Member Since: July 12, 2012
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Last Update: August 16, 2012
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I'm 20/f. When I was 15, I started having sex with my boyfriend of that time. I only ever had sex with him, no one else. And I don't have a shy personality, but I'm very modest and conservative. Not in the goodie goodie way, I'm just self conscious. Anyway, I'm probably going to have sex with this other guy soon. He's already performed oral, but I'm nervous about sleeping with someone new and foreign (not in a racial sense). Its been so long, I haven't had vaginal sex in over a year and a half. How do I prepare myself? I know I sound ridiculous but sex is very important to me, its symbolic and I'm looking at this as if I'm losing my virginity again. (link)
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It sounds like you know about the risks involved and whatnot, so I won't mention anything about that.
As long as you're relaxed, sure you're ready to engage in becoming sexually active again and are confident that he's going to respect your body and your demands (as far as going slowly and being soft in the beginning, etc.) you should be just fine.
Just remember that sex shouldn't be painful, however, it may be slightly uncomfortable for the first few strokes. That's just your body stretching to accommodate him and it should go away relatively soon and become not only comfortable, but also quite pleasant!
If it's too much, ask him to stop.. I'm sure you know that, but sometimes we will hold our tongue and not say anything because we don't want to stop or look silly. Just be sure that you're comfortable and it all seems right.
I hope I helped you and I hope you have fun, and don't stress out too much - everything will be just fine.
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My boyfriend and I make-out and everything, but sometimes I wish he would touch me a little. Like grab my butt or something. How can I get him to do that? (link)
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You might want to take into consideration that he's not ready for that. It might be a slightly uncomfortable conversation but before trying to suggest anything, perhaps you may want to ask him if he is indeed ready to explore more of your body than just your lips and tongue.
If he is, you can either verbally tell him what you'd like for him to do (or rather, what is okay for him to do) or you can grab onto his hands and playfully show him. He might think this is cute and be much more comfortable grabbing you or touching you when you guide him the first time.
Have fun :]
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Are AA meetings just for Alcoholics or can other users go there? Like for heroine and stuff?
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AA meetings are primarily for Alcoholics, yes. However, if you're going for drug addiction problems (especially for heroin/opiate addiction) and there are no NA (Narcotics Anonymous) meetings near you, the AA meetings are a good, safe place for you to go to begin your recovery.
Good luck, it's a hard road to take but recovery and sobriety are worth every second.
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okay so like I wanna give my bf a handjob but i need to be able to do it without lube. uhmm and like i dont wanna use spit cause that would be awkward soooo ya how can i give a handjob with no lube????? (link)
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Is there a reason you need to do with WITHOUT lube?
When a penis gets hard, the skin also becomes hotter than normal which increases the amount of friction between your hand and his sensitive area.
Generally it doesn't feel great for a man. Plus, it's almost kind of awkward for the person giving the handjob because you can't really create a rhythm as your hand sort of.... Sticks to the skin and gently pulls.
It's about as unpleasant as it sounds, really.
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19/f
he is 22.
I've liked him since last august. i see him maybe every other month. but in the summer it's more like every few weeks. everytime i'm with him he gives me so much attention, hugs me first, walks me out, etc. he loves Jesus and i love that about him. he likes my statuses and pictures all the time.
but we don't text for fun or anything, maybe a little if he has a question. what does this mean?! does he even like me? why does this happen?! (link)
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It sounds like you don't get to spend as much time around him or talking to him as you'd like.. So maybe that should be a good place to start! You mentioned status' and pictures.. so I'm assuming that you are in contact with him via social networking sites like Facebook or Twitter... This would be a good place to ask him (privately) for his phone number so you could text or call.
This would give you a good platform to casually ask him to hang out with you and eventually give him the opportunity to either tell you how he feels about you himself, or give yourself the opportunity to ask him.
After all, that's the only REAL way to know if someone likes you.... Right?
Good luck!
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