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My classmate was in tears


Question Posted Sunday May 11 2008, 7:36 am

Okay over the weekend our school had this caraval, and me and my friends all met there & hung out. But while we were having fun a classmate of mine wasn't. You see me and her arn't really friends or anything but she's Bff's with my best friend Josh. So after the carnavil. She & Josh were talking, while the rest of us piged out on leftovers. But when josh got back he pulled me aside and said this:
"meg i HAVE to tell you something but i can't. ...Okay if you promise not to tell ANYONE I'll tell you" so I promised" And he said "okay well You know how I was talking to Chelsea (aka classmate) well she told me during the carnivall She got RAPED! She was crying and everything she said it was by some eight grader and he ripper her shirt off an started teasing her boobs, but her dad stoped him. BUT her dad won't beleive her and now she's in BIG trouble. BUT she made me SWEAR not to tell anyone so what do I do?" he told me all that. Should I tell someone or what?

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HiChick answered Sunday May 11 2008, 8:59 pm:
okk he only touched her. not trying to be mean but that is NOT rape and is not in any way nearly as devastating as if she was raped. it is however extremely difficult for her to deal with right now. tell your school counselor but ask her not to tell chelsea your name. you are too young to try and help this girl she needs an adult to help her deal and overcome this. btw the correct term for that is being molested not raped
hope i helped and i wish you all good luck
HiChick

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Comrade answered Sunday May 11 2008, 6:54 pm:
Technically, Chelsea wasn't raped. She was "only" molestated.

In my humble opinion, yes. It's your moral obligation to tell someone, preferabley a teacher or some other school official (Since this was a school event). If you're concerned about staying anonymous, leave a note.

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anniemaylane answered Sunday May 11 2008, 4:40 pm:
Thnx for the advice, and yeah I no techniclly it's not rape but it would've been if her dad hadn't walked in. THANKS A MILLION
-meg

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queenhearts answered Sunday May 11 2008, 3:55 pm:
You should slip a note .. if you can find out that boy's name... and only mention that boy's name for sexual harassment and give it to the office. touching her boobs is not really rape..

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