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What's going on?
My boyfriend and I dry hump a lot with our clothes on...at the beginning he would always ejaculate very early..and then he decided that he would listen to take his mind off of ejaculating. Then he moved off of music and he can now control his ejaculation. My question now is lately we have been dry humping and well he gets tired and then his penis goes down...i'm wondering is this me? Am I turning him off? Is there anything we can do? Or I can do? Does he not think I'm attractive? I'm really worried and I don't know what to do. Please help me!
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It's a case of too much of a good thing too frequently. It's not at all your fault. If you keep doing the same activity day after day it becomes harder to get aroused through it and has a harder time ejaculating and loses the erection.
The best thing to do is to stop doing this activity for a few days and come back to it or try something different in its place. You'll find he will be aroused the same way he was before if you come back to dry humping later on.
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I'm pretty sure that this has nothing to do with you, he is probably just getting more used to the things you do and when you get comfortable with something I guess it just doesn't make you get off that fast anymore. The only thing I could say to do is maybe change it up a little, do some different things to keep him on his toes. You don't have to have intercourse or anything, even just talking to him about sex could be a big turn on. Or you could even ask him about it, ask him what turns him on and let him know what turns you on. Staying in control is often a huge turn on for guys.
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It's nothing about not being attractive or whatever.
If he ejaculated early and then he decided to take his mind off of it.. obviously it's either going to delay or stop it completely. it may not be easy for him to keep going without ejaculating. he may get tired and go limp.
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