alright so i cant orgasm with my boyfriend, and i have masterbated before but i havent orgasmed from it.
the problem is that when my bf is pleasuring me or whatever...it feels amazing but i always wanna pull away. like i cant help myself it feels so good but i always stop him....
i dont know what my problem is
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? marajm34 answered Wednesday June 25 2008, 7:41 am: You Probably will have extremely intense orgasms. You should practice on yourself. If you are old enough (18), then you should invest in a vibrator with multiple speeds. This way if it becomes too intense you can lower the speed until it feels just right. Next time you feel the urge to pull away tell him to be more gentle. If he lightens up it may allow you to orgasm with less intensity. Also If you try those condoms with the vibrating ring, you can get a variety of stimulation that will lessen the concentration of that area and allow for a comfortable and pleasurable orgasm. [ marajm34's advice column | Ask marajm34 A Question ]
queenhearts answered Tuesday June 24 2008, 8:03 am: Try not to pull away next time :P It feels good because you are probably on the verge of an orgasm. How do you masturbate though? You should buy an electric toothbrush and well, yeah. It works. It wold be easier to recognize an orgasm and all that jazz, because for my first time.. it felt so good and weird at the same time, that I stopped. Not many girls can orgasm from penetration alone. You need stimulation! So it usually works best if he keeps the right movement, depth and speed or if you take over being on top. You don't have to go deep, actually swallow thrusts are good considering his 'head' will stimulate your clit. if you can keep the stimulation going at a slow speed then you should be able to orgasm.
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