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I'm a lesbian and 15 and I'm hanging out with my friend tomorrow. Should I come out to her and tell her because I have the urge to tell my friends and my parents already know and they're ok with me but I've never told any of my friends yet and I have this huge urge to. My parentes are just nervous for me to tell People blecaute of how homophobic People are. Should i come out? (link)
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You should tell her and be 100% honest about it you are who you re and you shouldn't be ashamed of it (: if shes a true friend she will stay by your side no matter what. But if she doesn't take it to well remember there's alot more girls in the world who will accept you for you hopefully this helps you (:
~Kennaloo~
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Im 17 years old, I haven't been on here in atleast 4 or 5 years and I decided to make a new account and start fresh! Ok, so here is my problem. I dated this guy, Mike, for 3 1/2 years about 2 years ago. I was younger and he was 4 years older then me, but thats beyond the point. He was my first love, and I was his first love. Things were kind of shaky in the relationship, but we were both really immature and new to the whole "love" thing. We broke up a few times a week, but it was almost to the point where we were expecting it. Eventually we broke up for good but it was almost impossible to stay away from each other. We'd talk about getting back together all the time but it would never fall through because we knew we needed to end it and just live our young lives apart for awhile. Eventually we stopped talking as often and I started dating this guy like 6 months after we broke up for good. He would still text me occasionally and ask me how I was doing, and to let me know that if I needed anything he'd be there for me. Although I dated this other guy, Keith, for a year and a half, the love I had for him was NOTHING compared to the love I had for Mike. Around 6 months ago me and Keith broke up and I haven't talked to him since, which doesn't bother me one bit. But since Keith and I have been broken up, Mike and I have been hanging out occasionally and talking on a more regular basis, but he has a girlfriend that he's currently living with but claims he can't stand her and wants to break up but is scared how things will work out between me and him and if they ended up shitty he'd lose his current girlfriend as well. I do feel bad that he plays his current girlfriend, but its a first love type of thing, I cant get enough of him. I do want to be with him again, but he has awhole other life with another girl. He invited me to the beach for the weekend with him, and said we could talk about getting back together when we go, but why would he invite me to go with him and not his current girlfriend. I hate being a second choice to him, but I dont want to be like "break up with her and get back with me" since I'd forcing a relationship that may end up not working in the end and I have no right to be telling him what to do. I really want to be with him again, because of course I still love him, but I dont know how to react to everything. Thanks everyone, I know this was long.. (link)
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Well I believe you should just move on there ALOT more guys out in the world I have had the same problem as you..you'll get through this but I really think you should move on because mr right might be closer than u think;) hope I helped
Kennaloo
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So my boyfriend and I had sex with a condom and I know I shouldnt worry of any pregnancy but I am still scared I could be ? Should I worry?? (link)
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Well to be honest condoms aren't a 100% safe but it usually works and you won't become pregnant .. You shouldn't be worried about it I think everybody is scared about that on their first time
Hope this helped you (:
~Kennaloo~
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Me and a group of friends decided that me and a guy would pretend date to pull a prank on his sister. She's really nosey and gives him no privacy, so I figured I would help him out and teach her a lesson on minding her own buisiness. (I am close friends with the sister) But a problem came along... I fell for the guy. Like I don't even think of it as pretend dating anymore. What do I do? (link)
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I think you should tell the guy he might feel the same way about you the most important thing is to come out and be honest and not run from the thought...hopefully this helps good luck to you have a great time (:
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im going into 7th grade this year, and in 2 days i will be going to all girls sleepaway camp for a week. it is grades 7-12, so i'll be the youngest going.
how can i:
-make friends really fast (there is a 5 hour bus ride)
-fit in with the older girls?
-be fun and liked while still being myself?
thanks, and please respond asap as im leaving on sun. morning (link)
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Well the number 1 most important thing is to be yourself an don't try to be somebody your not.. But you should talk to people be nice and kind and don't be somebody your not and if yourself you can meet a friend that you could be friends with for along time or maybe forever hope this helps and have a great time on your trip and make lot of friends (:
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So I did snakebites on myself about 5 weeks ago. They're completely healed now, the only problem is....when I take the. stud out and put a finger on each side of the hole, it feels like there is something inside it....what could this be? And how do I stop the frount of my lip ring from getting crust on it? I clean it with rubbing alcahol daily. Thanks(: (link)
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I bealive you are doing a great job with it and your on the right track but if it doesn't heal properly you might want to go see a precessional on it because you may have or have an infection hope this helped u (:
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So, 13/f and I met this dude. 16/m and I haven't really met him offiicially or seen the guy. I just try to imagine him. Lets just say his name is Mike. When I think about his REAL name the thing that comes to mind is blonde hair blue eyes and let the rest fall in place. Well, we talked over the power of the internet and he sounds really nice and harmless. I don't know who he really is or what he looks like we met by chance on this really cool website and happened to hit him up about it. I think I like him, he sounds pretty harmless to me, but that's just the internet, he might be some homeboy trying to get a life. Who knows he might even a 50 perverted year old dude who is lonely and stupid. So, how do I get to bring up the subject of what we look like in a convo while chatting?? Is 3 years older than me way out of my league?? I mean, IDK if he's in a relationship wit someone, but I want to get some ideas. Can you guys give me some please?? Thanks so much. (link)
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Well meeting people over the intrenet isnt really a good idea because he could be a she, he could be lowing about his age and anything he ever said to you, it's not very safe, and to be honest I don't think it's a good idea for you to be with him but it is your choice I'm just trying to help thanks for reading this and hope this helps you in your case have a great day (:
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Sorry that it would be long. But please have patience reading this. I am 25. I met this guy when I had my vacation in Europe last year. We fell in love with each other and spent 3 months almost together. When I went back to my homeland, I just found out that I am pregnant. When my stepfather learned about it, he was really mad and said really hurtful words towards me and my fiance. I accepted everything. Good thing my stepfather lives in different country, so we just talk thru email. He's mad that I got pregnant without having savings yet same with my fiance and because my fiance is a Moslim. He is really a good guy, responsible, loving and the sweetest guy Ive ever met. My stepfather hates Moslims, he's very judgemental and really strict. He paid for me since I was 11 until before I got pregnant. That's why he is really controlling towards me. I don't think that he really sees me as a daughter, I think more of an investment. There was a time too that he had bad intention towards me, he touched my breast few years back. It didn't happen again after I confronted him about it. But I just don't feel really comfortable everytime my stepfather is around.
I gave birth to a healthy cute baby girl and he's still mad. When my fiance and I decided to get married next year, my stepfather really disagrees. He is the most negative person on earth. Since I got pregnant, until now, he sends email to my mother about his negativity towards me and my fiance, it stresses my mum already. I understand that he wants me to marry a guy who has savings and an own house but my fiance is doing his best for me and our daughter. We are planning to bring me and our daughter in his country when everything is stable already. He talks like my fiance is a criminal or something, as if he knows him. But he just saw him one time. What really insulted me is when my stepfather asked me thru email "are you that cheap?" I never felt insulted my whole life. I told him I'm not gonna read his emails anymore. And that I don't feel like he sees me as a daughter. You wouldn't tell your daughter, are you that cheap? I respect the man but I have enough. He cant control me my whole life and I want to decide for myself. Im gonna choose on whom to marry, not him.
I just want how you guys think about this. At the end of the day, of course, I'll still stick on my decision. Thanks in advance. (link)
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Well I beleave that you did a great job standing up for yourself and at the end of the day all that matters is what you think of yourself and not of what your stepfather thinks .. I can tell that you are very strong and you don't give up and that's very good (: hope this lighten up your day!
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My sister is 3 years younger than me and she hits me and pinches me and even bites me, I have scars from her and I have considered self harm as relief from the stress she gives me. She tells my Cousin (who is 5) to harm me and he does, I feel like I can't escape. I always end up with the blame and my parents don't notice or say they don't want to hear it, if she is hurting me and I hit her to defend myself she runs crying to my parents and I always get the blame, I want it to end but I feel like I can't escape, please help! (link)
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Well hitting is never the answer and just makes the situation worse in your case if your sister is abuseing you..you need to speak out to your parents show them the scars or go to somebody an show them and explain your case and If your parents won't do something about I'm sure someone else will hope this helps u (: good luck !
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i have serious problem at home.my mother is constantly criticizing me. the moment the day starts she goes on from whatever errand i do..its never appreciated. everything has a flaw, u cud not clean it properly, u forgot to do this , to the point i borrowed her scarf, she got so possessive, wear like this it will spoil it. does not matter how i look. and if i want to do my way, i get abused, she starts blaming herself, banging everything, blaming her life, telling me what all she has done for us, and i can never measure up to her. i have to live like a robot in my house, i dont get any privelages like other kids i don't complain i never complained, if i asked for something and i dint get it, i never asked again, but this is too much..i cant take this critizing. i cant always be wrong. i feel so unappreciated... (link)
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Well I think she's just fustraited with something but she loves you or she wouldn't let you live with her and have you tried to communicate because it's really important especially for mother and daughter just have a talk with her don't fight back with her on your "flaws" just tell her this is how I feel and I want this to change and that to change and ask her what she needs from you and wants from you but do it in a respectful tone... Hopefully this helps (: good luck!
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ok so in 5th grade like 3 years ago me, my bestfriend,her brother and my guy friend played truth or dare at night. we did alot of dirty stuff like kissing the guys and letting each other see our private parts. im moving to 8th grade now and i have a new bestfriend i met last year. she is trustable but i feel like i should wait more to tell her about that night. i only told her we played truth or dare and we did stuff i wouldnt like to talk about and i have a feeling she knows what it is . is it okay to do that stuff ? im still a virgin , but i feeel like others done worse than me so i dont feel that bad . what should i do about the trust issues help me ! teenks (: (link)
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I bealive that you were young and well nobody is perfect and the past is the past don't be ashamed of what happend you should tell your friend about it when the the time feels right hope this helped (:
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right mt friend is always pushing me out of the group of friends she think shes all it but she isent i think im getting into the wrong crowed deffo with her in the group what shall i do guys??? (link)
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I don't bealive that's a really good friend for you or for anybody I think you should just find a crowd you fit in and don't worry about what people say hope this helped or helps (:
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k so i met this girl this year in 7th grade and she became my bestfriend and and she became so popular! were going onto 8th now and im always jealous of her , feel like she has a better life than me. the boys are always after her and it pisses me off sometimes. her picture on facebook gets atleast 60 likes all the time, she always gets attention, posts pictures saying im ugly ew and yet she admits shes pretty ! i just dont know . ugh im jealous, i know that im pretty too but when i compare myself to her i feel like shit. but her sister died last year so i cant argue with her that her lifes better. (link)
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Well I understand your situation I have been in it but to be honest and with all respect it doesn't matter what people think of you or anybody it only matters what you think of yourself I had to learn that to because I was in your position once I know how it feels and it sucks ...hope this helped you :)
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Once when I was dancing to a song from a kids show, my mom came in and watched me. I wasn't doing anything but what the people from the show were doing (it was a Scooby Doo movie) and my mom told me I was dancing like a slut. What do I do to make her less mad at me. Because if I ever object at anything then she says she bets that if i ever were offered drugs, i would take them. She does an impression of me that sounds whiny and really really mean. I wouldn't do that but she doesn't seem to understand that.
She compares me to my "perfect" siblings and If they yell at me she always blames me for it.
My question is: what should I do to gain my mother's approval? (link)
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Your mother loves you and probable just hates that her daughter is growing up and nobody is perfect I think you should sit down with your mother and talk with her about this and she will respect you for taking time out of your day to talk with her because it is your mother that you love and don't want to disappoint ...... Hope this helps (:
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I'm 13/F and well, there's this guy I really like and he likes me back (13/M). He asked me out 4 times already and I said no to all of them. I mean, he didn't sound desperate, in fact he wasn't desperate at all. When he aked me out the 4th time I told him the real reason rather than saying, "because I'm done dating." I told him I couldn't because I didn't want to get in trouble with my family. The catch is, is that he understands, but says "I love you, I miss you," all those gushy things. I say it back to him of course, but it feels weird saying it back because of what my family would think, like they'd think I'm breaking the promise. I don't know how to say it to my mom without me probably getting in trouble. Will I get in trouble? Can anbody help me? please? (link)
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It's very normal for a girl your age to want to date a guy it very understandable what you should do is ask your mom..mom may I please start dating? And I highly doubt you will get into trouble for asking because you aren't doing it behind her back your disrespecting her wishes I've been in your place and I told my mom and she was very happy I told her before I started to date now I I'm in a happy relationship hope this helped :)
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