What is wrist banging? I heard girls talking about it but they kinda shut up when they noticed I was listening. Is it like sexual? Orrrr....?
Thank you!
Wrist banging is another self harm method :/ You get a bruise instead of very visible cuts.
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okay, so i've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now. we've tried to have sex a couple of times but we can never seem to get it in. i end up getting frustrated only show it and give up. i really want to share this experience with him - is there a way to get his penis inside of me easier? we've already tried fingering.
he claims it was in before when i was on top - but i didn't feel anything. is it supposed to hurt?
thanks!
Fingering with 2-3 fingers should do it.
Lots of lube with a lubricated condom will help.
Relax and wait, he needs to push it in harder. Usually the head isn't easy to get in at first, but once that's past.. it shouldn't be a problem.
It didn't hurt for me but I definitely felt it, so maybe just the tip of his head got in.
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I masterbated about everynight for 3 nights, in april, and i haven't had my period since april 7th, and its already june 6th, could something be wrong? or is it a miss period or irregular? i know i can't be pregnant because i NEVER had sex in my life, or even got near a penis in my life time, so what's wrong? does anyone know? im kinda scared, what about yeast infections?!
Irregular. I didn't get mine for months in the beginning. It slowly changed to a week difference or a few days off. Irregularity is normal. I don't know why people think it's not because so many women are like that. There's nothing to worry about unless you don't get one within a few months. If you want a regular period, ask to go on the pill. I was on it for more than a year and now I'm regular without it.
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how do you have sex in the water.
It's no different. It may feel uncomfortable for the girl though because of the water and pressure. It's not good for the vagina, think bacteria. So don't do it often.
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what are you guys opinions on someone getting drunk to lose there virginity. because im thinking about doing that cause im scared its really going to hurt. and i dont want to have to deal with the pain. and by the way im 16 female. thankyou in advancee
Some of my friends have tried this and it does not make the situation any better. You may not even remember it or it will hurt.
Honestly, sex should not hurt that bad. Just wait for it. I was 16 when i lost mine and I'm still in the relationship two years later. Sex is uncomfortable but if you are with that right guy, then they will do their best to make it comfortable for you. It did not hurt for me at all. Just open up and get into foreplay. Warm up and take your time. It's great :] The important thing is to relax and get into the moment. It only hurts if you are dry and tight(not relaxed/comfortable) That's it to it. You should try lube + lubricated condoms. It really does help!
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okays sooo, ive been on birth control for like two years now, and i have never known the answer to this question, ive tried to ask my ginocologest but she didnt really answer me.
butt.. when your on birth control, can the guy like cum in you and you wont get pregnant. Like im not stupid me and my boyfriend still use condoms every single time and were still going to, but im just kinda curious casue if not then what does birth control do?
Birth control regulates periods, reduces cramping, helps with mood swings/makes it worse, reduces bleeding days, can make you lose or gain weight (cup size!), calm down your hormones so less acne OR increase in acne, etc. I know people that do this and don't get pregnant, there's always a chance it will. Birth control is protection, it isn't 100% effective so you could have unprotected (condoms) sex but there's a chance you'll get preg. That's why the pill and a condom together is effective. A condom alone is still good protection but if it breaks, there's no "extra" shield like the pill.
The pill is hormones, chemicals, etc. It controls out bodies. Basically it keeps your ovaries from releasing eggs and getting contact with sperm. Which is what I meant by shield. The pill also thickens a woman’s cervical mucus which blocks sperm.
It also protects you from abnormal breast growths, cancers (ovarian for example), PMS symptoms, anemia (iron deficiency) and vaginal dryness.
If you're going to do it, then go to a pharmacy and buy plan B. I wouldn't make unprotected (condoms!) sex a habit, every so often.. is alright if you're taking the pill daily AND have BACK UP *ready*
Women still get pregnant while on the pill, esp. if there's no condoms. A least 1 in 100 yearly.
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ok im 15 female and im not on birth control yet but i am sexually active..i just got past a pregnancy scare and me and my bf had sex last night and he was wearing a condom when we started but at the end we dont know what hapend to it...should i be worried bout it? like if it is in me what should i be doing about it? should i be worried about getting pregnant again? please help i do not want to go through all the worry again...
Okay this has happened to me before. The condom slipped off inside me and it's best to go to a health clinic to check it out. Do not attempt to get it out yourself or with someone else. My boyfriend ended up pushing it inside more and it was already in too deep, it hurt quite a bit for him to grab it. You need to get it out if you haven't. Go with your friend or boyfriend if you have to.
You need to go on the pill. You may be pregnant if the condom broke or is in you still.
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Me & my g/f are thinking bout having sex. i wanna fuck her really bad, but I'm scared about getting her pregnent. She sayz she take birth control, but its only for her periods. Does that still work to stop her from getting pregnent?
We talk about it some and like she said that if I'm scared, we can just do it while she is on her period. If we do that, she won't get pregnent right? Its not too messy is it? Should I like nut on her stomach?
She's on the pill. Be smart and use a condom. If you don't, then you'll have to worry about STDS & PREGNANCY. Remind her to take her pill at the same time and it should be good.
You can always go to a clinic to get the morning after pill, right?
She's protected for 3 weeks. It's not 100% so that's why you must use a condom if you do not plan to have a child. She can still get pregnant if you do it on her period & I've heard that people like it and that some people don't because it's messy.
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Im going to visit my fiance in 19 days. I really want to make love to him. But i also want it to be special. I went to www.victoriassecret.com and clicked on the sleepwear. I really dont know what type i should buy. What turns guys on. I dont want to ask him which one he likes better but i do want to surprise him. There are so many types. I need your opinion on if i should get the dress looking ones, or the ones that are see through or the ones that are opening in the middle. Im not sure. But i dont want one that looks too slutty but i do want one thats romantic.
So back to my questions. 1. What type should i buy? 2. Which one will be best. 3. Any ideas on anything special that i can get to make it amazing. 4. Any ideas on how to get into it.
Yess I'll have to agree with mari-elena! Guys get turned on by the little things. So just buy what you find is sexy. If you have trouble with colors, go for the sexy black!
These are nice:
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/images/prodpri/V248964_W81.jpg
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/images/prodpri/V266804.jpg
I think babydolls and anything lacy would be great. Those ones with side slits could be sexy as well, because it's showing some extra skin. I'm sure even a slip/nightie would work too if it hugs your curves. Just leave the rest for his imagination.
You could always excuse yourself to the bathroom and change.. and come out wearing a bathrobe. You could also wear it under a nice dark flowy dress.
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14/f
ive never been fingered before, but i was just wondering if most guys are expecting your vagina to be completely shaved or what..? thanks for youre help!
Most guys like it clean. Whether that's completely shaved or just trimmed. But you should know if you have a 'bush', the guy usually passes on that information to his friends. I've heard about girl's pubic hair so many times. I'll shave it completely and see how you like it.
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alright so i cant orgasm with my boyfriend, and i have masterbated before but i havent orgasmed from it.
the problem is that when my bf is pleasuring me or whatever...it feels amazing but i always wanna pull away. like i cant help myself it feels so good but i always stop him....
i dont know what my problem is
Try not to pull away next time :P It feels good because you are probably on the verge of an orgasm. How do you masturbate though? You should buy an electric toothbrush and well, yeah. It works. It wold be easier to recognize an orgasm and all that jazz, because for my first time.. it felt so good and weird at the same time, that I stopped. Not many girls can orgasm from penetration alone. You need stimulation! So it usually works best if he keeps the right movement, depth and speed or if you take over being on top. You don't have to go deep, actually swallow thrusts are good considering his 'head' will stimulate your clit. if you can keep the stimulation going at a slow speed then you should be able to orgasm.
-i know this wasn't TMI- D:
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Okay over the weekend our school had this caraval, and me and my friends all met there & hung out. But while we were having fun a classmate of mine wasn't. You see me and her arn't really friends or anything but she's Bff's with my best friend Josh. So after the carnavil. She & Josh were talking, while the rest of us piged out on leftovers. But when josh got back he pulled me aside and said this:
"meg i HAVE to tell you something but i can't. ...Okay if you promise not to tell ANYONE I'll tell you" so I promised" And he said "okay well You know how I was talking to Chelsea (aka classmate) well she told me during the carnivall She got RAPED! She was crying and everything she said it was by some eight grader and he ripper her shirt off an started teasing her boobs, but her dad stoped him. BUT her dad won't beleive her and now she's in BIG trouble. BUT she made me SWEAR not to tell anyone so what do I do?" he told me all that. Should I tell someone or what?
You should slip a note .. if you can find out that boy's name... and only mention that boy's name for sexual harassment and give it to the office. touching her boobs is not really rape..
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When you get your cherry popped, is it true that you can't feel it pop sometimes? Ex: Playing sports.
I don't understand why people think it "pops"?
The hymen stretches. You're either born with a hymen or not. You could have an accident while playing sports or out horseback riding. That might "break" your hymen but I'm sure you'll feel sore if you had an accident that had hit you there.. but you never know for sure.
You'll have to go to a gyno to see.
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If you don't have sex at all, can you tell if your "Cherry" popped? or is it like, you never really know when it did. Again, if you HAVE NOT had sex. or is it like, it seems like a period? I'm just a little confused is all.
You can't tell if your hymen is 'broken' unless you go to a gyno. Obviously sex isn't the only reason why it could break, it could have been sports or an accident with a bike.
It really depends on the girl. I didn't bleed, some girls bleed very little to something as a light as a period.
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My boyfriend and I dry hump a lot with our clothes on...at the beginning he would always ejaculate very early..and then he decided that he would listen to take his mind off of ejaculating. Then he moved off of music and he can now control his ejaculation. My question now is lately we have been dry humping and well he gets tired and then his penis goes down...i'm wondering is this me? Am I turning him off? Is there anything we can do? Or I can do? Does he not think I'm attractive? I'm really worried and I don't know what to do. Please help me!
It's nothing about not being attractive or whatever.
If he ejaculated early and then he decided to take his mind off of it.. obviously it's either going to delay or stop it completely. it may not be easy for him to keep going without ejaculating. he may get tired and go limp.
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last night april 5th, my boyfriend was fingering me, not actually in the hole, and im so afraid that i might be pregnant. I was stroking his penis and i felt wet stuff coming out if it, but im not sure if it was sperm. and i asked him if he touched himself and then touched me and if there was something on his hands, but he says his positive he didnt have anything on his hands and its fine. im supposed to get my period sometime this week. they vary between 20- even about 30 days and im on day 26. im just reallyyyy scared. im screwed if im pregnant. please answerrr. im just so scared.
Pre cum could have sperm in it. Only if he jacked off before and didn't urinate. It's really rare to get pregnant that way. Make sure you're the only one touching him and if he does touch himself, make sure he goes and washes his hands after. Don't think too much about this, it will only delay your period. It's probably best to get on the pill. Just say your period lasts too long and that it's heavy.. and you get bad cramps or something.
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so yesterday me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time, and i know im probably being really paranoid, but we did use a condom and it didnt break. he didnt come but im pretty sure he like precummed or whatever. is there ANY way that i could be pregnant?
I doubt you are pregnant. Just continue using condoms and after every use check for holes. Pour some water into the condom and gently squeeze for any leaks. Otherwise, you should be protected. If you miss a period, then it's a problem. Either you're irregular, stressing out or pregnant. Just give it some time and then take a test when necessary. I've been having sex for over 8 months with condom use and -almost perfect use- birth control and I haven't been pregnant once. Make sure you are aware of everything before having sex again so you don't worry about the little things.
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When I was younger I shaved my vagina hair..It got all itchy and whatever, was it supposed to be? I want to shave it again but im scared that it will itch again and i cant just randomly itch it in school..Thanks for your advice in advance,
Gina
it's normal to be itchy. if it really bothers you.. try a lotion. if it makes it worse.. then take allergy medicine. best thing to work so far.
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k, well i know fingering is not sex but i didnt know what catergory to put it under.
but anyways, i heard that the first time you get fingered you bleed. is this true? also if it is, is there anything i can do to "it" so i don't bleed the first time i get fingered, because i know i'm ready for it but i just don't want the akwardness of him having blood all over his hands or whatever.
thanks.
There's a chance you'll bleed but you probably already got your hymen broken by sports or something. If you do bleed, it won't be a lot. It should be little to nothing, but when it comes to sex... Who knows how much you will bleed. I didn't bleed for either but it's different for everyone. Just tell him to take it slow and be gentle, and only start with one finger so he doesn't hurt you. Make sure his nails are trimmed though so he doesn't scratch/tear you inside :c
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aright well i was wondering why most guys think it's weird if a girl has big nipples? also i was wondering what size nipples are considered to be big?
most guys don't think it's weird.
it's boobs.
they like it either way.
i think nipples are big when they cover most of the breast, yes?
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