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Handjobs: how can i give a handjob with no lube?
okay so like I wanna give my bf a handjob but i need to be able to do it without lube. uhmm and like i dont wanna use spit cause that would be awkward soooo ya how can i give a handjob with no lube?????
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It's not clear why you "need" to give the hj without lube, but let's assume you have a good reason. Let's also assume he's circumcised. If you are creative, there are a lot of solutions. To begin with, men produce seminal fluid that not only delivers the sperm, but also helps lubricate. You will want to caress the penis slowly and lightly, keeping him hard. Giving him access to your breasts, kissing him lightly on the lips with occasionally probing your tongue into his mouth will help excite him and keep him hard. Keep it slow. Caress his ball and use your fingers to put pressure directly under the scrotum to increase the tension. Before long, this seminal fluid will begin to ooze out. Slowly use it to become your lubrication. Start by just lightly smearing the fluid over the head glans. Move down to the corona (that little ridge) and continue to keep it slow and somewhat unpredictable. Be aware of his reactions. If he starts to get limp, slow down and let him explore you and give you pleasure. This is always a big turn-on. This method is slower, but can be a lot more fun, so enjoy it!
While it may take a while the first time, each subsequent time should produce lubrication faster.
Another solution is to use baby powder. Again, keep the touch light. You can have faster action - but don't squeeze too hard. In this case, the seminal fluid might be a hindrance. When it leaks out, it could cause friction (mixed with the baby powder), so be careful. Baby powder has the additional advantage of having a very aphrodisiac smell. It reminds us of when we were tiny babies, safe and loved and cared for.
Another fun alternative is to use a condom. A lubricated condom can be slipped into his pants and on his penis and you can jack him off without anyone knowing and easily dispose of the jizz when he comes. Even a non-lubricated condom can reduce the painful friction enough to make it enjoyable.
Hope this helps...
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Is there a reason you need to do with WITHOUT lube?
When a penis gets hard, the skin also becomes hotter than normal which increases the amount of friction between your hand and his sensitive area.
Generally it doesn't feel great for a man. Plus, it's almost kind of awkward for the person giving the handjob because you can't really create a rhythm as your hand sort of.... Sticks to the skin and gently pulls.
It's about as unpleasant as it sounds, really.
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To give a handjob with lude or spit just rib the top of his penis or try to get him very horny and erect before .
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If you use your mouth, yes. Otherwise, not really.
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