Hi im a 23 year old guy, I used to be life and soul of the party, always out, always one of the jokers of the pack etc. The last 3 or 4 years things have been slowly going down hill, sometime i work like 15 hours a day, and dont get overtime for it but i do it to help out family, im currently off work due to depression, and im really scared i wont be able to provide for my fiance and 6 month old son. Things are really bad for me at the moment, and I feel so useless and worthless, I dont even like being around people anymore, and am a compete mess, twice this week ive picked up a knife and gone to slice my wrists and bottled it at the last minute, I have coucelling in the next few weeks, but if that doesn't work then I dont think ill be able to get through this, someone please help me
You need to see someone now to get yourself sorted out. I have experienced feelings of depression and contemplated suicide a few times myself and looking back, im so glad i didnt. You WILL come through this and you will look back and be grateful that you got help. Take things one day at a time and remember that this is only temporary. There is currently a chemical imbalance in your brain and you will most likely need to be medicated for a period of time. Your son needs a father. My father took his own like when i was 10 years old and i feel like i have been robbed of so many experiences. My children will never know their grandfather, and i wont have him be at my wedding all because he wouldnt wait for help... this is something that can be fixed.
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I'm 13 years old. My parents had been fighting for a long time ever since the beginning of 6th grade. Now I'm in the middle of 7th and they are almost through divorce my parents dot even live together anymore. I an always in bad moods. I am suicidal. And I just want somebody to tell me everything will be okay. So my question is, what can I do to stop being depressed over the divorce?
You need to understand that love sometimes runs its course. That is what has happened in the case of your parents. It is normal for you to be feeling this way to a certain point but you need to understand that these feelings are temporary and if you were to end your life it would cause loads more arguments between your parents. They are taking steps to make life better for both them and you. No more having to listen to them argue, no more upset/angry parents... Surely you can understand that life will be better with them apart? Imagine two christmases, two birthdays etc..
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Everytime we hang out my boyfriend gets a boner. Ive already given him head and used my hand. He texted me and asked me if i have any other ways of taking care of his boner then just using my mouth and hand are there any other ways besides those two and sex? What should i tell him?
Well it seems as though you arent at the 'sex' place yet so oral and hand stimulation are your best bet. Dont think that its your 'job' to 'take care of his boner'. If he tells you it is he is obviously trying to get you to do things you either dont want to do or arent ready for.
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What happens when the guys finishes first and he just stops leaving you unsatisfied? Do they know to keep going or do us girls have to tell them to not stop?
A guy will pretty much not be able to continue once he has blown his load.
Common courtesy, for a guy who is quick to the trigger is to use whatever method necessary to pleasure their lover before sex.
It is a fact that only 30% of women will ever orgasm through intercourse alone. That is alot of unsatisfied women! It helps to do some research and study your body before you let any man near it!! That way, you know what feels good for you and you can help a guy make you feel good...
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Long story short, my boyfriend and I messed around a bit yesterday. We didn't have sex, but he fingered me.
While he did it, my legs were trembling a lot. That's never happened before when I have been fingered. Is it normal? Was I really that turned on and pleasured to the point where my legs shook?
Short answer.. YES!
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When you masturbate is it bad for your health?
No, quite the opposite...
When you climax, it releases endorphins which make you happy... Also reduces stress, headaches, depression...
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Okay, I am 15, virgin. I would like to finger myself but I'm not sure how to even do it. How do I break my hymen? Am I to young? I don't know what to do, I want to try it so I know what actual sex will be like, of course when I'm married. However, I'm scared. How do I calm down and just do it? Will it be painful? Just tell me anything, please. I appreciate it.
Just touch yourself down there till something feels good... Dont focus soley on 'putting a finger in there'... There's lots of fun stuff to do down there so take your time and explore your body!!
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Hey everyone,
So I'm writing a paper on suicide and depression and I just am curious and want opinions to this question: "Would you kill a loved one if they asked you to?" Put yourself in a situation where someone you really love like your boyfriend/girlfriend, mom/dad, brother/sister etc. was so depressed and they werent getting better and they wanted to die and they came to you and asked you to pull the trigger or kill them. think of it as there is no way they will get better because nothing has helped and if you say no they will still go through with the suicide. if they seriously ask you to pull the trigger for them would you do it for your loved one because they are in more pain now then they would be after?
hope that makes sense! thanks to anyone who helps me out with this :)
Depression is treatable. I would know...
I would not ever ever take another human life. Unless someone took the life of one of my kids.
People who are depressed always always think that its never going to get better and the only way out is death, but thats exactly what depression does and believe me, it is treatable!!
Medication, exercise, meditation, herbal remedies, experiencing things you're passionate about... It all works.
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So I'm 16 years old; my boyfriend of 2 years is 18. We're pretty serious (although we are young). I've never been on birth control and my periods are pretty consistent and normal. On April 12th, I started my period. It ended on April 16th. I had sex April 18th (early morning). So it was whatever then on April 26th it looked as if I was starting my period again, only it was light and stopped after a day. I googled it and it said I could have been spotting. I wouldn't be concerned with this normally but I've never spotted, ever. Also it says that I was ovulating (and was extremely fertile) the following week after I had sex. It's also a fact that sperm can live inside of you for 3 to 5 days. I started ovulating on April 21st or 22nd I believe. April 18th is only 3 or 4 days from that. So I'm a little worried. I haven't missed a period yet because my period isn't due until May 10th. I'm just wondering if this sounds like I could be pregnant or am I just worrying over nothing. Please help. Thanks in advance. xx.
I dont want to critisize, but how can you be having a serious relationship and being sexually active and not be on birth control?
You're only 16! If by some lucky chance you arent pregnant you need to get on birth control ASAP.
No one can say if they think you are pregnant or not. Only a test can tell you for sure. But to me it looks like you could be. I'd say theres more of a chance you are then you arent.
My advice comes from getting pregnant (by choice) at 17, so i kinda know a bit about being young and having kids... Its not easy.
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(17/f) Okay so since I was 12 I have been diagnosed with depression. Throughout the years I have been put on medications but I always get the strangest side affects, so I really don't like taking them. I used to be suicidal like 2 years ago but not anymore. Though I still do suffer from depression on a daily basis. I'm getting sick of always feeling like this though and I really don't want to resort to taking medication again. Any tips on what I can do so I don't have to feel like this day to day? Anything is greatly appreciated :)
I know exactly how you feel... Side effects of anti depressants are sometimes hard to deal with...
I beat my depression by doing things i was passionate about. It happened to be writing. I love to write, so whenever i felt like the world was getting on top of me i wrote... Not about anything in particular... Just what was bothering me or what was clouding up my head...
So you need to figure out something you're passionate about and use it to your advantage when you're feeling particularly down.
Take walks to clear your mind. Eat well, exercise... Talk to someone about how you're feeling... Having someone as a support person is always a help...
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i had sex with my bestie he did not put his dick all the way in and per-cum came in but my cherry did not pop can i have a baby
Dont be stupid. Of course you can be pregnant.
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hey im 15.f
i have 2 questions to ask in this.
so heres the story (and oh yea who ever answers ill rate high because i really need help)
my boyfriend and i have been going out for about almost 2 weeks and those 2 weeks he fingered me. i gave me head and we had sex. alot of sex. my question is can i be any chance pragnet since we didnt use a condom the very first time and we were in he shower and he felt like he was gonna cum so he pulled out and waited a little and then we went agian. but he never came. that same day we used condoms but we had sex twice after the shower incident. then i came over agian yesterday and we had sex twice again but with a condom he came but we had a condom and everything was fine. but im just worried that what if i am pragnet and if there is a chance i can be.. because since the first time in the shower my mood changed and i got a small pain like all the way in mmy lower stomach by my vigina. im really scared and i dont know what to do im going to wait ffor my period to come but i dont know by then it might be to late.
another question is i regret having sex with him so much he says he likes me a lot but i feel like our relationship is moving wayyyyyyyy 2 fast and it old him that he said everything is fine and that he wont leave me because we had a thing in the past where i was dating my other boyfriend and he tried to convince me to break up with him so he must like me but idont what to do bout the sex ...and the moving fast
any help ill rate high thank u so much =]
All i have to say is sucked in. If you're pregnant its your own stupid fault. How can you have unprotected sex then say "im scared im pregnant"???
If its not on its not on. If you're not pregnant by some miracle... then next time use a condom!!!
Sorry for being so blunt but theres so many girls on this site who are just like you... Having unprotected sex and then whinging about possibly being pregnant. Use your brain and you wont get pregnant!
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my boyfriend and i tried having sex for the first time (both virgins)
and either he was too big or i was too tight but we couldn't get it in
any advice with that?
You're both virgins so its ok for this stuff to happen. Practise makes perfect when it goes to sex. Just do it again. Get his penis in your hand and help it into your vagina... SLOWLY! If it doesnt work, do it again... Just keep trying. Seriously, sex is all about trying new things and having new experiences. Everything isnt supposed to work first time.
Oh... and use protection! Condoms have lubricant on them that helps it go in smoothly.
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so i gave my boyfriend a blowjob for the first time last weekend. i gagged a little bit. but then when i did it again last night, i gagged a lot more and couldn't breathe at some point. i'm not grossed out or anything, i'm just gagging because of my reflex. are there any ways to stop doing this? should he just not go as deep in my mouth/throat or what? please help! thanks
jen
I have a sensitive gag reflex and my boyfriend had a large penis. Basically, poor him. Theres nothing wrong with it, but there are ways to try and prevent it. You need to learn how to relax your throat. When you're giving him a blowjob, dont think you're going to gag, just relax and breathe and hopefully you wont gag as bad. Either that or just dont deep throat him.
Another thing i have learnt is that if you put the penis in your mouth as far as you can without gagging and then put your hand where your moouth is, you wont go too far and wont gag.
Not sure if i made sense...
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My last period was on January 16th, my fertile days was on January30 to february 3th,i have intercourse on january 29th after on or two hours i start having some cramps on my lower abdominal through now(4.5 weeks), i supposed to have my period but no period,you think i might be pregnant?
Id say a YES to your question. Semen can live inside the vagina for up to 7 days. If by some miracle you arent pregnant and dont want to be... USE PROTECTION next time.
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okay everyone always tzlks about how sex hurts the first time but what about the second time? Is it painful or pleasurable? just somethingIm curious about... 13/F
I lost my virginity oh, about 6 years ago. Personally i thought it wasnt a big deal. I was 16. But for me it hurt for the first 3 or 4 times. When the time comes for you take it easy. And make sure you have a nice caring guy and KNOW that you're ready.
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If my boyfriend put his penis in me a couple times(without protection) but we didn't have sex, am i able to get pregnant?
i start my period around the first and right now it is the 24th.. i don't understand 100% how ovulation and all that works so i dont know if i have a higher risk right now..
If his penis went inside you, you DID have sex.
If you didnt use protection, you CAN get pregnant. Any time of the month.
Ovulation usually occurs 14 days after the first day of your last period (so you bleed on the 1st day of the month, you ovulate on the 13th 14th 15th or 16th).
Your boyfriend doesnt have to cum inside you for you to get pregnant. Pre-cum can happen without him knowing and contains sperm and those sperm can reach an egg and thats how babies are made.
Next time (if you arent already pregnant) use a condom! And go see your doctor to get on the pill!
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So I'm 15. and I really want a boyfriend who's like, a senior in high school at least or older. I want an older boyfriend because older guys are much more mature and most of my friends are older than me anyway. And plus I want to be able to have a real relationship, not just one that will fall apart within a few months, like most high school relationships do. I want real love. And I know that most high school senior or college age guys like to have sex with their girlfriends. And I think if I'm in love I'm ready for that. But I need help trying to find a guy and I need a way I can get out of the house with him without telling my parents.
Those guys will make you think they love you and make you love them then have sex with you then leave you.
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when you have sex for the first time, does the girl bleed? and if so, does it get everywhere and make a big awkward mess?
She can bleed, but not every girl does. Just have a towel or something covering whatever you're on if you dont want to make a mess. It will onl be awkward if you make it that way. Dont make a fuss about it.
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can a 5 inche penis satisfy a lady? plz answer this question only by talking about size without any other aspect like foreplay etc...
regards.
Absolutely! Your penis is fine. Its usually not about your tool its about how you use it anyway!!
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