Hey! I'm Melaur-F 16 5'7 111 pounds! I've been through some tough times in my life and I have heard that I give really good advice. I LOVE helping people out no matter what age.. oh, and I can be kinda bitchy sometimes about stupid people that write LyKe DiS.. I'm not saying I always use correct grammer but COME ON lets atleast speak the same language people! I love to help on long complicated problems... they make me think! I'm an EXTREMLY deep thinker as well, sometimes I get so bad I have to see a doctor about being crazy.. which I'm not, I promise :o) Well anywhoooo... ask me absolutly anything, I promise I'll answer as long as I can read it! Take care!!!
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ok im a virgon(well, not any more) and so was she (um.. well not any more) just say there was alot of blood involved. anyone knows why??!!
(and it wasnt from me....) probably seems dumb, i just wanna know why, i know a little about it, but hlp plz (link)
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you popped her cherry! nooo problems, completely normal! it doesnt happen to all girls but most do bleed, and she might bleed for a few days after as well, its COMPLETELY normal. :o) hope everything goes well between yall!!
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umm when you are kissing someone do you move ur mouth at all or just your touge im a little confused about that?
if you can explain it that would be great thanks!
and do guys notice when your there first kiss or not?
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lol. yes you do move your mouth, and your tongue! well if your just kissing its just your lips but if your making out its both, it totally depends how intense yall are kissing/making out/whatever, and no, guys dont usually know when their your first kiss, my fist kiss didnt atleast! just follow what he does. good luck and have fun! :o)
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Ok here u goes. I'm 17/male. And there's our neighbor sta**/Female who's 30. The problems that I think she sexually desires me. It all starts when she began to smile to me 2 month ago just after we moved to this new neighborhood. Anyway I was surprised last morning when she called me while passing her house. (She was outside and I respond her). So she handled my hand and moved it inside the shirt &I touch her breast. I can't deny that I felt erotic in that moment." I WANT U": Were her words. She told me that she wants 4rom me to have sex with her. Then I removed my hand quickly saying that I am late for school and I run away.
I am confused….should I refused or agreed?? Because she really success to seduce me and SHE'S REALLY HOT and SEXY and I am physically attracted to her. I know that she's older… What should I do????
Ps: I flirt many times and had sex 3 times.
Thanks 4 advices. Justin
Email:justin_frogy@yahoo.com
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hmmmm sounds more like a fantasy to me then reality... my answer is do it! if you want to.. why not? does she have a husband? if yes then NOOO do NOT NOT NOT do it. don't come between a marraige. you must be REALLY hott to have a 30 year old woman try to suduce you! good luck with all that :o)
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i'm a guy and was wondering something. as the question implys, i would like to know whether most people put feelings or morality first, and why. my example is pre-marital sex. there must be at least 20 questions on that topic before this one...some say 'do it if you feel ready' while others say 'no because you'll regret it and it's not meant to be that way'. both seem good reasons for or against it. is it both? should you really put your feelings and that of another first, or should you stick to your moral values, reguardless of what others or society has to say about pre-marital sex. thanks, will rate. (link)
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I think feelings and morality connect in a way. Everybody has to decide what they think is MORAL. I don't think pre-marital sex is immoral. Why? It is sex. If you believe there is nothing more to it then a dick and a pussy, why would it be immoral? If you believe that religion ties into it and peoples feelings, then some would believe it IS immoral. A person who is strongly aginst this wouldn't put their feelings first, they would do what they believe is moral. A person who doesn't believe that strongly that " pre-marital sex is wrong" would for sure put their feelings first because they don't believe it is wrong in anyway. So pretty much what I'm saying is that it completely depends on what the persons belief of moral is. :o) good question!
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am 25 yr old guy, virgin....off late feel like have sex...but masturbate at least thrice a week...would that cause problems in future? i have been doing this for quite a few yrs now. (link)
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nope! as far as i know it won't do you any harm, i know guys that masterbate like 3 times a DAY! so if by some weird chance that it does have a bad effect, atleast you wouldn't have it that bad :oP but yeah.. no worries. Congrats on being a virgin at 25! lots of respect to you!
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Last night, my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. While we were doing it, it started to feel good (but it still hurt), and sometimes when he was like going inside of me and the back out it started to feel like it was too much. It felt like I was having an orgasm, but it felt like I was going to like throw up. This happened like 5 times during a period of like 45 minutes. Is this normal and has it happened to anyone else? (link)
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I don't know why that happens but yeah I felt like that too... it's weird, I felt like I was going to throw up too( not my first time but my second time???)... I guess don't worry about it, it goes away
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Hey, well I'm 14 female and like when ever I see a cute guy I fall for him. Like I like a guy at my school and another one and when I went to some men's college soccer games i like feel madly in love with them but i know I'll never ever be albe to have then and I can't cause that's like a 18 years dif. and yea. So is this normal for me to be falling for like every cute,hott guy i see? Thnaks (link)
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for your age, yes completely normal. Just remember, if theres 18 years difference... you can't have them. Don't forget that and you won't get upset about it!
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my friend abby is in the tenth grade, and her older sister and boyfriend just commited suicide together on saturday(nov.5) and today..abby wasnt at school (no suprise) how long do you think it will be until abby comes back? abby is the kind of person that if she's really depressed she'll start cutting herself... how can i tell (besides the odvious cut scars)if she has?, what can i do to comfort her, (i only see her in latin, because i sit behind her, and she's a couple grades older than me, so i dont see her after school) i just dont want to make things worse for her. she's a really great person, but a little misunderstood by adults... HELP!!! any advice or help will get you a 5 cause i dont know what to do!
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That's a hard thing to help out with. People react different in tough situations, some people want everybody to leave them alone, some people want everybody to comfort them, and some people pretend that they want to be left alone but really WANT to be comforted. Some people hate when people say their "sorry for their loss" because it reminds them of it when their trying to move on with thier lives. Just make sure your there for Abby if she needs to talk. If she looks sad, make a joke, or say something that will make her smile, comfort her without reminding her. Good luck
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hey im like obssesed w/ my chemical romance. Im ALWAYS obssesing over them!!! they have inspired so much to me im now goth obssesed w/eath and i just need help im ruined theyre the only reason i live for. and suicide is only a permanent solution for a temperary problem. help!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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I'm alittle bit confused... what's your question? If your thinking about commiting suicide and your asking for help I'd LOVE to help out. First of all, you feel that the only thing you live for is my chemical romance right? sweetie, you need to find something else to do with your time, my chemical romance is a BAND. a couple of people who can sing and play intruments. They are normal people like you and me, don't let them change you. It's cool if you want to be goth, if that's the way you want to express yourself then more power to you! suicide is NOT the only permanent solution for a temperary problem. Like I just said a TEMPERARY problem, meaning it's not going to last forever, you'll get over it. Even though you feel like nothing (except my chemical romance)is worth living for, which I have felt(without the my chemical romance part), you have to try your hardest to remember that "after every storm there's a rainbow" corny I know, but completely true. After every hardship you take, something good will happen, you have to believe that. I THINK I answered your question? Leave me an inbox if you need anything else.. I'm always here to talk if you want! good luck with your obsession :o)
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ok i just took a pregnancy test and it was positive!im only 16 years old:(i dont want to tell my parents because they said if i ever get pregeat at a young age they will kick me out of the house!!!!i dont know what to do!plzzzz help (link)
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hey buddy, I've been in that position too. Well kinda? anyway... I had sex with no protection and completely skipped a period. It's scary as shit.. I'm 16 too. First, before talking to your parents, talk to the guy you are having it with.. is he your boyfriend? If so, do you want to marry this guy? Talk to him about it because this is a huge deal. If he's not your boyfriend then talk to him about if you DO tell your parents and they DO kick you out.. ask if you can stay with him.. after all he kinda owes it to you!! if hes a bitch and says no then go to your best friend, or somebody you trust, maybe somebody thats religous... their really forgiving and are always willing to help. you didnt give that much information and thats all i can really say but if you need anything else please leave something in my inbox because i know how stressful and hard those things are! good luck and best wishes
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first time you have sex is it better to have it with a virgin or a already experienced guy?
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well theres a plus to both, virgins wont have any sexual desieses, but wont exactly know what the hell their doing, and an experienced guy would know what hes doing and all, and itd probably be alot more enjoyable (although first time can hurt REALLY bad)yet, hed probably be more cocky, and its possible he could have a STD even without knowing it but have sex when your ready and find a guy you truly love, because my first time was what a complete jerk and sex causes attachment, dont do that to yourself...
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okay this miht be a bit wierd but like wen ever i get my period i feel all wierd like its leaking thru my pants or something at skool and i really worry that it might be leaking! idk what to do? i mean if some one saw that there were blood stains on the back of my pants and especially if it was a guy i liked wat would i do? thats like sooo embarassing!
help!
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awweee!!! everygirl has that problem. When you know your on your period, wear tampons, they make your period shorter, and wear dark jeans just incase you do leak, its less noticeable. Also, bring a sweatshirt that you can tie around your waise just incase something does happen, NEVER wear white jeans, or skirts, bigggg NO NO! and if somebody happens to see if you leak throug, its not the end of the world. people understand. guys understand too. its natural!!! good luck!
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ok like wenever i dream i dream about getting raped and like idk why but to me it seems like i want to get raped and im scared wat do i do?
is it normal i mean like i think about getting raped all the time...why is this happening to me?
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You dream about being raped and you want to because you want to have sex with somebody.
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about a month ago my boyfriend and I slept together. recently, i've noticed a ton of crazy things. my boobs are really soft and they hurt alot; my stomach randomly gets sharp pains in it or tingly type things, i have really bad headaches, i sleep more than usual and i kinda pee alot. i think i'm pregnant. my friend is buying me a test so i'll know tomorrow for sure. but is a month long enough that it will actually detect anything? please help. i'm 15 and im kinda lost at this whole situation. (link)
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i am 15 too and i just had sex and im so scared about being pregnate, I'd love to have somebody whos going through the same thing to talk to so if you read this leave me a comment in my inbox! hope the best for you!!!
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1st of i'm 16 and i'm in 10th grade and a girl...and i have some pretty awesome best girl friends...well i make-out with a few of them...i don't mind it i actually have fun doing...but i wouldn't call my self bi...i read this thing online and it says that we experment to find out what we like...well i love makeing-out with both sexes! but i've never done more with a girl...i have and talked about eating girls out with my other best friend and we have talked about doing to each other...but i could never see my self with a girl...because i just love boys...but what i am getting at is it wrong to want to do this stuff with girls...it's mainly with my best friend...it's just a experment..is it wrong to experment with her? she has ate a girl out before..i mean i'm not scared to do it and i don't feel un-comfortable caouse she is my best frined...my point...does any of this seem wrong?
((i don't want the stupid rood people to answer this...or jerks who think it's "nasty"))
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sure why not? if your having fun then go ahead and do it! if your concerned for moral reasons, then thats based on if you think its wrong, if your concerned with religious reasons and believe in the Bible, then it would be concidered wrong, have fun!
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my boy friend is here right now I am so in the mood roght now but I have a promice that I wont lose it ( virginity) till I get married but I want to so bad what do I do help me (link)
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youll regret it if you do it. i can almost garentee it.
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Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship. (link)
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because ALOT of guys SAY they want a relationship but use a girl for sex.It's true. Its happened to me soooo many times and after awhile you kindof get used to it and imagine most guys this way. yeah some arnt, possibly you, but many of them are and a girl cant be to careful, because would you like it if a girl just wanted your money? it really sucks.
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I had the question "How To" saying mea nd my boyfriend were both 16, and how to do thigns, and u said i could ask for step by step in your inbox.. so.. well here i am.. (link)
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First thing to do, is take one of your hands and place it on his balls, Make sure you hold them firmly with one hand. Use the other hand to stroke the penis (going up and down) and then....Use your tongue and just suck on it like a lollipop...The tip of the penis (the head) is super sensitive. So lick and kiss around that a few times!!!also if your comfertable to deepthroat it, then do it! It might seem confusing because you have to do so many things at once, but really it isn't...
to give a handjob is simple. Its just like how a guy jacks off. Put both of your hands completely around his dick with a pretty tight grip, not too to hard though :o) then you go up and down until he cums make sure you go alll the way down and all the way up!
good luck and have fun!!
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Me and my boyfriend have been together 1-year-4-months today AND well we have not done ANYTHING sexual. well i want to lead on to start doing sexual things but i don't know how. can you guys explain your first times or how you lead on to doing sexual things for the first time
thanks-
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Start by JUST kissing him. Then makeout. The next part depends on where you guys are located. If your alone the I'd push him down and get on top of him and make out. Things go from one thing to another and he'll probably get the hint that you want to do something sexual. If ya'll are in a public place, or movies or something. Sit where nobody else is and just reach your hand down his pants. TRUST ME guys NEVER mind you doing that. He'll get the point. goooood luuuuck!
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Okay.. let's see- I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. We are both around 16. Hes not to desperate to do anymore than we have.. He's went down my pants but thats the furthest we've got. We both talked about doing more, and we both want to. The only thing is i'm kind of nervous. Like everyone says giving handjobs/blowjobs come natural how to do it. but i dont think it's going to for me. or like him eating me out? Won't that just be weird. will i just lay there? I'm really ready to do this, but i just want to make sure i do everything right for him...
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Handjobs and blowjobs arn't hard. They honestly come naturally.If you want to know like, step by step then comment in my inbox. When he eats you out make noise, moan, whatever comes out naturally, let it, also guys what you to close your eyes because they don't want you just staring at them. Or 69. Then you have something to do too :o) haha well i hope that helped!
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