Member Since: July 13, 2012
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Last Update: July 13, 2012
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HI pls help meh out .. i have a bf n we have been dating for bout 9 months ..at the beginning he used to talk bout all .. how we should have kids n we should marry ... n then .. after we had sex .. not saying only after sex .. but for a month .. its been weird ... everytime i talk bout that he is like .. we ll c .. dont know ... dont think too much .. n then i was like so ur not planning to marry meh n he said i ll be bored to death if we talk bout this .. so i cant talk bout anything i like ... since we r going to uni in bout a month in completely different country .. do u think i should break up with him or should i try to continue it with him? i cry sometimes .. cause wat he says just hurts meh sometimes .. n i m a vry emotional girl .. so m worried .. does he wnts to continue .. n yesterday he asked meh ... if we break uo will we still be freinds .. n all i said was maybe .. so? wat shall i do? (link)
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oh babe, how i feel for you! i too am a very emotional woman and have been in your situation very recently. when we got together he was all for spending our lives together, marriage, the whole lot. i was totally honest with him, im bipolar and it can be difficult to be around me sometimes. but he said he wasnt like other men, but he lied. in the last 3 months hes avoided talking about the future, he cleverly changes the subject. 3 nights ago though we talked and he said he still wants us to grow old together etc, but hes been quite distant. then this morning he packed his stuff, said "i love you, but i cant do this. i thought i could, but i cant, im sorry but its over". so my advice to you is if your guy is avoiding talking future issues and one or both of you are off to uni, then i would jump ship now sugar. read the signs, they are all there. maybe u should take the initiative and suggest to him that putting your relationship on hold or ending it would be best for you both. do this face to face if you can and watch his reaction. this will tell you all you need to know. good luck for the future babe, hope everything works out xx
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Okay. Well i really dont know where to begin but im gonna try my hardest to not make this long.
For the past 3 years, i have been head-over-heels for this guy. Long story short. Im practically in love with my step-brother. please dont judge me i have only known him for 4 years. Anyways, last year i was told by his mom, my stepmother, that he had a gf. O.o what? I tried to play it off because 1)they, she & my dad, didnt know how i felt, & 2)we were in a restaurant. So when she told me this my eyes started swelling up with tears & i ended up running to the bathroom. Okay i get it. You know at that time we havent seen each other for a year & now 2. I eventually ended up telling them & they were okay with it. Recently i got into an argument with my stepmom because she got mad at me over nothing, & i took it personally & assumed that now she hates me because of 'J'. She then apologizes & let me know that our relationship hasnt changed & she then told me that her daughter is inviting me personally to her baby's first bday party. I would absolutely love to go but the thing is that 'J' is going to be there... MOST DEFINITELY with his gf. & me, just by seeing their fb pictures together makes cry like a baby. I dont wanna go if im gonna cause a scene but i do want to go to support my stepsis. You know not only that but i hsvent seen the dude since march of 2010. i might need some 'closure' per say. Ugh i dont know. Please help me decide. I love this guy for no reason & ive been trying for so long to get over it but its just been impossible. What to do? (link)
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sorry hun, im too late to answer in time,i only joined today. if i were you id have gone along, just to say hello and to show your face so you didnt seem rude. i can understand your predicament, it must b terribly frustrating for you love. maybe seeing him again after a couple of years cud help. in such a way that you cud see him in an altogether new light. sometimes us humans want the things that we cant have, (i know that i have a tendency to be a little like that). but please dont think in belittling your situation as thats the last thing id do. just try and look at your feelings frm a different perspective if you can. the world is full of unrequited love unfortunately. it seems i have a tendency to love those who dont love me back. well i wish you the best of luck and i hope things work out 4 you and you find happiness, all the best from oblivion x
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