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ok how do you french kiss thats what i want to no (link)
to french kiss someone you stick your tongue in their mouth! duhhh! im so tired of people asking "how" to do it. theres no technique to it. the more you do it, the better you get, usually.


i was just wondering how old you were when you had your first kiss....im 14 and i still havent had mine so i kinda feel like a loser but plz put real age...ty (link)
i was 12. i know you cant wait, but it really doesnt matter how old you are. it'll happen soon enough though. it really varies throughout different people. good luck hun.


hello..i am 16, and turn 17 in february.. i was wondering peoples outlooks on me. i lost my virginity when i was 14 to the first 'highschool sweetheart'.. then i didnt have sex until this past summer. and once i did i was addicted. my sister said it probably runs through the family but im not sure. i have now 'hooked' up with 4 guys, including the highschool sweetheart. thing is, two guys were only when i was totally wasted so i dont know what to think. please tell me your outlook on my situation and why i might be 'addicted' to sex. (link)
i wouldnt say that makes you a slut, or that you act slutty. i would say you just like sex, and whats wrong with that? who doesnt like sex? i dont think its a big deal that you've had sex with 4 people, as long as it wasnt just some random person who you decided was a good choice of someone to do. now, since you did have sex with two people when you were wasted, i guess thats kind of considered slutty. and as for why your "addicted", i have no clue. just try to not have sex too much... or else people will start saying your a slut... and when people start saying stuff like that, it gets around, and then everyone thinks your a slut. so just try to keep your reputation clean for the most part. good luck.


ok well, i'm only 13 right, and i've been thinkin about sex,...alot, i'm still a virgin and everything but it's like a random thought that clouds my mind! it's so weird, and i dont even know what this means or anything,.... (link)
it means, your thinking about sex. thats it. i dont understand what the actual question is, but to let you know, theres nothing wrong with thinking about sex.


I have a boyfriend but he cant stop crying because he wants to see me, i liek him alot but like hes more emotional then me!
what do i do? (link)
if i were you, id dump him. hes a guy. guys arent supposed to cry like that. it really doesnt bother me when guys cry, but in a situation like this, thats kind of sad. im not telling you that you have to, cause i dont understand the circumstances of this relationship, but thats a little bit much for me...


ok my g/f wants to hook up with me and i want to but the only problem is i dont no how do go in and out i just dont get it i mean i no how to go around but not in and out can someone please help me i will rate hi (link)
its really not as hard as your making it seem... just bring your tounge in and out of her mouth. dont worry so much, you'll be fine.


well im like 16teen and when i was younger like about maybe 5-7 years old i experimented with somebody who was only like 2 yrs older i mean he didnt even go through pubity yet and i didnt feel anything so does that make me still tight like a virgin (link)
well, techniachally, you arent a virgin, but you can consider yourself one. it doesnt really count when your that young, but its still having sex. but if i were you i would tell people that im not a virgin. just say you are. no one is gonna know right?


Should I be worried if I'm on birth control (and have taken it effectively) and he uses a condom and pulls out? I know there's always a chance of getting pregnant, but I should be fine..right? (link)
you dont really have anything to worry about. im just as paranoid as you are, but i know that itll be ok. birth control and using a condom, most likely you wont have any problems.


so i woke up in the middle ofthe night the other day... and you see i was going to pee and i heard scary sounds coming from the basement. I did what my mama always told me and went down there with a shovel that i always keepunder my bed. So i tiptoe down and find this person like rollingaround in the basement.. so i hit him.. and then omg this is horrible.. it was my sister andher bf!!! they were having sex:o whatdo i tell my mom?? and my sister?? how can i confront her? i dont think she is ready emotionly. Is 37 too young?? idk thanx I RATE HIGH!!!! (link)
ok... the shovel under your bed really scares me... i wouldnt want to be them... having sex and then being hit by a shovel... but anyways... to answer the question, she's 37. that should just answer your question by itself, but no offense, you seem a bit slow. people have sex from the time theyre 13 years old, so 37 is fine. shes old enough to make her own decisons by now. you dont need to tell your mother... good luck hun...


i know everyone has a different variation, but can you send you version of the bases? ex. first base-making out, 2nd base-up the shirt, etc. (link)
1. french
2. feel
3. finger
home. fuck


I'm 16/f and i recently found out that im pregnant by my bf whos 17. I know i cant tell my mom anything until im sure what i'm going to do. I really want to tell my bf, but he would probably freak. and yes i was taking birth control. but should i tell my bf who would most likely insist that i keep it, or just go get an abortion n not ever mention it to him. or u can add ur own options (link)
oh god, dont get an abortion. first off tell your boyfriend about the baby. then DONT get an abortion. your going to have to tell your mother about this sooner or later. and if i were you, it would be later. i know the right thing to do is tell her now... but you can put it off for at least until you've talked to your boyfriend about this. but at most id say about three weeks. it'll all work out for you.


what is STD? i have seen people write about it on here and i don't know what it is is it short for aids? or something? (link)
SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASe.


does sex hurt the 1st time? how bad? plz help (link)
yes, alot. thats all there is to it.




I want sex? (link)
is that a question? maybe you do want sex.. so go have sex with someone...


i know this will sound really weird but how does having sex feel does it feel good painful or what? (link)
well the first time for a girl hurts - ALOT. for guys it just feels good.


ok i had sex for the first time about 2 weeks ago.. my bf had a condom on and everything but all i keep thinkin bout is me gettin pregnant.. im not showin any signs like.. gettin sick or things like that.. i cant really remember when my last period was so i guess i cant really go by that.. but i keep like totally frkin out! when do the signs start to show.. and if u use a condom what r the risks of pregnancy!!! please help me (link)
well, the risk of being pregnant if you used a condom arent very high. its still possible. i think theres like a .1 chance or something like 99% you wont get pregnant. throwing up or your boobs being sore are symptoms. good luck but i dont think your pregnant...


ok me andmyb/f were in his pool and he stuck it in me for like 3 min but ti kept comin out(in those 3 min) and he said nothing came out of him ....we didnt use protection, wat is the chance of me gettin pregnamt??????? (link)
you could definitly be pregnant.. you should definitly take a pregnancy test to make sure your not.. good luck


Ok I went out with a guy named kasey... and I knew everyone thought he is a bad person.. and He does bad stuff and everthin.. but he really treated me soo good.. Like I was lyin down on a bed.. and he picked me up and was like carryin me.. and I had my legs around his waist.. and my head on his shoulder.. and he just like started dancin with me.. but he was like holden me.. and then he wispered in my ear.. I love you .. and kissed me.. and then I new.. I really loved him (or I thought) and I really thought i did.. and then he broke up with me.. and I was sooo hurtt I cryd and cryd and I couldnt controle myself I was dyin.. and i had started cutting again and I wouldnt stop.. and then the next day he asked me back out.. and I said yes.. and then I looked in his pro and go why am I not in your pro.. and he goes I was jk.. so he was kiddin bout asken me out.. and I was sooo hurt I grabbed a nife and was bout to slit my throat.. but sunday had her bf call the cops on me.. and they came to my house and came in my room and found me holden a nife to my throat...

well here is the problem... I am now in a relation ship with a guy named mike.. and everyone says he is a player.. and has cheated on his gfs alot.. But I really like him.. and I want to believe he wont hurt me and stuff.. Well he is gone for 3 weeks camping with my friends bf.. jimmy.. so me and my friend are goin up to visit them friday.. Im not sure what to do cause I really dont want to get hurt again and I want to give us a try and all.. and I want to believe it will work out.. What do I do HELP!
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"almost everyone is going to hurt you. you just have to decide whos worth it." you should give him a chance but he is likely to hurt you if hes hurt other girls. seems like you've had quite some drama with guys. im really sorry about that. try to work it out with this guy but if it doesnt then dont sweat it.
good luck!


Around what time should you take a pregnacy test? Days before your period? after your period? or at any time? (link)
go with what pinky615 says, read the box. it gives a far better answer than anyone here does.


does having sex in a pool lessen your chances or getting pregnant? (link)
um no.. have fun with that one




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