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Hi, I'm new to this website but i desperatly need help from other girls my age. I'm fourteen and i have a big problem.. I'm flatchested. ya I know alot of girls are flat at like 13 and some at 14 barely but it seems every single girl has boobs ecxept for me!! ahh i'm always scared to wera bathing suits in front of guys coz they like to pull the tops of as a joke .. but,, if that werwe ever to happen top me all they would see is a flat chest and a very padded bathing suit floating in the water... grrr i'm soo pissed y can't i be normal?? if anyone else has this problem please talk to me also im thinking of trying a breast cream called perfect women it has good ratings and it says to ecxpect results of 1/2 to 2 full cup sizes in just 3 months!! well, i dont know if thats true or not but it was on tv.. mi mom doesnt want to pay for it coz syhe thinks its a scam but i have the money..if u have usesd this product or heard of it fill me in kk? well this was mi firsrt entry im glad i can get this all out without people finding out hoo i really amm. bi (link)
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Hey. Being flat chested at the age of 14 is not a problem. It is true that every girl has boobs, I mean that's just the way girls are. We all have boobs. Some of us just happen to grow faster than others, you might be one of those people whose breasts don't develop until your 15-16. Or they might start growing sooner. You never know, there is nothing you can/should do to change that. That cream I can tell you right now will do you no good at all. Not only is it a scam but for all you know it could ruin the rest of your life. I mean I know someone who took pills to make her boobs bigger because she was 17 and had a B cup and she spent about $40 on it and it didn't even work. So my advice, don't buy this "wonder cream" and just be proud of what you have. At least you don't have a D cup at the age of 13. I did, sometimes boobs aren't the greatest thing in the world. So just be who you are and be proud, don't waste your money or your time. I hope I helped!
Nik
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I know this should probably be in a health section but I couldn't find the right one. Anyways.
I have like this rash kind of thing, all across my neck and the top of my chest. I heard someoen say it might be heat rash once, but I've had it for years and it's never gone away. It's all dry and flaky, and a weird kind of colour. It sounds sick actually but its not that bad! If put a lot of moisturiser on, its goes down for a bit, but its still there, and comes back straight away.
Any ideas how to get rid of it? (link)
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I'm thinking you have reaaally dry skin. Because I used to have that type of thing on my neck and upper chest too. It was kind of like brownish skin. And really dry? If so all you have to do is go to a dermatologist and they will give you a super moisturizing cream that makes it go away.
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My "best" friend carrie went out with mark, who is one of my other best friends. They broke up after three days because Carrie thought Mark liked me instead and ever since then she has changed a lot. Slowly, she can began being obsessed with being popular, lying, attention, cheating, cussing, and she gradually pushed away all of her friends. After she had lost four best friends, she came to me. I heard Carrie talking talking to one of my friends about me and I confronted her CALMLY about it on IM that day.
Carrie: hey
Me: hi
Me: how come you said I was fat?
Carrie: what the hell? i never said that.
Me: I heard you say it
Carrie: I DIDNT SAY THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Me: I heard you and so did about three other people so don't lie. I just want to know why u said it.
Carrie: MY FUCKING GOD!!
Me: can you stop cussing?
Carrie: what the fuck?
Me: okayyyy im going to take that as a no
Carrie: you know what? fuck you
Me: I never even did anything to you.
Carrie: WHO GIVES A FUCK IF I CALLED YOU FAT!? GET THE FUCK OVER IT! FUCK YOU
Then she signed off.
An hour later she called me and said "Look, I'm sorry. I never even said that. I would not ever talk about you behind your back."
I didn't even want to listen to her try and lie again so I just said "ok I'm going. bye" and hung up.
A few minutes later, my friend, Samantha, signed on and said that carrie had said something else about me.
Carrie signed on.
Me: wow. you said ANOTHER thing about me? how do I copy you? Normally I could care less if you said it to my face..but you just told me that you never talk about me behind my back.
Carrie: so?
Me: so, you lied AGAIN.
Carrie: w.e.
Me: can you please just go back to normal..everyone wants the old you. you haven't been normal since you and mark broke up.
Carrie: i dont give a fuck
Me: please stop cussing
Me: ok look i was going to invite you to my party but i cant
Carrie: w.e.
Me: i dont want someone cussing in every sentence at my party and i've asked u nicely to stop
Carrie: I DONT GIVE A FUCK!!
Carrie: SHUT-THE-FUCK-UP!!!!! FUCK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Then she signs off and calls me and says, "LOOK I'M SORRY AND YOU CAN'T ACCEPT THAT, THEN SCREW YOU!" and hung up.
Well, what the heck? What kind of apology is that?!?! She's apologized two more times but I don't really think that's enough after what she did..do you?
Should I ever forgive her or just stop being her friend?
This is long, so I'll give 5's to anyone who at least tries. (link)
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Stop being her friend!! She's being a b*tch to you and if she was really your friend she wouldn't be talking about you behind your back and then denying it. She sounds like she has some mood swing issues and needs some help. Don't worry about her and don't talk to her and just forget about her. Hope this helps you out some.
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someone i noe and care about deeply is doing pot. i want to stop him. i noe he's not like that but that it's probably pure pressure or something. it's really hurting me that all of these people are commenting on his myspace about how he's such a good drinking buddy and he prolly has to drive home after. and i saw pictures of him doing pot. i love him more than you could ever imagine! can someone please tell me a way that i could get to his head and have him stop all of this? please help me. i don't want someone i love in danger!
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First off there is no way in hell you can just make him stop like at the drop of a hat. He started it and he will stop when he gets the picture that it's not all it's cracked up to be. My friends and I used to be like that, until we all got in trouble and had our lives straightened out, sometimes it takes a higher power than friendship to stop someone from doing what is wrong. Pure pressure usually is a part of it but if you really don't want to pure pressure cannot break you down unless you let it. So obviously this is the way your friend wants to be, he is going to experiment and do multiples of things you probably won't like so all I can say is just wait and let this ride itself out. He will see soon that he's hurting the people that really matter. Tell him that those people he's hanging out with and doing the drugs and drinking with aren't real friends, because they aren't. The moment you stop "being cool" they will ditch you like nobody's business. Sorry to say it but I think you will have to wait a while for him to figure it out.
Hope I helped.
Nikki
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okay i am overweight a little and i really want to lose my weight over the summer. the thing is i have to do it by having fun otherwise i lose interest and stop. so i decided to lose weight by jumping on a trampeline every day for a good amount of time. my question is, is this a good way to lose weight? also can you lose a lot? and what are some more fun activities like this? thanks wil rate high. (link)
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I love the trampoline idea. Yeah you can lose a lot of weight especially if you jump for a substantial amount of time each day. I know from experience. But some other things you can do is if you live near a park you could walk to the park every couple of days and just hang out at the park and get exercise up there, you could also if you have any guy friends you can play basketball with them, or wrestling is always fun. That is what I am doing, because I have a son, a job, and my son's father loves basketball and play fighting so I have actually been getting a lot of exercise by doing those things. Hope I helped!
Nikki
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Me and my bf had sex without a condom and he cummed inside me..i was on my period though and it ends in two days. I figure i should be ok because sperm only can survive inside you for 3-5 days right? and the egg for next month wont be coming down for a couple weeks right? should i be worried or am i most likely not pregnent? (link)
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ACTUALLY when your on your period is the least likely of all times to get pregnant. Because when you have your period is when your body is flushing everything out, egg and all. So if the egg is on its way down and out already it isn't very likely that your pregnant.
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I'm 16. My mom always tells me when to do my laundry, when to put it up, and when to clean my room, and quite frankly, I'm sick of it. She always says to me, "You're 16! You should know better than that!" and, "You're 16, you need to get a job!" Basically she uses my being 16 as a reason for me to grow up. Well I can't grow up when my mom won't stop yelling at me to put up my clean clothes when I can do it later. How is clean clothes in a basket in my room going to bother her, or anyone else for that matter?
Anyways, do you agree with me? What do I do? (link)
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I am going to have to say I agree with your mother on this one. But in saying this I will back it up with proof as to why she is right, but also remember I am not saying you are wrong either. Your mother is trying to tell you that procrastination isn't always the best key to life and it is always better to do something now rather than wait till later and possibly even forget about it. She is also right in telling you you need to get a job, at the age of 16 most kids should want to begin to work for their own money and their own things, but me being 16 as well understand the way you feel. You don't want to have to work if you don't have to but getting a job now is preparing you for later in life. School, homework, and a job is hard to juggle along with a social life trust me I know. But as soon as you get a paycheck and have your OWN money in your hands you will love it. She wants you to begin to rely on yourself more than her, since in about 2-3 years you hopefully will be graduating high school and moving out anyways. She shouldn't be telling you when or what to do with your laundry though, if you want to leave clothes in your room go ahead! That is your way of organization, let her know that. Stand your ground but understand where she is coming from as well. There is more than just your side to this story, think about it from her shoes. Hope I helped!
Nikki
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My natural hair colour is a very dark brown but I've been dying it for about a year.
A while ago I tried to dye my fringe hot pink, but it went wrong so it was bright ginger. I tried to dye all my hair chestnut brown to cover it up but the front was still lighter. I dyed it again a few months later but the front was still lighter than everywhere else.
I really want to get it back to my natural colour but the only way I can do that is by growing it out or using a colour stripping solution. I've never used one before and I'm not sure how badly it will damage my hair. I have very thick hair and all the dye hasn't really affected it, so I'm not sure whether or not that will make a difference. Any advice or suggestions on a colour I could dye it would be welcome. (link)
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Well, I've had my hair stripped before with bleach and it messed my hair up really bad! The products used in my hair made me sick and my hair was completely ruined afterwards. It was really brittle and broke a lot and it felt and looked like hay. I had to dye my hair 4 separate times after this to get it to look half way decent. I think you should dye your hair a dark brown, let it grow out and cut the split ends every couple of weeks and use shampoo that has conditioner already in it AND use a conditioner afterwards and put spray leave-in conditioning in it when you get out of the shower while it's still wet. Try not to blow dry it a lot because that also dries it out. Good luck. =)
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I think I might have to be put on birthcontrol because my piriod is always so irregular. I was wondering if I just had to go to the doctor or the gyno? Thanks. =) (link)
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Actually you do have to go to a gyno because a pediatrition doesn't prescribe those kinds of pills. And Planned Parenthood isn't the best place to go for birth control symply because their's often times is to strong for some people or not strong enough and makes some people ill. So my advice is you do HAVE to go to the Gynocalogist to get prescribed birth control. Because I have both a pediatrition and a gyno and i have to go to the gyno for mine.
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Okay so I'm pretty thin; 5'4 and 110 lbs. I really don't like fat, at all on girls. I think girls should be thin and wear a pants size no bigger than a 3 or 5. Five is pushing it.
All my friends are thin and have nice figures as well, like me but I have a few that don't. I mean, they aren't huge but they wear like a 5 in Abercrombie pants. And those of you that shop there know that their sizes run bigger. When I see them in like a bikini (we're always at my house laying out and stuff) I want to throw up.
I don't know why I feel this way and I feel extremely bad sometimes because in my head, I want them to loose weight.
Now, I assure you that I have never said anything along those lines to them and I NEVEERR would, ever. I know I have some sort of problem with weight so I know better than so say something to them.
Does anyone have any ideas on how I can get over this?
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How about you stop throwing up, take your head out of the toilet and look at everyone around you. Not everyone can be anorexic. Some people wear bigger clothes because their body frame is larger, not because they are fat, so maybe if you could look past whats on the outside and stop being so stuck up you would see that not everyone is a freaking stick! If you don't like my advice oh well good. I hope you don't because it's people like you that make size 7-13 people so self concious about themselves. I am a size 13, and I have had people like you telling me that I should kill myself for looking that so maybe if you think about it before you sit and say that everyone should be a size 3 or 5 with a 5 pushing it your problem would go away. Because who cares if they wear a 5 in Abercrombie, who cares! People can look like what they want to and shouldn't have to worry about people like you saying things like what you just said. And I really hope some other people leave comments like this one because I feel that you are completely in the wrong right now. Seek psycological help and then tell us how much better you have gotten. K? Thanks.
Nikki
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Another girls weight isn't any of your business! Please leave me a nice little bit of information on how you feel about my advice. :)
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Last monday my friend wrote "i love you" in german on my assignment book. (when i got to my next class i had another friend translate it) so the next day i wrote a letter asking him if he really felt that way cause he likes to play jokes on me. and he said yes and asked me out. i told him i'd give him an anwser tomorrow (which is tomorrow) i am gonna say no cause no offense hes not my boyfriend type and kind of ugly. how do i tell him no with out recking our friendship? i want guys advice cause i want to know the least hurtfull way to do it. thanks, i'll give 5's (link)
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To me it sounds like you don't want to go out with him because his looks aren't up to your standards. Am I reading this correctly? If not please let me know but if I am then I think you are being very self-centered. He might not be the best looking guy but trust me the less attractive ones treat woman better. I was with a guy who is not at all attractive and we were together for over 2 and a half years so looks aren't everything. This guy treated me like the world, gave me everything and we even talked about marriage. So like I said maybe you should just give him a shot, and if you don't like it then you can always tell him, "Hey I don't see this working in the future, maybe we should just stay friends." I hope you reconsider what you will do, if not I am sorry. Hope I helped.
Nikki
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This question has been asked alot, but mine's a bit different. I need a dress for my 8th grade dance, it needs to be nice, somewhat dressy, bun not like, dressy dressy like a prom or anything.. if that makes sense =\
Any websites with cute AND affordable dresses? (link)
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Kohl's always has nice cute, inexpensive dresses, or if you live where there is a Boston Store, they always have ADORABLE dresses. Hope I helped!
Nikki
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Last night I found out a bunch of my best guy friends smoke, drink, and do weed. I broke down cause you never really think it'll happen to you. Me and some of my other friends want them to get help, before its too late. What could we do; ( Annonymously if possible ) ? (link)
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Did you think maybe they don't want help. I say just leave them, they will grow out of it. I used to be like that a year ago and I am not anymore.
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Can anyone that's actually done home school tell me what it's like? is it easier than public school, is it more work? etc. any other advice you can give me would be greatly appreciated!
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I was home school for a while this year, and I found it is actually a lot easier just to stick with being in school. Being homeschooled is a lot harder because sometimes you just need a teather to explain something to you, and no one else can really do it. Everything is just a whole lot harder to do, and being at home its a lot harder to motivate yourself to actually wake up and do the work everyday. At school you kind of have to do your work. Hope I helped!
Nikki
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i have to read a book for english and i cant decide on what to do.
the only main requirements are that it has to be atleast 200 pages (no more than 300 please) and at our reading leve (10th grade)
my favorite book is the giver but i cannot read that because it is too short and i like books along that line.
i like more true to life kind of books with relatable characters and i dislike things like harry potter and lord of the rings
any suggestions? please if you name a book give me a little background info on it! (link)
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A book that I found to be astounding and brilliant was "Crank". It is based on real life and is very easy to relate to. It is a teenage girl, who's parents are divorced. She goes to visit her father in New Mexico for the summer, while she is there her father doesn't spend any time with her. So she makes up an alter ego Bree so she can feel more wild. She then meets a boy named Adam who turns her on too drugs, cigarettes, and sex. She goes home a completely different person and her mother nows. She makes 2 new guy friends at home one loves her and the other rapes her and gets her pregnant. It ends with her leaving her baby with her mother so she can go do more drugs. I finished this 536 page book in a little bit over a day. It isn't really even that long. There are 2 page chapters, and the writing doesn't even fill up the entire page. I enjoyed reading this book a lot I think you would like it too. Hope I helped!
Nikki
My friend did a report on it for school and got an A on the project. Is your school strict about stuff like that? If not then I would say that it is a great book to do.
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I've had this tiny bump under my eyelid for a week or so. It's not painful or anything, but when I rub my fingers over my eyelid I can feel it. What could this be? Is it worth getting a doctor to check it out? (link)
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Well speaking from someone who had the same type of thing happen to them I would say get it checked out soon. I had one of those in my eye, so I went and got it checked out and it turned out to be a cyst. All they do for it is they numb your eye and get it out. It takes about 10 minutes, then you wear an eyepatch for a few hours then your okay again. It's not really a big deal but it is something you should get checked out. Hope I helped!
Nikki
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I love to watch scary movies. My question is, how do you go to sleep after watching one? I just finished watching a REALLY scary movie and I'm really scared! How do I go to sleep without thoughts of the movie? (link)
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What I usually do after watching a movie that really scared me is, I will sit in my room and watch something funny. Whether it be a movie, or T.V. it doesn't matter. But that gets me thinking about the funny and not the scary. Hope I helped!
Nikki
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I'm 13 and I way 113 pounds. I am not bib but I am not super skinny. I am very muscular. I run atleast a mile atleast 3 times a week and i do sit ups and other excercises every night but I can't seem to lose weight. Is this a bad weight? and does anyone know any good ways to lose weight 5-10 pounds?
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You are 13! You don't need to worry about weighing 113 lbs. that is a normal weight! Be a kid, not someone who basis their looks on what magazine's and television says to be. You are 13, you have no reason to be working out every night just for 5 or 10 pounds. That is all I have to say...hope I helped
Nikki
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hey
I was wondering, how come everyone all of a sudden hates preps?
Like my friends and I were at the movies tonight. And i hate labeling myself but im deffinetely in the prep catogory. And all these punk emo girls were mocking us and and following us saying " like omg im like such a prep like omg" And all this other stuff. MY friends thought they were jelous but i dont know. Does anyone know why everyone doesnt like preps? Like on myspace people are posting bulletins saying " Wow i hate preps" and all this other stuff. Im just being myself,and who i am.
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I think the reason people don't like prep's is because preps are the rich kids who get whatever they want, they get the car because mommy and daddy pay for it and they get everything. Also preppy people usually are the ones who make fun of the punk rocker kids because they think that they arent cool enough. Preppy people are generally as a rule very stuck up. Punk rockers just don't care, but also all the preppy people are trying to act like OMG I love this band and like all of a sudden now the preppy ones are listening to punk rock music trying to be punk. I dont get it, but i dont like preps...
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When guys say "I'm Hung" what are they talking about, I know there talking about their 'lower half' but what about it?!
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When a guy says that he is hung it means that he thinks he is larger than normal down below. He is trying to impress you if he says this to you. Hope I helped
Nikki
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