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I was molested by my dad when i was 3 in 1991 .my mom pressed charges against him . The court gave him 1 night in jail and got 10year probation plus my mom divorced him and was only allowed supervises visitation but my question is that when I was little my granny let him live in the house that she owned right behind me.why did law enforcement allow this when there is a sex offender law ? (link)
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They might not have known about it. If he and your grandmother were both careful about it, they could have hidden the fact he was living there from police and/or caseworkers. It's also possible that as part of a plea deal, he did not have to register as a sex offender; for instance, it might have been difficult to prove in court that he was guilty, so the prosecution made a deal rather than risk having him get off scot free.
The real question is why your grandmother would allow such a thing. I'm guessing she is your father's mother, and she probably preferred to believe that he was innocent rather than face a horrible truth that she couldn't handle. It is unfortunate that she held her illusions in higher regard than your safety, but that's what people will do sometimes.
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How do you give a 14 year old a boner without touching him (link)
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Heck, you can just wait and it'll happen on its own. At that age, most boys are getting spontaneous erections for no particular reason.
I'd kind of want to know why you wish to do this before giving you specific advice... after all, a lot of the things people traditionally do to inspire erections are felonies when applied to a 14-year-old.
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he waited for 5 mins..i suppose he wiped it off properly
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It is extremely unlikely that some still-viable sperm got to you, but not quite impossible. Sperm cells are not very robust and die fairly easily - that's why men have millions of them. The chances that any of them lived through the wiping off, the five minutes of time spent outside the body (his or yours), and that one of them managed afterward to make it all the way to one of your eggs are very close to zero, probably along the same lines as the odds of you winning the lottery on one ticket... but people DO sometimes win the lottery.
My advice remains the same: get a home pregnancy test and check.
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my boyfriend had sperms on his hands but then he wiped it off with a hanky and then he fingered me, is there a chance of me being pregnant (link)
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The chance is very small, but not zero. It depends on a few things, like how much was there in the first place, how well he wiped it off, and how long he waited before touching you again. For your peace of mind, get an at-home test and see what it says.
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I've already reported your site to Google and other search engines. I hope they kick your sad sorry butts off the net, or that Obama does something about sites like this, where any idiot can answer a question like "What's the fastest way to commit suicide?" I'm a reporter doing an expose, and believe me I will expose your site and others who are allowing this type of thing to occur! God help you if a parent finds the site up on their child's computer after such a suggestion is made and the teen carries out their suicide attempt in the exact manner as a teenager told them to do.
Isn't the world cruel enough? Where do you people get your values from? Or do you have any at all?
Pull out a bible and try reading it sometime!
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Take a look at some of the responses to the questions when people - mostly kids - say they want to kill themselves. They are almost universally supportive of that person finding a counselor or otherwise continuing with life. On the rare occasions when someone DOES post a response giving practical advice on suicide, those responses are reported by other contributors and removed by the administrators.
Let me clue you in on something: People who ask a public forum for advice on how to kill themselves are NOT looking for that kind of advice. We all know how to kill ourselves; I can look around the room I'm in and see half a dozen foolproof methods. Anyone living near a five-story building or a railroad track has a way out. Furthermore, there are websites out there where ways to die are described in great detail (are you protesting against them too? Somehow, I doubt it). No, people post suicide intentions here because they are looking for someone to TALK THEM OUT OF IT. We understand that. It's unfortunate that you do not.
Oh, and incidentally, you are a Liar. You're NOT a reporter doing an expose. If you were, you wouldn't say so; that rather defeats the purpose of doing an expose. If you were a reporter, you wouldn't be posting messages here saying so, because that would adversely affect your ability to objectively research your article. Open your Bible and see what it has to say about lying; I'm sure there must be something in there about that.
You also don't understand the way the Internet works if you think that the President or anyone else can kick someone off. Go ahead and report this site to anyone you like. Nothing illegal is being done here. I encourage you to spend as much time as you possibly can getting this site shut down. You will fail, and that will prevent you from whatever other harmful actions you might have in mind.
And by the way, you should open YOUR Bible and read it sometime; it has a few things to say about Suicide:
"And a certain woman cast a piece of a millstone upon Abimelech's head, and all to brake his skull. Then he called hastily unto the young man his armourbearer, and said unto him, Draw thy sword, and slay me, that men say not of me, A women slew him. And his young man thrust him through, and he died." -- Judges 9:52-53
"And Samson took hold of the two middle pillars upon which the house stood, and on which it was borne up, of the one with his right hand, and of the other with his left. And Samson said, Let me die with the Philistines. And he bowed himself with all his might; and the house fell upon the lords, and upon all the people that were therein. So the dead which he slew at his death were more than they which he slew in his life." -- Judges 16:29-30
"Therefore doth my Father love me, because I lay down my life, that I might take it again. No man taketh it from me, but I lay it down of myself." -- John 10:17-18
I will consider it a point of pride if you give me a very, very low rating on this response and report me to the site administrators.
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Hey everyone! Im an eight grade boy who goes to school in oregon. So i had a really good friend ( a girl ) who i liked. Ok, well not liked, loved i guess. All i thought about was her. I dreamed about her. I thought about having a future with her. I loved this girl. Everything about her. Her smile, her love for animals, she was pretty smoking hot too. So anyways, she got a boyfriend (which crushed me) and i noticed they moved rather fast. He was touching her butt after one week. So since she had started to date this guy, our friendship became foggier and foggier. I asked her why she had not been talking to me, and somehow she ended up tellimg me that she had been doing stuff she wasnt proud of. Things like cutting herself and being anerexic. Once she had told me this, my heart just completely flopped. I told her that she was perfect and beautiful just the way she was and i told her i loved her (i was not lying)and she told me not to tell anyone. Now, a little sidenote, her boyfriend and i were bros, and i couldnt handle all of the pressure inside of me, i ended up telling her boyfriend, and he cared as well. She stopped talking to me and removed me on facebook, and blocked my phone. I love this girl and i cant just sit here and watch her deteriorate, as well as completely rip me out of her life. Since then, i have been extremely suicidal (attempted suicide 7 times) and i still love her. Somehow i need closure with her. She wont acknowlage my existance at school, and she told me that if i got hit by a train, it would be the happiest day of her life. I love this girl beyond measure and i dont know what to do. (link)
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You have to move on. She wants nothing more to do with you. Whether that's the right call or not, whether it's fair or not, whether you like it or not, she has made the decision and she has made it very, very clear that the decision is final. I suspect that she's very upset that she told you something in confidence and you told her boyfriend all about it. That's not a "little sidenote" - that's a serious breach of trust. While there are some times when one must put a friend's welfare ahead of their confidence, you really should have told her parents or a school counselor. Instead, you told her boyfriend because you "couldn't handle all the pressure" (your words). You weren't thinking of her feelings or her well-being; you were thinking of your own. As soon as you understand that, you'll know why she's so angry with you and why she's not going to just get over it.
It is unfortunate that she has made some poor choices and that she is deteriorating, but there is NOTHING you can do about it. Any good advice you give her will be ignored. If you try to force yourself on her, you will only make things worse. She may even feel compelled to accuse you of harassing her, which could result in your expulsion from the school.
You also need to stop attempting suicide. That will help no one, least of all yourself, and it certainly won't do her any good. I can't help but think that you're doing as a desperate attempt to get a reaction from her - forgive me for being blunt, but if you really meant to kill yourself, you would have succeeded by now. What you are really doing is continuing the pattern of putting own feelings ahead of anyone else's. You're thinking about ending your pain at the price of causing pain for all those who care about you.
The only way you can ever have any future relationship with this girl, whether as friends or anything else, is to give up now. That may seem nonsensical, but the fact is that she is seven shades of pissed off at you and she'll be that way for the foreseeable future, especially if you keep bothering her and giving her reasons to stay angry. Don't look for "closure" - you won't get it, and besides it's just another way of putting your feelings ahead of hers once again. Instead, just back away. Stop trying to communicate with her in any way, even to the point of ignoring her just as she does with you. Don't even try to apologize; she doesn't want to hear it. The ONLY way you will ever get back into her good graces is if she makes the first move. The odds are that will never happen, so don't hold onto too much hope, but it's the only chance you have. And as small as that chance is, you'll make it smaller every time you try to make it happen before she's ready to forgive.
One more thing... the girl you fell in love with no longer exists. She may not have ever really existed in the first place. That glowing, perfect, idealized version of her lives only in your mind. I know what I'm talking about here; I've been there and done that. I can say from experience that the best way to see to it that someone remains forever out of your reach is to put them on a pedestal.
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I'm new to this website. I'll be honest and tell you I am currently drinking whiskey and high on xanax. Avoid your judgement. I think this way when I'm sober but I say it when i'm not anxious. My personal belief, stemming from an extensive amount of experiences with death and after coming to the full realization and acceptance that I will die at some point, is that death is simply a transitional period for our lives. This conscious part(i.e. the part that allows me to do this and 'live' the daily grind) isn't the only aspect of my life. This is just one period my soul..mind..spirit(whatever you want to call it) goes through before proceeding to the next level. So, my question is: Is it suicide if i'm just choosing to change consciousness? Please save me the organized religious bull shit and the bible quotes. I want to know what honest, real people think of that. I'm not asking for help. I'm asking if there's anyone else that understands where i'm coming from. No rush on response. I'm going to save this site in my favorites and check periodically. I honestly just want to set a death date for myself within the next two decades so I can finally start living my life the way I want to. It'll just be more comforting to know a few people think this is reasonable/understandable. (link)
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Even if you're right - even if death is just a transition to some other form of consciousness - there's no guarantee it'll be a positive one.
When it comes to death, we all have exactly one reliable piece of evidence to go on: we have all been dead before. That is to say, there was a time for all of us when we were not alive. For me, it was the time before 1972. And I can recall none of it; as far as I know, I had NO form of consciousness before I was born. Of course, I have no recollection of that event either, but there were reliable witnesses so I'm pretty sure it happened.
That having been said, there is NO reason - none whatsoever - to assume that we will have any more consciousness after we are dead than we did before we were alive. All the ideas about life after death, continuing consciousness, Heaven and Hell, reincarnation, or any other death-transcending notions are all based on one thing, and one thing alone: Wishful thinking. It is disquieting to think that death is the final end for each of us.
There was once a group of about three dozen people who all took their own lives in the firm belief that they would be transported aboard an alien spaceship behind comet Hale-Bopp as it passed Earth in 1997. Just because they had this belief, it didn't make what they did "not suicide". Your own beliefs about consciousness following death may seem more rational than that, but it doesn't change the fact that you might be just as wrong, and you will be just as dead as everyone else who has ever killed themselves. It IS still suicide, and trying to call it a "transition" doesn't change that.
By all means, start living life the way you want to (so long as you have respect for the way others wish to live). But there is no need or point to setting a deadline to your life. For one thing, there is no guarantee that you'll make it there; lots of people die before they expect to. More significant that that, though, is the simple fact that taking your own life is the very last decision you will ever make, and there is no backing out of it if it doesn't go the way you think it will.
Suicide is an option for those who are facing a life of inescapable pain and misery; there might be a case to be made if you were a terminal cancer patient, for instance. But if you plan on "two decades" of living life the way you want to, you must be in reasonably good health. That's something real. Think hard before throwing that away for something which is likely to be completely imaginary.
I can offer you no comfort about death. Neither can anyone else. Those who say they can simply have no idea what they are talking about.
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wel i am 21 and she is 20, you said i should not ask her hot photos thanks k i hope i do it,and you said i cant get any disease by masturbation ok i am clear in this,but my testis is one side gets down low down then the other is that creates any problem for me,and now i rub my penis and around tht because of itches often whenever i come from collage it itches ,i hope its because of sweat but i want to ask you so i ask you now thanks please give me help full thought,and should i stop masturbation,because daily i do it and may be 2 or 3 times in a day :( pls tel me
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One testicle is almost always lower than the other, sometimes by quite a lot. You have nothing to worry about as far as that's concerned.
Testicles will itch; it's part of the curse that all men must deal with. Hair, sweat, and lots of nerve endings all combine to make the testicles the itchiest part of the male anatomy. Insofar as what you can do about it, you might try changing the kind of underwear you wear; if you're a boxers man, try briefs, or vice-versa.
Mastubating 2-3 times a day is probably a little excessive. There's no danger to your health, but it has to be taking up a fair chunk of your time, and there's also a problem in that if you get too accustomed to your own method of getting off, it may be more difficult for you to enjoy actual sex (you don't mention if you and your girlfriend are sexually active, but eventually you may be, and you don't want to be dependent on your own hand to reach orgasm).
I am now 40, but at the age of 20, I was rubbing one out pretty much once a day. With the wisdom of hindsight, I now think that I spent a little too much time on that activity, but at the time it felt like something I just had to do to keep my needs in check. Really, in the end, only you can decide what works for you. If you feel like you're doing it too much, cut back to strictly once per day and see if you feel better about it.
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i used to masrubate daily,and it becomes habits for me pls help me ,i want to stop it,even i feel always to touch and see my gf boobs,i jerked by seeing her photo,one of my testis become lower is that bad :(,i fear that i wil get STD like that or AIDS ,more over i want to control asking hot photos from my gal,please help me (link)
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It is not possible to get an STD from masturbating. You absolutely CANNOT get AIDS, syphilis, gonorrhea, herpes, or any other disease from masturbation. Masturbation is completely safe, and even healthy to a certain extent.
This is not to say that it can't be habit-forming past the point where it's emotionally healthy. Masturbation certainly feels good, and creates a "reward" of sorts by releasing endorphins into your system. So, it is possible to do it excessively, to the point where it interferes with your life.
The solution is to exercise a little self-discipline. If you're doing it every day and that seems like too much, try cutting back so you're only doing it every other day.
And you should definitely stop asking for "hot photos" from your girlfriend, because that gets creepy after a while and she may not want to be your girlfriend anymore if you press the point. If she's happy to give you such photos of her own accord, then by all means feel free to accept them, but do NOT pressure her to do so in any way.
This must be said, however: if she's under 18, and she's giving you pictures of herself which show nudity, then you are in possession of child pornography - even if you're under 18 yourself! As much as it might pain you to do so, you should burn any such pictures you have (or delete them permanently from your computer, if they're digital). It is not worth the consequences if you are caught with them.
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My boyfriend and I have tried having "kinky" sex. He really likes it and so do I but thats just it...I want it to go a little bit further.. I want him to be more rough I guess. I want him to literally like almost be mean to me. I want him to be a LOT more aggressive and treat me like his slave basically. I just don't know how to tell him.
I don't have any issues telling him what I like or telling him to pull my hair, I just feel like what I really want is taking it a little too far How do I tell him this? What if he thinks it's too much? Is this a weird sexual desire? Because I seriously want it a little degrading almost.. I just don't feel like this is really normal. I've looked on sites like cosmopolitan and I didn't find any advice on anything that I want. (link)
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It's not abnormal. What you're describing is actually quite popular. It is not weird or indicative of any sort of disorder on your part. It is perfectly natural to get turned on by succumbing to your sex partner's power over you, and as long as it's always mutually consensual and no one suffers any actual injury, it's all fine and good.
The way to approach it with him is slowly. First of all, come up with a safe word so you can let him know when he's going too far; this will make him more comfortable, because he will know that unless he hears that word, it's all consensual and it's what you want. Give him a few specifics insofar as what you want him to do, but also encourage him to come up with some stuff on his own; you will probably enjoy it more if you don't know exactly what's coming. And, take it a little farther each time until you reach your comfort level.
It's also important to reciprocate; make sure to give him what HE wants from time to time, and don't always make it about the kink. Make sure you show him you can still enjoy regular, vanilla sex with him, because that will assure him (and you!) that it's more about WHO you're having sex with than WHAT you're doing.
And remember than anyone who condemns your kink as weird and perverse is probably either secretly doing it themselves, or wishing they could.
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It's mouth-to-genital contact.
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My name is PRERIT. I am 25 years old. I am from India. Actually I wanna die just because of my love relationship is over. I loved my girlfriend a lot but because of my mistakes I have lost my love. She doesn't talk to me. She thinks that I cheated her but the thing is my father admitted me in the Re-Habitation center. Because of that I was totally in out of contact with everyone. I was not able to contact my love from last 8 months. Now i tried to contact her a lot but she has changed her all of the contacts. I don't wanna live alive without her. I just wanna die. There is nothing in my life without her. So please let me know the way to suicide. Make sure that I should surely die with that idea. There shouldn't be any chance to get alive from that way. Please help me out. (link)
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The fact of the matter is that anyone who lives within driving distance of a railroad track or a ten-story building has access to a quick, easy, and foolproof suicide method. Not only that, but there are lots of places on the internet which would give you exactly the information you're looking for, without your having to wait for a response. And yet you came here, to an advice-seeking website, where you must realize that most responders (if not all) will try to talk you out of suicide rather than help you accomplish it.
Please consider this as evidence that there is still a part of you that doesn't want to die. And as long as that part of you still has a voice, listen to it. Give yourself a chance to save your own life.
Right now, you are in a very emotional state. This isn't a good frame of mind to be in when you're buying a cell phone, let alone making a decision which will end all possibility of other decisions yet to come.
There are people who care about you. Your father, for instance - he didn't check you into rehab because he wanted you to die, he did it because he wanted you to live. That's worth something, isn't it?
I would implore you to think carefully about the consequences of what may be the last action you ever take. Perhaps it will end your pain - but perhaps it won't. None of us knows what happens after death. There are no guarantees except this one: Once you have taken your own life, there is no going back. And even if you do end your pain that way, you will have bought that solace at a terrible price, as those who still love you must live with what you did, and forever wonder if they could have done anything more to stop it.
I say this again: some part of you still wants to live, or you wouldn't be here. Give life a chance. What do you have to lose?
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I really want to give this guy a blowjob but something is just telling me not to. What should I do? (link)
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Listen to your instinct. It's there for a reason.
Take a look around this site and see how many girls (and occasional guys) are asking for advice on what to do because they jumped into a sexual relationship without being really ready for it. They had "something telling them not to" as well, but they ignored that voice.
There will always be people who give you advice on things, whether you ask for it (like you just did) or not. But the most important person to take advice from is YOURSELF. Right now, you are telling you not to do this. If I were you, I'd trust you on this one.
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no love for me ever. heartbroken too many times. you told similar man to take 10 beers 40 percoset and 100 xanax. i am afraid that i will either vomit out such quantities but more that it wont work. i will be paralyzed drooling piss and crap in pants always,blind, and be aware of all this. (link)
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I find myself hoping that you wrote this looking for someone to talk you out of it. The fact of the matter is that anyone who lives anywhere near a 10-story building or a railroad track has access to a quick and reasonably painless suicide method, so perhaps this is not really what you're looking for.
To take your own life is a decision which you can never, ever take back. Once you've done it, the deed is forever done. That being the case, please consider whether you've honestly exhausted absolutely ALL the other options. Have you sought out professional counseling? If you can't afford a counselor, try http://suicidehotlines.com; there are resources there.
I say this next part not to make you feel worse, but rather to make sure you've thought about it: Chances are, you feel as though you've made a lot of bad choices in your life (most of us feel that way). Isn't it possible that the choice to kill yourself is another error in judgment? Do you really feel you're in the proper emotional state of mind to make such a huge decision?
Death is not really an option. Rather, it is the end of all options. Before you make the last choice you will ever make, be sure that you've really considered those other options. If you're resigned to the idea of self-destruction, then you have nothing to lose by trying something else first.
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That a person can determine that another person isn't a virgin by there hips?
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No.
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my boyfriend of about a year keeps indirectly pressuring me to have sex with him and it bothers me. and i feel kinda guilty cause hes on the football team and he gets pressured from people and i know that. but i wouldnt do it because of that, but im just really feeling pressured now, even though i never thought i would. but im not ready yet, cause im only a junior in high school, and ive told him that im not ready yet. what should i do? (link)
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He shouldn't be pressuring you on this. He should respect you enough to let you come to it in your own time, if at all.
If he's getting pressure from the guys on the football team, and succumbing to that, then he's essentially saying that their feelings on the matter mean more to him than yours. Since when does the football team get any say on when and how you lose your virginity? THEY can have sex with your boyfriend if it's so important to them!
You should make it clear to him one more time that you will have sex when you are ready to do it and that the more he presses the issue, the less likely it is to happen. Lay it out in no uncertain terms, and tell him that he's putting your relationship at risk. Then, if he continues to push for sex... end it. Even if it hurts to do so, you'll be sending a clear message that you won't be pushed into anything you're not ready for, and that when it comes to sex, YOU decide what you will and won't do.
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i'm 14 years old female. i had sex with my boyfriend 4 days after my period we did it with a condom then i gave him a hand job and about a hour later we did it a little without a condom and he didn't cum in my though. is there still a chance i can get pregnant from when he cumed before the 2nd time? (link)
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Yes, there is a chance. Any time you have unprotected sex, there's an average 25% chance of conception. You should get a test and figure out for sure.
I strongly recommend you avoid sex for the next few years, even protected sex. Condoms aren't 100% effective, every time. You are also under the legal age of consent (16 in most states), which means that if anyone found out about it, your boyfriend could be charged with statutory rape even if you were willing.
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1. what are the earliest warrning signs of pregnancy and when do they start to happen?
2. when u are pregnant do u miss your period completly or does it just come late?
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These are questions you should be asking a doctor. A medical professional can give you definitive, correct answers; a random sampling of people on this website might be right, or dead wrong.
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Hi Xeneolan,
First of all, I'd like to say how much I enjoy your column-you have given me, and continue to give others, some of the most sensible and compassionate advice I have seen, either on or off Advicenators.
Second of all, please don't be put off by the title of my question! I know that it sounds a little dodgy(and my unease is the reason I'm writing in the first place) but I promise that I'll keep the content of the question as "appropriate" as the very subject matter allows it to be.
Basically, I'm a happy young woman(25) in a very good relationship with a man of about the same age. I love him and would never dream of cheating on him, but lately I have been having a lot of extremely erotic dreams about a young man(aged 17) who works with me. This makes me feel guilty and confused 1) Because it feels like cheating(even though dreams are outwith my control) and 2) Because this boy is so young, I feel almost like a pedophile(hence the title of my question). I do, of course recognize the difference between ephebophila (love of the adolescent) and pedophilia, but I still am surprised and disturbed by my lust for this boy (I have to force myself not to fantasise about him during waking hours-I'd feel like a pervert.
To be honest, I don't quite know what I'm asking you for here, reassurance that what I feel is normal, or a viewpoint on why it might be considered unhealthy. I know that there is a lot of confusion and debate in today's world about the sexualisation of young adults:I know I myself felt ambiguous about my own sexual "visibility" when I was that age. Any thoughts of yours would be appreciated.
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I certainly don't think you're a pedophile. A pedophile is excited particularly by prepubescence and childlike attributes, and while I don't know much about the object of your lust, seventeen is usually old enough for someone to be physically more of a man than a boy. Consider if you'd be attracted to him if he was twelve, and that should put your mind at ease on that score (let's hope). I also wouldn't call you an ephebophile (thanks for teaching me a new word!) unless you habitually focus on teenagers to the exclusion of men closer to your own age. Clearly, that is not the case.
And incidentally, there may be too much sexualization of young adults in today's world, but we should probably remember that a hundred years ago, someone would have been considered a fully-grown adult at the age of 17 (and a thousand years ago, 14 was considered old enough). Our society has probably the highest "Age of Adulthood" in the history of the human race, so if you ask me, it's not surprising that we sometimes find ourselves sexually attracted to those in the 16-19 age group. It's not a perversion; it's just that society has changed faster than our basic human instincts.
What's not particularly healthy is that your focus on this guy seems to be moving into the area of "obsession". Whatever his age, that's not a good thing. There are three things that might help you to get over this.
(1) If you're sexually active with your significant other, you might consider asking him if he would be willing to engage in a little role-playing whereby he would pretend to be a young and perhaps virginal guy. I think that most men would be happy to do something like that once in a while, especially if you're willing to indulge him in something in return.
(2) This solution carries a little more risk, but it also may help even more. Basically, you get to know your 17-year-old coworker as a person. I'm not saying you should date him or anything like that, but just have friendly conversation at work. It will be easier to control these dreams and waking fantasies once you know him in a more well-rounded way. The risk is that you may start to see more and more things that attract you to him, and that could be problematic.
(3) Sometimes it helps to just let your mind indulge in the fantasy, but carry it to its logical extreme. Think of what it would be like to be this guy's prom date, meet his parents, or attend his high-school graduation as his girlfriend. Obviously you're not even considering having such a relationship with him, but if you actually DO think about it in those terms, you may suddenly find that he's a lot less appealing in other ways.
My gut feeling is that this is something you'll get over in time, so give it time. That's really the best solution, because given enough time, he won't BE a teenager anymore.
Oh, and thank you for your kind words! I do my best.
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im a girl. when i shave "down there" i get the razor burn//bumps. how can i make it go away? (link)
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Apply a thin layer of neosporin antibiotic ointment immediately after shaving. It's vaseline-based, so don't put on expensive panties right away, or they might pick up a grease stain. A little goes a long way; a drop the size of a watermelon seed should cover you.
I've used it on my neck to get rid of razor burn there, and it does an excellent job.
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