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too tight?
my boyfriend and i tried having sex for the first time (both virgins)
and either he was too big or i was too tight but we couldn't get it in
any advice with that?
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yea foreplay is a definite; it helps with lubrication. My frame is really small and my boyfriend.. is well endowed.. haha.. sometimes it would hurt down there if I was not lubricated. Men have a tendency to go right for it but girls need a little foreplay to get ready. If you don't want to wait use KY lube.
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i would suggest for awhile try foreplay. ha. :] or do some foreplay before you have sex.
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your first time isnt going to be perfect for the girl it may be a bit painful, try to get him to finger you a bit to losten your muscles up because if your not relaxed your gonna be tighter then all hell, this is also a easy way to get him to pop your cherry and make you bigger in some sense so it wont be as painful for your first time, try this a few time befor doing actual sex forplay is a good way to start off to finde out what you like and don't like during that special time and rember protection all the time!! i cannot stress about that the condome and pill are a great way to plan in advance because theri is nothing more stressful then thinking your pregenent even thought you've used a condome.
I hope this helps you out.
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You're both virgins so its ok for this stuff to happen. Practise makes perfect when it goes to sex. Just do it again. Get his penis in your hand and help it into your vagina... SLOWLY! If it doesnt work, do it again... Just keep trying. Seriously, sex is all about trying new things and having new experiences. Everything isnt supposed to work first time.
Oh... and use protection! Condoms have lubricant on them that helps it go in smoothly.
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Guide it in yourself. Go really slow and just ease it in. Good Luck.
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