his calls and hanging out with him..I don't know what to do about him and he's all i think about.could someone please just try and help me decided what to do about him? (link)
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Stop.
I did the same thing a while ago, and later found out the guy was a jerk.
Tell yourself you deserve better than that, and any guy that wont be in a real relationship with you is just immature and not worth your time of day. Eventually you'll find someone better and worthwhile, who will actually love you and not use you as a means of releasing sexual tension and dealing with their hormones.
No guy is worth freaking out about, especially if being "friends with benefits" is all he wants.
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Hi everyone. I've heard this one song like a million times and I know almost every word to it, but I've never been able to figure out the artist.
Anyways the songs goes like this:
Love of mine, someday you will die
But I'll be close behind and I'll follow you into the dark
No blinding light or tunnels to gates of white
Just out hand clasped to tight, waiting for the hint to spark
But if heaven and hell decide that they both are satisfied
And illuminate the NOs on their vacancy signs
that should be enough to tell the name of the group that sings it, thanks. [= (link)
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It's by DeathCab for Cutie.
And you're welcome. :)
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ok so i have a lot of discharge, and i have not had my period yet.well the discharge is ruining all my underwear. i live with my dad cause my mom passed away.if u tell me to get pads or something like that, tell me how to deal with telling my dad or how to get them.
thx a ton!
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Everyone has vaginal um..."secretions", it's how your body cleans itself. And there's not really anything people can do about it..I wouldn't suggest pads though because they're a pain, and I wouldn't want to have to wear them any longer than I had to.
But, if that's the route you want to take, try buying panty-liners first, they're really thin so they don't aggravate you through the day. Then, if those still don't work, you can try other types of pads.
Good luck, and if you have any other questions, feel free to ask me.
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Ok I need some advice. I really want to shave my hair "down there" because it bothers me to wear bikinis and stuff. I don't think my mom wants me to but I know she wont get mad if I do. I just need to know if it grows back fast ( how long) and is it painful to shave. I don't want to shave it off then regret doing it. Do alot of people shave there? Please help. Thanks (link)
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The first few times you shave, it's a little uncomfortable when the hair starts growing back.
But you get used to it after the first couple times.
Oh, and let the hair grow out a bit before you shave it again, otherwise you can get razorburn, which isn't very fun. Another thing you can do instead of shaving the whole area, is just shave where your swimsuit doesn't cover. Good luck.
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i really want to get a shampoo that straightens your hair. i don't have really wavy or curly hair, but its kinda wavy.idk it just annoys me. my cousin said something about a new garnier frutisse? (sp?) or i was thinking the purple sunsilk. idk. so could anyone tell me which one works better, and if there was any more good ones?
thanks xo (link)
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Go with Sunsilk, I haven't used the kind that straightens yet, but everything else I've ever tried from their line, I've loved. And I've tried Garnier, and agree with those before me, that if anything, it makes it worse.
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Ok....i am really addicted to pop....but i wana stop drinking it and i was wonderin if you know how much weight i would lose in a month from just not drinking pop? (link)
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I agree with the person that answered before me that there's no way for us to calculate how many pounds you'll lose. But, a few years ago I swore off pop for a year and after a while you don't even miss it. And I lost about 10 pounds just from that alone without cutting anything else out of my diet or becoming extemely active.
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My hair is really poofy. Even after I straighten it bottom layer, then top. I've bleached my hair and all that good stuff. I was wondering, if I got my hair chemicaly straightened, would that make it non-poofy?
Sorry, for the bad spelling. (link)
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I have the same problem with poofiness as you and I've tried multiple shampoos, conditioners, sprays, gels, cremes, masques, the whole nine yards. And the one thing that's honestly worked for me is from a new line of Sunsilk products. Get the one that says 'anti poof' on the front, and it's in a blue bottle if that helps lol. But it doesn't do anything for straightening or frizz-control, so you'll most likely still have to use an iron.
Good luck.
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