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what do you guys think ? helpp mee
k i met my bestfriend this year in 7th grade, were gong onto 8th now and she is popular.she told me that her and her friend ( friend thats a girl) kissed each other on the lips " just for fun" . on facebook her friend admitted that shes her "kiss buddy " so i think theyv not only kissed once. well she never got her first kiss yet so idk what do you guys think ?
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You guys are still young, and new to the exploring aspect. It isn't abnormal for young girls to want to experiment, however, you don't have to be involved. I've had a handful of friend who have kissed girls "just for fun" and I'm sure they heard it from an older kid. It's no big deal, but if it bothers you, then either don't discuss it, don't do it, or make a new friend. Don't read too far into their small kiss. It's probably nothing.
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Are you comfortable with it? If you are, you should let her know and distance yourself a little. If not, continue your friendship. I always advise to go around a little, meet other people! Say 'hi' to people who you normally wouldn't even bother to give a second thought about. Sometimes you'll find people you'll like, people who you won't like but you have nothing to lose. By talking to other people you gain confidence, and you're known a little better. Don't close yourself to this girl if you're not comfortable with her. Let her know what you feel about that. This is usually the age where we start expressing our sexual likings, whether it's through crushes, kisses or whatever else, we express it. If she's bisexual, lesbian or heterosexual you may need to think if you want to continue the friendship. My best friend is a bisexual girl, I love her for it but I'm heterosexual and we've set the limits. I'm not very comfortable with her touching me beyond hugs. Some people are seriously bothered by it, others are not. Either way, best of luck! [:
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