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**Bridgette**
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well i have asked a question on how i can be more outgoing cause its affecting my ability to be able to make friends. well i try to be interesting but no one seems to like me. like i see people in the halls at school saying "want to come over my house" or "Want to go bike riding" no one ever asks me that, is it because i'm boring? what can i do to make people want me as their friend? and how can i keep friend? i am really desperate for help. :( i have like one kind of best friend and she never even asks me to do stuff! she doesnt even invite me to her parties! and please dont say "why dont you ask THEM"
I see. If the people can't exept who you really are then that is just plain weird! But on the other hand you can try to start up a conversation about what you think interests them and you that is the only way to actually make friends. Talk about T.v like I love grey's anatomy and one tree hill. don't randomly go up and start talking because then they will try to avoid you. ease up to them like go hang out with them in a class before the bell. Don't seem too desperate because it wil creep them out. As for your friend who doesn't talk or do much w/ u she really isn't your friend and don't think that she is!! Be fun and what works for me is that i am a little sarcastic(not in a rude way)! Trust me life isn't based on how many friends you have or don't have!!!!!
Gook Luck
***Bridgette***
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ok, let me introduce myself, nd put sum rules, first nobody answer telling me to stop drinking or anything, because im sick of it. I wont put my name on because its confidential, and here i go. I live in toulouse france and i have a best friend called bobby-joe (we shall say). Bobby is mrs popular, and i've known her for a year now. And bit by bit i have quite simply fallen in love with her, now again nobody tell me how im not 'in love' trust me, i know, i cannot do anything without thinking of this girl. I do not go places unless she is going. i dont go online unless she's there. I dont call anyone but her, i save all my credit for texting her. I fail exams because im looking at her. Its too much, and she doesnt know, she thinks we are friends. We go to parties and things together and we have a fucking amazing time. I love spending time with her, and sometimes just for the night, if we have too much to drink then sumtimes it becomes more than a friendship, and to her it means nothing, but to me it makes my month. She just blames it on alcohol and keeps on thinking we're friends. I am a jealous friend but i think i am a good one. I talk to her about everything and she talks to me about everything. Problem is she has got a lot of people who fancy her and a boyfriend who is a fucking model and 2 years older. I've known her for a year but i feel as if my whole life evolves around her. She can control how i feel for days with a single word. Right now she just had a go at me about the main problem we have with our friendship, im over-possesive. last time i was with her we went to a fair and she got with another guy just because he came up to her and called her sexy, she barely new the guy. i got so angry and she knew it, later i tried to talk to her about it and she told me to fuck off that she was 16 and could make her own decisions. I hate it, i love her so much, i dont have time to explain why, but its about more than her looks, or even her obvious personality. I dont know how to tell her how i feel or how to explain it once i do. I just know that i cant keep being her friend. Eventiually we're gonna fall out of even that because im so obsesed with her and cant let her out of my site. I feel left out if she talks to someone else. Last weekend we spent friday together in a restaurant, then the saturday at a lake with some friends, then went to a party, had a bit to drink, got together and lay on a field for hours looking at stars and talking about things. I know i would be so happy with her. please somebody help me, i need a real answer to a real problem.
I have the pefect solution because i've been in this situation before( exept my friend was in love with me and i didn't know so i might be able to give you your friends piont of view)Okay, you like her alot and so did my friend. He kept it inside for a very long time 1 1/2 years. During somewhere in between that time i felt the same way he felt about me, but we both were to chicken to tell so i made it seem as though we were only firends and nothing else, and liked guys and acted like i din't feel for him even the tiniest bit. Later he moved and confessed it to me and i knew it was too late because he was going away so i din't tell him, and now i am still in love(some what) with him and am wishing that one have us told each other sooner. My point is don't wait to tell her, don't end up regreting everything and wondering what could have been. If your really close friends she likes you too, because every solid relationship starts out as friends. So tell her , sit her down alone when everything is good, and explain to her how you feel,don't just say i like you,explain to her that you care about her and its making you completeley jelous that shes with some one else and not you. In time ( trust me) she will come to relize that you are the person that can truly make her happy. If not then some things weren't ment to be. Just say something to her or you'll end up like me and my friend, nowing we both care and love but we've waited to long, and just sitting around always wondering what could have been!
Sry it's so long!
***Bridgette***
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ok, so i went to my friends pool party, and it was 4 hours long, so i got soooo sunburnt that i look like a giant tomato!! and it really hurts!!! but that's not what i'm concerned about. i got like sooooo tan!!!! is their anything that'll make me get whiter again? WITHOUT surgery?!! i rate high!!!
Not to judge , but why the heck do u want to be white because most people want to be tan! Okay the sunburn will peel and take some of the tanness off with it, just wait it will fade, and lastly stay out of the sun for long periods of time.
Hope you get whiter!
***Bridgette***
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I'm moving schools this summer. I went to visit my new school, and very few ppl were nice to me. Everyone else knows that i just came from a privite school, so they hate me and treat me like garbage. I no that all privite school students are different, and i know that i am! I really don't care what other ppl think, but i really want to make friends at my new school. How can i show them that i'm a normal person and not a snobby rich student they think i am? I really want to make friends their, but it's so hard when they don't know the real me. How can i show them?
its hard changing schools, escpecially from private school,but your going to have to get past it.Those feww people that were nice to you are the ones who you should be friends with. They didn't care what kind of school you were from so they didn't judge you. They probably have other friends so the will introduce you to them and that will create more friends and so on. So there really isn't much you can do for now about what the other kids think, you just have to be the person you really are by showing to them through friends that you aren't what they think you are!
Best wishes!
***Bridgette***
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my parents are divorced and it seems that all my friends have a very happy family. i cant help but feel theres something wrong with me...why cant i have a perfect family and perfect life like everyone else? what have i done wrong!??!
You have done nothing wrong. People change and the spark between parents fade. Everyone's parents have problems,but some people have problems that are or they are not fixable. Your friends parents might have a better relationship,or they find a comprimise. Your parents did find a comprimise. You don't want to think that your held responsible when your not. Your parents made the choice and its just a whole in the road your going to have to get over.
My best wishes.
**Bridgette**
P.S I want to hear from you again so write to me. My ears are always open.
My mom broke up with my dad 9 years ago, and has been living with my stepdad since. I was on her computer, and found that she has been flirting with a guy from Texas (thousands of miles away), and they are planning on meeting in Seattle this weekend.
She hasn't told anyone about it, like me, my stepdad, ect. She said she was going to Seattle for a "craft get-together".
Should I be really upset, storm out, and demand to live with my dad? Or be happy for her that she is happy...and having an affair. I guess I'm still in shock.
I'm a 16 year old girl, and I'm not sure how to react. It was probably wrong to look on her computer, but I just had a hunch.
ASk your mom and talk to her. You need her side of the story first. Getting angry never solves anything. It actually makes things worse. Confront your mom and explain that you read her email and you are conserned about her seeing a guy. You might just be suprised that they are friends. Everyone flirts its like human nature. There is a possiblity that you are right and you might help you mother get out of it because every mother wants to set a good example for her child!
Good luck,and i hope your not right about your mother!
**Bridgette**
P.S i love to hear from you so go to my column or email me. My email address is on my column.
hey,
Well, here's the deal I'm almost 17 and my boyfirend is almost 21. My mom thinks he's only 18, she hasn't met him before becuase we both are in job corp.He just left for the army and I'm going to have a baby now. I'm onlt 2 1/2 months. We have been together for 8 months. Well, this is my Question how do I tell my mom when she thinks I'm still a virgin?
loca
Tell her like it is. She is your mother and im almost sure shed want to help you as much as possible. Plus she has a grandkid(s) on the way. She might get a little bit upset but who wouldn't. She is your mother and she'll love you and help you no matter what.
God Bless You And Your New baby/babies!
Plus congratulations.
if you ever need anything wirte to me or email me. You will find my email at my web page.
Sincerly & Praying for your family,
**Bridgette**
im nervous about having sex, im still a virgin. i think im ready but im a little insecure about my body, its almost fully developed. im worried the guy im goin to do it with is gunna look at me naked nd is gunna be like eww her body is gross, im not fat, i just dont know what he will think. (he's much more experienced than i am) gurls nd guys please help me out:)
i rate well!
Hey, if your nervous about having sex don't do it. If you are not comfortable with it you don't have to do it even if your boyfriend wants you to. I would really like to know your age because some people do get pregnant even if they use pertection! You woulnd't want that now would you. sex is supposed to be with the one you love so much you could spend the rest of your life with him type thing. If your not ready he'll exept that if he cares so much about you. Talk to me again, you can reach me @ HelpGirlie7892@yahoo.com.
Hope this helps! sincerely,
**Bridgette**
what is the best way to lose about 10 pounds fairly quickly? i am 14 years old so i dont have acsess to many things
Well stuff like this takes time so i'll do the best I can. First you can run twice a day everyday. Next you can eat healthier. Like in the morning have some life cereal or rasin brain with some bananas. Drink water with ever meal. For lunch you can have a salad with very little salad dressing or none at all. And for dinner you can have some normal food. Just ask your mom or dad or whoever cooks in your house to make some vegtables as a side or a salad. If your having meat and whoever cooks it likes to put seasonings on it ,tell them to leave your peice or a portion of the seasonings off it. But do not have any kind of snacks. The only time I would say its okay to eat fating food is on a holiday or invited to someone elses house to eat. Don't make it a habit. When you go out to eat get something healthier than usual but don't get a salad if you don't want to. get something like chicken or a sandwhich even. I know I wrote alot but this will help you and lose alot weight in a short time. Maybe a week or two at the most.
Hope you lose that weight! Sincerely,
**Bridgette**
P.S If you need anything else just ask or tell me how it went i would love to hear from you :)
hi.. i wrote a lil while ago about a guy and how my friends all said he was a jerk.. thanks for your advice .. it turned out that he was just going to use me.. he is a jerk.. thanks again! :)
Well I'm really glad I helped you. It's good to know I did. If you ever need any advice or just want to know something I'm here for you
Glad to have help!! Sincerely,
**Bridgette**
I dont believe in God, or Satan, or heaven and hell. I think its just a story told to us to try and make us act like better people. Please comment.
Everbody has a different opinion about it. Some people believe that hes true like I do. And others believe what you do. But its just like Santa or the Tooth Fairy. Some kids believe their real and others don't. Yet eventually we find out it was just our parents,b tu then there are those kids that no matter what people say or they've heard they still believe no matter what age. It's the same way with god exept most people believe and keep believing no matter what any one says. They are the ones who stand with their opinion.
it's your opinion. Sincerely,
**Bridgette**
P.S- if you need any more help or want to tell me how it all worked out I would enjoy hearing from you!
ok im a girland today i just found out that my really close cousin thats a guy is bi and i found out today and now i dont kno how to act around him...i mean i feel weird knowin that hes bi and yea...so wut should i do? how do i react to this?
Just be yourself. I took it the same way when I found out my friend was bi. I have a complicated life and it just added more stress to me. At first it was weird and i didn't know how to react or how to act about it so I acted as normal as I possibly could and before I knew it I was back to being my self around her because we had so much fun together and forgot about. Just try not to think about it just pretend he's not bi. You sound like you love him a lot so don't let it get to you. Everyone is different and makes his/her own decisions you just have to support it.
Hope your relationship with your cousin still stands as strong as ever! Sincerely,
**Bridgette**
P.S- if you need any more help or want to tell me how it all worked out I would enjoy hearing from you!
Ok I created an account on here a couple days ago, I loved giving people advice and was so happy! Well when I told my mom what I was doing she kept getting on my case and wanted to know EVERYTHING that I was doing and saying to people. Well then she told my sister and my sister got my mom on her side and they are saying that I shouldn't give people advice b/c it may backfire! Well I mean should I still visit this site and give people advice even if my mom and sister say not too?
P.S.-If it does backfire it wouldn't really be my fault would it? The person didn't have to take the advice, I was just giving them ideas and voicing my opinion right?
You first ask them for a couple reasons why you shouldn't visit this sit. Next tell them what you said in the p.s and some other opinions of yours to why you should help people with there problems. I just got this new User Name yesterday because I didn't like my old one because I had it for a very long time. You should tell your mom that it is good to give people advice when they ask for it, and that it could help those people out more than you could imagin. For example on my old s/n I had an inbox question saying she was going through a tough time and it was so bad she wanted to kill herself, plus she was a cutter( someone who cuts themselves). I gave her the best advice I could telling her to get help so she doesn't cut herself anymore, and not to kill herself and other things about what to do with the things she was going through. I never heard from her again until 3 months after my advice and she was cured she said i helped her so much and now she loves her life. See you need to show your mom it helps when you give advice to people.Thats all it takes. Write to me again so i know how it all turns out.
Hope your still aloud to give advice because it is the best feeling when you know you helped someone that day. Sincerely,
**Bridgette**
i've gotten really depressed lately. my parents relationship is (excuse my french) going to hell, and my sibs are mixed with alchohol.
my little sis is spoiled like god only knows, and i'm kinda left to life in the middle. i guess my mirror has a little play too... i'm 14, weigh 200lbs, and am 5'7. i'm starting to not eat that much anymore, and i really need some help with this.
First of all, start with yourself. If you're not comfortable with the way you are make so changes to help you feel better about yourself, then work on your family if you are comfortable with the way you are. Try to convince your siblings to stop drinking so much. ( get them help. )There is nothing i can say with your parents but maybe to got to marrige couseling.Your little sister will stop being spoiled when your parents are fighting or possibly getting a divorce. I hope you don't have to go through a divorce though.
Hope it all works out in your favor! Sincerely,
**Bridgette**
P.S - Need any more help or tell me how it goes write me some feedback or go to my column and write to me there.
Me and this guy dated last summer for a month and then we never talked.. it didnt realy mean anyhting to either of us but now he wants to see me.. and says maybe we can start a relationship if i like the way i look.. my friend says he is a jerk and i dont now what to do... help!
If you really want to go out with him go out with him. It is your call ,but if you do it might turn out the same way it did for the first time. Ask why your friend feels that he's a jerk, because maybe it could help your decision about dating the guy. Write to me back i'll be happy to hear more of your questions or how it all went.
Good luck!!! Sincerely,
**Bridgette**
im 5'6 or 5'7 and i weigh about 180 or 185 am i over weight ? thanks
You are very tall but in order to help you i need to know your age but if you are under 13 I would say to cut back on some of the munches but other than that your fine. Plus God mayde you the way he wanted you to be. In his eyes your perfect. write to me again and tell me anything my mouth is shut and ears are listening!
Hope that helped! Sincerely,
**Bridgette**
Ok well my parents divorced when I was only 2 years old. I don't see my real dad a lot. Maybe once a year at the most. My mom remarried and has been with this guy (my new step-dad) for about 12 years. He is never nice to me and I don't know how to act around him. At points he is very nice and I can get along with him really well. Other times I think about running away and just never coming back to him. I don't know what I should do to tell him that I need him to be nicer to me and to stop favoring my two little brothers who are his and my mom's children. HELP ME!!
I am very sorry about your parents divorce. My mother was also remarried but my father had died when I was seven. Never run away it is the worst thing to do. have a nice talk with your mother and step-dad and tell them how you feel and would like to be treated. Or you can talk to just one of them ,but it would be best if you talk to both so they both know whats going on. Act normal when your around him and if he can't exept you for who you are then just talk to your mom about that one. It took me a couple of years to get used to him but know I love him and he loves me. I hope it works out for you like it did for me. If you need more advice go to my column.
Hope it helps! Sincerely,
**Bridgette**
My family expects me to be exactly like my cousin, "Sarah". Sarah's one of those preppy, popular girls, & I'm not even close to that. I have a few close friends & I'm more laid-back. Just because we look alike (we look like sisters), everyone expects us to act alike. I hate being compared to Sarah all the time & being expected to be like her. I don't want to be her shadow. How can I handle this?
Talk to your mom or dad or someone who you are having this problem with. Tell them you are a very different person and you don't want to be exactly like your cousin. They probably love you a lot they will understand you.
Hope my advice helps you and anytime you need advice just go to my column. Ok! Sincerely,
**Bridgette**
to start..im 17! i feel so different from my family...im the youngest of 4!! i just dont wanna be around them anymore..my friends even tell me im wayyyy different from them!! i get sooo aggrivated with them over nothing! i really dont know what to do! i want to move out...im trying to save money but im between jobs now!:-/
Try to find out your differences and why you feel so different from them. Then find ways to work those things out. I had to do it before, because I'm the youngest of 7. We are all girls.The youngest always feel different because they are allowed to do more things. You never should feel upset because you are different you should be happy. God mayde everyone special and unique. There is not one person who looks exactly like you. Not even twins look exactly the same. So don't try to fit in you should stand out because you're different from your family which is very good because the if people were the samelife would be boring.
Good luck to you! Sincerely,
**Bridgette**
okay so i was in a chat room and out of no where this guy asked me to cyber. i said no cuz i didn't even know him. well he started saying shit anyway and i was just about to say shut up to him and block him when my mom walked up behind me. well she read what he said and now i'm grounded for two weeks! but i didn't even do anything and i tried to explain that to her! what should i do!!
Sit your mother down and tell the full truth to her. Say that you were going to block him but he kept saying horrible things. If it doesn't work I am truely sorry, but at least you know you told her the truth and are not lying to her. A wordof advice if a stranger asks or says something to make you feel uncomfortable or hurt block them or leave that chat room right after he says something nasty or anything even if it is one of your closest friends. Try to make sure it never happens again.
Hope it works out for the best!! Sincerely,
**Bridgette**