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Should I still do it?
Ok I created an account on here a couple days ago, I loved giving people advice and was so happy! Well when I told my mom what I was doing she kept getting on my case and wanted to know EVERYTHING that I was doing and saying to people. Well then she told my sister and my sister got my mom on her side and they are saying that I shouldn't give people advice b/c it may backfire! Well I mean should I still visit this site and give people advice even if my mom and sister say not too?
P.S.-If it does backfire it wouldn't really be my fault would it? The person didn't have to take the advice, I was just giving them ideas and voicing my opinion right?
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You first ask them for a couple reasons why you shouldn't visit this sit. Next tell them what you said in the p.s and some other opinions of yours to why you should help people with there problems. I just got this new User Name yesterday because I didn't like my old one because I had it for a very long time. You should tell your mom that it is good to give people advice when they ask for it, and that it could help those people out more than you could imagin. For example on my old s/n I had an inbox question saying she was going through a tough time and it was so bad she wanted to kill herself, plus she was a cutter( someone who cuts themselves). I gave her the best advice I could telling her to get help so she doesn't cut herself anymore, and not to kill herself and other things about what to do with the things she was going through. I never heard from her again until 3 months after my advice and she was cured she said i helped her so much and now she loves her life. See you need to show your mom it helps when you give advice to people.Thats all it takes. Write to me again so i know how it all turns out.
Hope your still aloud to give advice because it is the best feeling when you know you helped someone that day. Sincerely,
**Bridgette**
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Your mom should understand your feelings if you just explain them to her in your own special way.And even if the advice doesn't go through then it wasn't your fault. You were just voicing your opinion like you said. I hope this helped! Thanx, bye!~Chelsea~
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Yes, still give people advice..I dont see how it could backfire
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You should still get on it and give people advice b/c it's your choice not your sisters or your moms. You should tell them that it's none of there business b/c it's my advice and not yours. Tell them that your not doing anything bad b/c all your doing is giving advice and whoever you give it to doesn't have to take it b/c it is just a suggestion from you and other people give them advice on the same questions so it doesn;t mean that they are always goin to take your advice and just use your. I mean, they may use a lil bit of everyone's advice. And your right, cause if it does backfire then it wouldn't really ber your fault b/c they didn't have to use just your advice b/c they could use anyone's opinion. Well< I hope I helped you! If you need any more help just ask me!
Rate me please!
~Brooke~ :)
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if it backfires its not ur fault u r trying 2 help others. show ur mom your column and tell her how happy it makes u
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Yes, keep doing it if you love it!
If id backfires, it's not your fault. They asked for you opinion, and you gave it. If you use this site that's a risk you run.
Tell your mum and your sister that it's not your fault and that you try to give good advice, and they should leave you alone.
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thats completely true and everyone who goes to this site takes that chance of getting bad advice but thats why u get as many people to answer as possible and get as many opinions as possible... and even then people sometimes still dont take it or w/e... but its not the advicenators fault at all. and if u think u have something to offer this site i say keep w/ it. someone may really need u.
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No not at all, ADVICE means you are offering people a way to their situation. It's fine! rate me plz
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