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is this okay, please help me .
ok so in 5th grade like 3 years ago me, my bestfriend,her brother and my guy friend played truth or dare at night. we did alot of dirty stuff like kissing the guys and letting each other see our private parts. im moving to 8th grade now and i have a new bestfriend i met last year. she is trustable but i feel like i should wait more to tell her about that night. i only told her we played truth or dare and we did stuff i wouldnt like to talk about and i have a feeling she knows what it is . is it okay to do that stuff ? im still a virgin , but i feeel like others done worse than me so i dont feel that bad . what should i do about the trust issues help me ! teenks (:
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I think you should tell her if you trust her enough. If you feel lke you can tell her anything and that she is someone you can really trust. I don't really think what you did was that bad. I get that you were in 5th grade which is kinda young, but you were also kinda foolish then in a way, so I think if she is a really good friend she wouldn't judge you or tell anyone.
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If you and your new friend are close there should be no judging and like others have said you were young and made a mistake. Once you feel comfortable telling her and the time is right, it'll just happen and you'll feel a lot better :)
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I bealive that you were young and well nobody is perfect and the past is the past don't be ashamed of what happend you should tell your friend about it when the the time feels right hope this helped (:
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That is a very young age to start exploring, but what's done is done. If she seems trustworthy, go ahead and tell her. Otherwise, there is no "law" that says that you have to tell her exactly what happened. If it comes up in conversation and you feel comfortable telling her, then go ahead. In the end it comes down to what you feel comfortable in her knowing. However, just realize that if she happens to slip up and tell someone, would you be upset with people knowing that information? If yes, you might not want to share it just yet.
Hope this helped!
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Well to start things off
I think that you shouldnt have shown womenHood to anybody at such a young age.
And if your new best friend is who you say she is then I think you should tell her, aslong as she isnt the kind of girl who tells Everyone Everything.
If you have known her for a year and you Trust her to keep your secret Than you should tell her if you strongly feel like you want too.
I'm not saying that you HAVE to her. I'm just telling you that if she is trustworthy to hold a secret, Than you can decide yes or no.
If it helps you feel better, I have done some REALLY stupid things when I was in a kid that I have to live with, I would rather die then give that secret to Anybody. But I told my best friend and she said that she wouldn't Tell anybody what had happen to me. That is why our bond is so strong. Because we tell eachother Everything and we Trust eachother strongly.
Do what you feel like doing, tell her or not.
Only if you want too.
GOODLUCK!
-David
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