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*HEY YALL...JESSICA HERE!WELL IM REALLY AN UPFRONT PERSON SO WHEN U ASK 4 ADVICE bEwArE!!
*AGE*---16~*~
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*FAV SPORTS*---BASKETBALL/CHEERLEADING/FOOTBALL~*
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*EYES---BLUE~*~
*HIEGHT---I'M 5'7~*~
*STATUS*---ME N SHAWN BROKE UP...I'M TALKIN TO THIS GUY NAMED LAMAR......I REALLY LIKE HIM 2... HE IS LIKE THE SWEETEST GUY EVER.... HE TREATS ME BETTER THAN SHAWN....AND IM NOT EVEN DATIN LAMAR....~*~
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WEL YALL I'M HERE 4 N E BODY WHO NEEDS ADVICE OR JUST TALK!!! I REALLY BEEN THRU SUM SHIT IN MY LIFE!!! MY MOM IS IN JAIL N SHE IS A MAJOR CRAK HED N SO IS MY DAD...I BEEN IN JAIL/JUVI MYSELF LIKE 4 TIMES.... BEEN IN several FIGHTS N GOT JUMPED PLENTY OH TIMES N HAD MY FAIR SHARE OH ASS WOOPPINS!!! TRUST ME, WHERE I COME FROM, NIGAS N BITCHES dont PLAY!!!
YALL NEED 2 GET A GRIP... THIS SPELLING THING THAT SEEMS TO BOTHER YALL SO MUCH IS JUS ME I DO IT SO IT DOESNT TAKE AS LONG 2 WRITE THINGS.....

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Hello, I was wondering if there were some long term effects of going on "the pill"? I've checked the Planned Parenthood site, it doesn't say anything about long term effects, only side effects in taking it.

I've also googled it without a credible website, a lot of them are personal websites or something of the sort.

Does anyone have a website that they know of that I can find this information?

not really it helps with regulating your period!!! i didnt see any changes though!!!

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ok. i dont get it. you kno how it feels good for us girls to be fingerd well sometimes. when the guys do it arent they bored. or grossed out. because they want plesure to you kno?

well all the guys i meet always ask me if they can so i dont guess it bothers them but im sure it is diffrent for every1

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ok i need i guys point of veiw or a girl who has been with a guy do guys like ur *pubic hair* hairy shaved a little hair but not a lote no hair??? what do they like i no everyone has a different point of view juss plzz help me

plz no stupid ass answers
*i rate high*

in all of my encounters (and i've had plenty) the guyz have liked it shaved!!!

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My discharge has turned brown for the past 3 days... i suppose to get my period in about a week. Is this spotting or should i worry?


fyi... i typically dicharge heavily between all my periods and it usually is white... the change in color just freaked me out because it's never happened before.


16/f and my period is usually regular

ummm well if you are used to having the same thing every month and now something is diffrent i wood go and see my gynocologist(sp?)

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can u get an STD if u have sex using a condom?

well yes if it busts and there is no garintee that it wont!! if your gonna do it, i wood suggest that you use 1 but it doesnt mean that you wont get one!!!

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I have another question, earlier i asked one about breaking up with my boyfriend and still likeing him and we became friends with benefits. well we were both were virgins and lost are virginities together. It was my first time so it didnt really feel to good. after he asked me if i felt good an i told him no. we did it a couple more times after that time and it still didnt really feel the best. i guess it got him angry bc he told my sister and his friends that i hate sex. is it normal to feel like that after your first time? is something wrong, what should i do?

yea usually a girls first time is definetly NOT the best!! i guess it takes a few times to get use to the feeling!!!!

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what is STD and how do u get and is it bad

an std is a sexually transmited desease.(sp?)
u get it from having sex.
yea it is really bad!

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wat is a std and wat is oral sex

an std is a sexually transmitted desease.... oral sex is like giving head or eating a girl out..

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last night i had sex for the third time. he didnt use a condom and im not sure if he came in me. i was due for my period anyways and now i have it. my friend said that i could be pregnant. and im really scared. i cant talk to my mom about that kinda of stuff either. how can i tell or what should i do? please help me.

well first off if you had of used a condum you wouldnt be having this problem.....but luckily you have nothing to worry about because you did get your period....your friend is wrong.... your not pregnant..

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What do you do when you loose respect for the ones you love most ?

well i dont think that having sex should be this difficult...... your friends are supose to be w/ you till the end... i guess you just get new friends.

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What do you do when everybody around you is turning their backs n you when your going through the consequences of the actions that came with the peer pressure they were putting on you to loose your virginity?

r you saying that you had sex because you were pressured into it and now you r pregnant??? if so then this is the best time to find out who your truest friends are and who is gonna be there till the end..

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when your cherry pops does it hurt and if you no what does it feel like

well im sure it's diffrent 4 everybody.... but i had NO pain

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Umm...on my 15 b day my friend gave me a vibrator like a solid one and it got some scratches on it after a while and yet i still use it! one day i was using it and it started to be painful and when i hit climax, i noticed it had blood on it and i think i have already popped my cherry and i kno it wasnt that time of the month, so could the scratches on the vibrator be cutting me? Please help thanx!

if you're not totally sure that your cherry has been popped already then thats prolly what it was but anyone w/ ANY sence would kno not to use a vibrator w/ scratches on it....

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How much does sex hurt and how can you not make it hurt i mean for the first time

its diffrent for each person....the only way to prevent pain is to just not have sex... u can tell the guy to take it easy though..

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Is it wrong to watch porn while you masterbate?

no... what u do in your spare time is u for it


MORE POWER TO U

JESSICA

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how do u knowif your cherry is popped because i used to play sports (soccer) and i ride bikes sometimes!!

well i wood think not but u urself cant tell im pretty sure i gotta stick somthin up there to pop it

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Sometimes after I finsh masturbate I start leaking.Is that noramal?If not how can i make it stop?Plese help me!

yep that wood be the natural thing to do...

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no
I am asian

well do u have dark skin?

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I am a 20 years old horny virgin lives in toronto.
You know any girl wants a one night stand thing in toronto area?
Give them my msn
torontoguy_8@hotmail.com

Yea i do!! call her @ 1-865-603-0551 ASK 4 JODIE!! SHES A FREAKK!! SO SHE WILL DO N E THING WITH YOU! TO SATISFY UR EVERY NEED!!

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ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and i really love him. he has only had sex with one girl. but many times. they broke up long be fore we got together. so just say i lost my virginity to him do you think he would have any kind of std from having sex with just that ONE other girl.?? like do u think theres a chance of him having an STD, from that one girl and then having sex with me and then all of a sudden i get it??? thanks i rate HIGHHH

ok well yes there is a very big chance he did get one...there is always a chance... people could have an STD and not even know it until....well a long time after they had sex..

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