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theres this guy and hes a freshman and im a 8th grader and weve been talking for 4 months not boyfriend and girlfriend tho cause we dont wanna go threw all the breaking up stuff. but hes fingered me 3 times and we made out alot but i dont wanna go any farther i wouldnt mind maybe giving him head i just dont wanna have sex. is there anyway when were "hooking up" to make sure nothing goes too farr? (link)
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Whenever he goes for it, stop him..That's pretty much the only way. Maybe talk to him about it and tell him that you'll do pretty much anything except for sex. You don't have to do anything that you don't want to do, so don't let him tell you different.
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I am 13 and I still don't have my period!I don't know what is going on, I weigh more than a lot of my friends and they all already have them!!!What do I do????
Love always(please help),
Gina (link)
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Not everyone starts their period at the age of 13. I'm 15, and some of my friends still haven't started theirs yet. It's different for everyone, don't freak out about it. You can't control it. There's nothing wrong with you, it's completely normal.
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I am a sophmore in highschool and I have been thinking about careers for my future. There has been one thing that I have been interested in for a while now. I want to become a sex therapist to cousil couples about their sex lives.. Sort of like Dr. Ruth? (Short little lady that talks about sex alot). The thing is.. I'm not sure how to approach my parents about it, because they would probably think it's a horrible career choice and wouldn't agree with what I'd be doing with my life. In my personal opinion I think it's admirable career.
So, I have a few questions here. One would be how should I approach my parents about this subject? The other is what colleges would actually have that course? Or is it made up of multiple courses?
If you have any helpful websites about schools and programs that would be great too.. Thanks if you can help! (link)
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hmm, I can see how that would be weird. I guess it all kind of depends on what type of parents you have. Supportive and cool? Or do they want you to pursue THEIR dreams for you? ..I would just casually bring up "I think I know what I want my career to be in the near future. You might think it's a little weird, but I think it's a good idea." then tell them. As far as colleges go, I'm not sure. Hope this was atleast some help.
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okay im a f/16 and i shave down there. is that weird if im not having sex at all and dont plan on it any time soon? does anyone else? (link)
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lol, That definetly isn't weird. That's good. Girls should shave, just incase anything DOES happen..unexpectedly. Besides, it's your body, do what you please to it.
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whats 4th base please answer asap!! will rate
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sex.
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me and my bf have a good relationship. i want to have sex.i love him. i think he loves me. how would i tell him. or make it happen (link)
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I know the feeling. Just, jokingly, say (when you're around him)..god i wanna have sex. and then laugh, and say just kidding. He should get the hint from that. It's a way of flirting, and he should know that. If you don't want to do that, try making out with him and get into the "moment", once that happens..if he doesn't make the move, then you do. Just go for his shirt, or your shirt..or your pants, or his.
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My ex and i havent been together now for a year.
Him and his gf of a year have broken up now for the 100th time. This is the longest break tho. He has never told me when theyve broken up in the past, except for this time.
We had been talking to each other way before they broke up this last time.
He said that he was surprised that i havent been into his place of employment yet. He always would come into mine with his gf.(never knew why tho)anyways, i did the next night with my gf.
He was joking around with me and saying to my friend, "hey rachel, call me sometime." Then hed give me this stupid grin.
Well, days went on and 1 night while talking to him online, he wanted to hang out with me, then asked me to call him. I did and we talked for 2 hrs. The next night he called me and told me to come into his work. I did and his other ex came in(cant seem to leave him alone) he got mad at her and they argued in front of me. He told her he was taking her back home(after she walked there). I gave him this look, and left. 1 and a half hrs later he called me up saying he didnt want to be with her. So he picked me up and we went to his house. We talked, wrestled, and i gave him a backrub(like i used to do) We cuddled, and he started making out with me. He asked me if he could put it inside me. I said no, and he asked me like 4 more times after that. I kept saying no. After he told me that he still loves me. 2 of his friends kept calling, and i told him to go out with them. He told 1 that he was just gonna go to bed. I told him to hang out with the other 1 and he said ok.
The next day he called and i took him out for lunch (i owed him as a favor a yr ago)an hr later he took me home.(that was saturday)
Sunday night we talked online, but i didnt bring up anything that happened friday night. We always used to talk about that after.
I knew he had a party to go to on saturday night, and i asked him how that went, and he said it was gay. He told me he left at like midnight and went to his "recent" exs to "talk", and then he fell asleep. He said he couldnt even keep his eyes open anymore. He said he woke up at 3am and then went home. I was really hurt inside, but didnt say anything.
I didnt hear from him for 4 days and thats when i called him to wish him a happy thanksgiving. He was invited over to "her" house. He was there again the next night because it was her bday. I called him the following night, and he called me back later saying that i made him realize how much he loves "her".
What a kick in the pants was that?
All i need is every1s opinion. See if it matches up with mine!!!
Thanks!(heartbroken again)
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wow. Guys sure have a knack to hurt girls. To me, it seemed like (while i was reading) that he was falling in love with YOU again, not HER. which is weird. But it kinda seems like maybe something happened at her house that changed his mind. Maybe she was playing "hard to get" with him, guys always like that. It makes them want something even more. And he could have been using you to get her back for the break up, since he DID ask you to have sex with him. It seems like he can't make up his mind, and he doesn't know what he wants. I don't know what his problem is, but I hope things work out the best for you.
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My boyfriend was fingering me last night for the first time, and today i feel quite sore down there, it all feels quite irritated and sensitive. Is this normal? What does it mean? Am i gonna feel uncomfortable afterwards like this every time? (link)
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It can be like that the first time. It's obviously gonna hurt sticking fingers up there if you aren't used to it. Don't worry about it, it won't be like this every time. You just have to get used to it..After a couple times, he'll loosen you up and it will actually feel good instead of painful.
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hey im a really horny girl.i think about sex a lot. im not a virgin. but my bf is and he thinks i am. what should i do.i dont want him to know. but we agreed to communicate. i want to be sexual with him but i dont know if he is ready. and i dont know what to do to tell him both things. im not a virgin adn that i watn to have sex. not becuz im horny cuz i no i love him. i didnt loose my viginity to willingness either. just to help. and i dont know if i want to tell him that. we have been dating a while. i was 13 when i raped then again wheni was 15. me and him have dated since i was 13 and i never told him. we r now 16. what should i do
ill rate so high
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If you were raped, then I would tell him. Say "We need to talk about a few things. It's not about us, so don't think that. It's about me. I sort of lied to you before. I was raped at the age of 13. I didn't tell you because I was embarressed. I didn't want anyone to know. I'm sorry if this makes you mad. I just couldn't stand the thought of you breaking up with me over rape. It wasn't out of my will at all. I love you and I hope this doesn't ruin our relationship." Wait about 2-4 weeks after telling him this to tell him that you want to have sex with him. He may feel pressured that he has to do better than the guy who raped you. He will need time to think about things. I doubt he breaks up with you over rape though. Good luck.
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me and my bf arent sexually active even tho i want to be cuz i was wiht my last bf. i did it cuz i thought i loved him. i didnt. i know i love my bf now. after such a long relationship i just wanta take it to a new level. i want to be with him in new ways. i wnat to share that wiht him. how do i tho. and... here's where it gets hard. were both grounded for a party we were at and he lives a 1/2 hour away. we r never alone. what can i do. (link)
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If either of you can drive, sneak around. Have him come around when no one's home. Let him know you want to have sex with him. Or you could both meet at a friend's house and do it there.
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What age do purbity starts for a boy. (link)
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Chances are, if you can't spell it you aren't going through it.
buuut, it starts at about age 12.
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okay so i like guys, ALOT, iv gone out with tons and love everything 'bout em. i could never actually LIKE a girl (that creeps me out) but i like girls bodies, like i like think'n about "doing" things with girls. wats up with that. (link)
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Your hormones could be racing..It happens around 14 or 15 years old. If not, then you could be bisexual. That doesn't necessarily mean you LIKE girls, just you wanna do stuff with them.
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15 female... okay well i want to get more intimate with my boyfriend for almost 10 months now. we havent done much more than make out and he feels me up and ive touched his dick over his pants but that pretty much it... whats a good way to make the first move? dont say just do it! i want specifics please
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If I were you, the first thing I would do is talk to him about it. Tell him you want more with him than to just make out and stuff. Ask him if he's ready for that too. Chances are, if he wants it, he'll make the first move. Wait a little bit and if he doesn't do anything..Then while you guys are like "in the moment", and making out or whatever, if you want to have sex, then just start to pull his shirt off. He'll either get turned on by that, or turned off. Depending on what he wants with you. The best I can say is to give it time. Something's bound to happen soon enough.
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So. I know gross but i think it is safe to say this is mostly populated with girls so you all in some way sometime in your life come into a problem simular to this.
So my boyfriend and I have been sexual active for 6 months and a month ago we stopped using condoms because it was comfortable for either him and or i. Sex without a condom was much more comfortable for both him and i. But I do not recomend it to anyone, use protection...Anyways after the first time we did that I got a urinary track infection, which i didnt go to the doctors for because it wasnt life threatning or anything. Anyways after a couple days it got worse, i was getting white discharge all the time when i used the rest room or when i was just walking around i felt leaking...about two weeks later it got worse, i was ichty down there every once and awhile and the white discharge increased and it started to get an oder. Well I douched and started taking care of myself as much as I could and it went away. While having the UTI i was still having sex but it didnt seem to bother it. Well today after intercourse he noticed thick white discharge on him and I on me. I smelled it but it didnt really have an oder at all and I was very confused, so i went to the restroom and whipped and noticed spotting of blood im suppose to start my period tomorrow so i just wrote it off to that and put a tampon in but when i took it out, it was completly dry not one thing on it. Well later last night we had sex again, but the thing is I orgasmed more than the first but I didnt have the thick white discharge this time...I thought that was kind of weird.
See I was thinking could it be, because we are having sex without a comdom and my body is just getting use to it. Or is it what my boyfriend said...that we dont have lube so he was rubbing me too much and maybe tearing me a little and that could be the reason but I dont know how it could be...
Im very confused. Please dont tell me to go see a doctor i cant afford to no health insurance and Im just wondering if it should be something to be totally freaked out on?
if you have any advice let me know. i will rate you very high...thank you for your time have a great day...and sorry if this grossed you out. (link)
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I would say, give it time. Maybe you just need to get used to doint it without a condom. If it continues to do this, you might want to start using a condom again.
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Ok here u goes. I'm 17/male. And there's our neighbor sta**/Female who's 30. The problems that I think she sexually desires me. It all starts when she began to smile to me 2 month ago just after we moved to this new neighborhood. Anyway I was surprised last morning when she called me while passing her house. (She was outside and I respond her). So she handled my hand and moved it inside the shirt &I touch her breast. I can't deny that I felt erotic in that moment." I WANT U": Were her words. She told me that she wants 4rom me to have sex with her. Then I removed my hand quickly saying that I am late for school and I run away.
I am confused….should I refused or agreed?? Because she really success to seduce me and SHE'S REALLY HOT and SEXY and I am physically attracted to her. I know that she's older… What should I do????
Ps: I flirt many times and had sex 3 times.
Thanks 4 advices. Justin
Email:justin_frogy@yahoo.com
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I suggest you stay away from her. Not only is it illegal for her to do that to you, but it's not good for you either. It doesn't matter how many times you have had sex, or how attractive she is. There's other girls that you can find your age to have sex with.
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my gf talks all the time on the phone about wanting to have sex and stuff, but when we're together she doesnt seem like it at all...any ideas? im sort of confused here (link)
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Girls are strange, lol. I know, because I do the same thing. I talk quite often about sex with my boyfriend and when it comes to it, I get nervous. But the thing is, she won't make the first move. You have to do that. Reach for her pants or something while you guys are into making out, see what she does. If she stops you, then leave it alone. If she lets you, then I guess you guys are ready.
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I gave my boyfriend a handjob, and i'm afraid I wasn't that good. He did ejaculate until after. Why is that? Does anyone have any good advice/ tricks on what feels good and will make then ejaculate while you are doing it? Thanks alot
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Girls aren't as good at handjobs. The guys is the only one who knows how hard and fast to go. Start off slow and go faster. Maybe try doing other things with him too.
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I haven't got my period yet. Im kinda scared about getting it. What if im in school? what if im in the middle of class and i have to get up and someone sees? what are some signs when i get it differnt from just an itch. Gimmie info (link)
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Your first period can be scary. Although, when I first started, I was at school. Nothing got on my pants, and no one saw anything or expected anything. If you are at school, go to the nurse and tell her you're sick and your stomach hurts and you want to go home. She'll let you go. Don't let it bother you. As far as signs go, I had no idea I was about to start..it just happens.
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okay i shave down there nd like 2 weeks ago i got like sum little red bumps nd finally they went away .. but i got it again im thinkin its ingrown hairs from a not so good shaver . is that wut it is ?? nd how can i get rid of it . im so afraid my bf is gunna c it nd think its STD or sumfn .. help (link)
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It's most likely irritation bumps from shaving too hard, or too much. Maybe shave every couple of days instead of every day. Try a new razor and MAKE SURE you don't use lotion or conditioner on a cut. That burns and causes more redness and more bumps.
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i have known my best friend since 7th grade ((we're in college now))&& we are very close..and last thursday..we got even closer..well we were at his apartment and we were watching a movie..and out of no where he stopped the movie..and we were already cuddling..and yes..durin the movie..i did feel him get.."happy"..but anyways..he kissed me..and we started makin out..one thing led to another and we endin up having sex..now everytime i see him we end up makin out and doing it..i talked about being in a serious relationship and he seemed hesitant but he said he wants to think about it..and i told him that i am not going to be his little whore and everything..and he was like..i would never think of you like that..i like you a lot..but i don't want our friendship to be weird..but i told him that it already was weird after we had sex..so what should i do..i really want to be his girlfriend..but i am so confused about everything..i need sum good advice..and i rate 5's for good advice (link)
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Don't keep having sex with him. It may seem to you that it draws you two closer..But if he really did like you alot, he'd want to be with you. Sex is his way of getting you hooked on him. It seems to me that he likes you, but wants to be free to do whatever with other girls too.
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