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So I had sex with a condom but I am scared of being pregnant
So my boyfriend and I had sex with a condom and I know I shouldnt worry of any pregnancy but I am still scared I could be ? Should I worry??
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Maybe give some free advice about: Condoms?
I know this isn't my place but I'm here to help.
I don't know how old you are but you sound young (sorry if I'm wrong), but you need to be careful. Having sex with a condom may be safe but they can break too. are you on any birth control? If so then, having safe sex with a condom and birth control is okay to a point. If you are scared about getting pregnant even when you are using a condom, maybe you shouldn't have sex until you are really ready.
Hope this helps. :)
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It doesn't sound as if you are really worried about this act getting you pregnant, but are more worried about what would happen if you were to get pregnant. That's a much bigger question. Have you and your boyfriend discussed what you would do if you were to get pregnant? Have the baby? Get married? Give the baby up for adoption? Raise the baby on your own? Have an abortion? These are no small matters.
These are the real questions. If you are planning on having more sex with your boyfriend, it may be wise to have this talk AND use more than one form of birth control. Don't be scared. Take control of your destiny. Live life in a determined manor.
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Good question!
Ok, if you are young(under 18), its always rough your first couple of times, there is never an 100% with condoms or any other contraceptive, unless you have your tubes tied, but you DON'T need to worry about that! Meaning, there is always a chance you could be, if you don't have professional guidance with your sex life, seek some. Now this does not mean tell them every aspect of it, but be responsible, have check ups, take pregnancy tests, ALWAYS use a condom, and if you are over 18, consider birth control, I don't recommend this unless you are responsible and very informed. If you trust your parents, talk to them, if not, stick to a professional. Always remember, practice safe sex. @(ᵕ.ᵕ)@
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To answer your question; you are probably safe. Condoms are 85% effective when worn properly. You are probably safe.
You are now suffering the effects of having under age sex. Think about this before giving into your boyfriend again. Is the few minutes of his pleasure worth all this anxiety and worry?
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Well to be honest condoms aren't a 100% safe but it usually works and you won't become pregnant .. You shouldn't be worried about it I think everybody is scared about that on their first time
Hope this helped you (:
~Kennaloo~
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