well, i am 14 years old, female.
i've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for the past year and nothing has happened. i went to cuba in july until august 4th.
while i was there i got my period on the 20th.. which is normally when i get my period. but i got it again on the 14th ... i think thats kinda odd.
what could this mean?
Your period's probably just irregular still because you're ONLY 14. Or you're spotting which can happen before pregnancy.
Do yourself a favor, don't chance it anymore. Use a condom. At any age that's smart - not just for pregnancy either, for STD's and all that fun stuff.
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ok. to start off. me and my boyfriend are very sexual. we do alot of stuff. but the one that i am so self consious about, is when he eats me out. i dont smell like "fish" and i do clean down there. he just said its a sweet and sour taste which he doesnt like. i was just wondering. what can i do to make it taste good. i do clean it and take care of it. so all i need is how do i make it where he wants to eat me out all the time.
To be honest, I don't think there's much more you can do. That's the way girls smell and taste, and even douching or using anything like that can't really change it. I guess using certain kinds of sweet smelling douches can help make it smell even nicer - but I wouldn't advocate using those too often. But even still, the taste would be the same.
A quote from the Vagine Monologues sums it up the best: "Don't believe him when he tells you it smells like rose petals when IT'S SUPPOSED TO SMELL LIKE PUSSY."
That's just the female body, and guys have to deal with that. (We deal with a lot of their gross-ness anyway!)
The best you can do is just keep cleaning it with good ole soap and water!
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right, i love kissing girl(tung) but i dont no if i do it wrong or if they dont like it. can i get some tips please!??
Too much tongue = not good.
I'm only one girl so I can only tell you how I like it, but I guess that's a start. For me I like for it to start of simple and sweet. Some soft kissing before any tongue is inserted. Then you can start to use tongue - just gently though. When she reciprocates with hers you can use it a little more. Just go along with what she does. If she starts using a lot of tongue - go with it. It all depends on the mood and how intense the kissing gets.
But remember, shoving your tongue down a girls throat on a first kiss is never a good idea - not saying you did that, it's just a good thing to rememeber lol.
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I had sex without a condom and shes on the pill I didnot cum inside her. However, she missed a pill this mouth will she get pregnant.
No one can say if she definitley will or will not, but yea it's a possibility. If you miss even just one month of not being on the pill it could happen, regardless if you didn't "cum" inside her, because there still is such a thing as "precum" which can cause her to get pregnant.
Not being on her pill can also mess up her cycle and make it difficult for her to even know when she's supposed to get her period.
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ok so im kind of confused
i had a cist on my ovaries...which ruptured from havinq sex..well i had a pee test done when i went to the hospital && they said i wasnt preqnant...that was about 10 days aqo
well ive had sex since then and im about 4 days late on my period,
i fiqured maybe i qot preqnant afterward, or maybe i wasnt far enouqh alonq for the preqnancy to show up on the test
But i dont know and i need advice and please only people who really know what they're talking about.
I just want to know if i could be pregnant, or if you think having the cist could have thrown my monthly cycle off balance?
I'm not entirely certain on this topic, so don't go by my word alone but I'll try to help as best as I can.
My friend has polycistic ovaries and she needed to go on birth control to regulate her periods - that said, it is possible that could have thrown your cycle off. It is also possible that it might have been too soon to tell at the time if you were pregnant or not. I think your best bet would be to take another pregnancy test, or visit the hospital again. Also, be careful with the cist. Are you currently on any medication for it? Because if not it might be best to be. And if you don't currently have a gynocologist you should DEFINITLEY see one, because that would be the best person to check you out and help you out in this situation.
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Okay, so im going to have my first time in august with my boyfriend. I just have a few sex questions.
its pretty much impossibal to get preg. if you use a condom right?
does it hurt the first time?
can i have sex without birth control?
My periods are usually unusual, so im going to be scared if my period comes late [it usually always does] so how will i know if im preg. or not?
how do you use a preg test? im going to use one just incase.
are you sore in the morning?
anything else i need to know?
thank you :] and im 15 1/2 female. Please don't tell me that its stupid and im too young because i really love my boyfriend
Okay, so I guess I'll just answer question by question.
- No, it is absolutely NOT impossible to get pregnant while using a condom. There are no condoms (or really any kind of birth control) that's 100% effective in preventing pregnancy. Plus, there are other circumstances to take into consideration, such as the condom breaking, or falling off or even being defective (make sure its a trusted brand - and not expired!)
- Yes. If you're hymen hasn't broken already, and if you're not used to much penetration in that area, it is supposed to hurt. If it hurts too much make sure you let your boyfriend know. And if he does break your hymen, you'll probably start to bleed so don't get too freaked out about that.
- Yes, but if you're concerned about pregnancy (which you obviously are) you have to make sure you use some kind of contraceptive (aka a condom).
- There are other signs you can use to see if you are. Read this to see: http://www.filly.ca/health/body/pregnancy/top-10-signs-of-pregnancy.asp.
- How each one works/says you are pregnant usually differs, so it depends on the one you get. But basically it's a white stick like thing that you pee on and it will tell you if you are or not.
- I guess that depends on your body and how much it hurt when penetrated. I think it differs from person to person.
...i guess that's all I can really say for now. If you want to go through with it then it's all up to you. But make sure you think of all the factors beforehand. And most of all, BE SAFE !
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I'm 13 about to be 14 and I'm a girl. okay I', gonna get straight to hte point but it may be confusing...
One day me and my mom were in the car and she was like you know that you shouldn't be having sex and se is bad and blah blah. i waslike mom i know. because really i do know the outcomes of sex...its not a good thing and it can change your life! i know!!!! and then she was like after you have sex you get this wet stuff in your underwear and coming out. and i was like okay.... but the thing is i already have that stuff coming out! i know for sure that i have never had sex before! its something that I would never do until I'm married! and it scares me that i already have that stuff coming out. my friend was like you might have been rapped! and thats when i started crying my eyes out to NO limit! so the question is..... how do you know if you've been rapped...but you cant remember anything??...or is that a natural part of life??...thankz in advance for the help!!
Well everyone pretty much already got all the bases covered. It's discharge honey, and there's absolutely nothing wrong or abnormal with that. It's a normal part of a woman's life and isn't anything other than your body cleaning itself. Also if you're sweaty that makes it come out even more.
But in reference to your friends, they might not talk about it because they just haven't gotten it yet. So they might be grossed out & not understand now, but they will. It's bound to happen to them too. It's also possible that they have it as well, they might just be embarassed or ashamed to admit it. But there's no reason to be, it's completely normal.
The "wet stuff" your mom talks about is completely different. What she's referring to (or at least what I think she means) is a wetness girls feel when sexually excited. Down there can get a wet, moist feeling and even expel this fluid, but it's not the same as discharge and that's not what you have. Your mom should have been more clear about the difference.
Also, keep in mind that that "wet stuff" your mom was referring to can happen at any age if you become aroused by something. DO NOT GET SCARED OR THINK YOU'RE WRONG OR BAD FOR THIS HAPPENING. You can't control it, and it doesn't mean anything, so don't worry. And sex is NOT a bad thing, it's a wonderful beautiful part of life -- when the time is right. So if you're waiting until marriage, then I give you kudos because that's a beautiful thing to see. But don't think of it as something bad, or your husband might not be too pleased (lol). It brings life, so it can't be bad, it's just best to wait until the time is right for you.
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Okay, I'm 14 and i havn't started my period yet. But today when I went to the bathroom, I had like a "brown-ish" mark on my underwear....? Does that mean I have started my period?
O and please hurry I really need to know! I am planning to go to the beach and i need to know how to tell my mom also because we are not very close at all........so if you could please answer both of those questions it would help me ALOT!
Thank you soooo much!
Most likely yes. However, it could also be your hymen breaking (which doesn't just happen from sex, it could be from exercize or anything of that nature). But most likely it's the start of your period. If you see more later or it gets heavier, then it definitley is so tell your mom before you head out to the beach !
It also might not be bad at all. When I was 13 I had the same thing, and that was all I had for the entire day, then I didn't get it again until about a year later. On my birthday.
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There are bumps on my vag, usually about 5 or 6 at a time (not all clustered like cellulite). Some of them look like pimples that match my skin color, and there's usually one or two that have the texture and size of a mosquito bite. There's also this one bump that looks kind of like a scar. It's about an eigth of an inch long , is several shades darker than my skin color, and is surrounded by a VERY VERY thin yellow-whitish line. and these bumps sometimes itch.
additional info:
-i am a virgin, so no STIs..
-i masturbate on average four-five times a week, depends on where i am in my cycle
-14/f
what is it, and should i be worried?
Ive been told from a friend to get it checked out but im scared and dont want someone looking at me.
Getting it looked at never hurts.
But if you shave down there, chances are they're just in-grown hairs. Annoying little suckers.
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is it true that a male can be 10.5 in????
Actually it can be very likely.
My friend's ex, when erect, was 11"
(and no, she wasn't exaggerating. 11x8 were her exact dimensions.)
a.k.a OUCH!!!
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i have a boyfriend, and we've been going out for about two months.
i went down on him once towards the beginning and his entire crotch area had a rather unpleasant smell.
sort of like a doughy smell, or something that reminds you of food.
it wasn't pleasant.
i want to give him head again, and i would normally enjoy it, but not with the odor. it makes me sick.
can you think of anything that might cause it to smell like that?
he has normal healthy hygiene habits,
but i've never known a GUY to have a smell.
girls, yes, but not a guy.
thank you.
Yikes! I would hesitate before doing that again. Doughy smells are usually a sign of yeast infection, but I'm not sure if guys are supposed to get that. But either way I'd steer clear of doing that. Maybe he just didn't clean well enough ? That's pretty bad though.
Just a question: is he circumsized? Because if not he could have what's known as smegma. It's a sort of gross cheese-like substance that has an odor that forms under the foreskin if not properly cleansed.
If hygiene isn't the issue, than maybe its caused by some sort of infection. How about the next time the situation arises, you ask him if he's ever been tested for STDs? Not saying it is one, but if you say that you'd feel more comfortable with him doing that then maybe he can find out if it is some sort of infection (maybe a UTI, but I'm not sure if any of them cause that) or let you know if he knows he has one. Because it's best that you know for many reasons.
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Today is Friday July the eleventh. On July the fourth i was with my boyfriend at his lake house. We took the boat out, and did some stuff in the water. However it was not sex, and i was still wearing my bathing suit. He was not. Basically he rubbed his dick all over my bathing suit clad vagina. I don't know if he cummed or not, but im assuming he did. He also fingered me right before that. I was supposed to get my period yesterday, and it hasnt come. My boyfriend thinks im overreacting, but im a bit concerned. He says that there is no way i could be pregnant, but im still unsure. I am regular with my period, Im a junior in highschool now, and i was regular since the day i got it in fifth grade. Can somebody please tell me whether i am overreacting or is there really a possibility of me being pregnant. I have decided that if i dont get my period in the next week i will take a pregnancy test and decide what to do from there.
I would really appreciate help.
Believe it or not, "stuff" is still possible to get through even while wearing clothes (or in your case a bathing suit). And being in water doesn't prevent that either. So your boyfriend is incorrect in saying that it's not possible.
However, I wouldn't freak out just yet. As you grow your body changes, and so does your flow. So at times you could end up getting it a little late or a bit early even if you had a normal flow before that. So 1 day off isn't too bad, but when it happens after something like that it's understandable to get worried. It's happened to me in the past. I've done similar to things like that in the past, and then my period was a good day or 2 late. I freaked, but it eventually came. However it was enough to scare me to be more cautious next time around. Sometimes I think it's just your body's way of telling you "Whoaaa careful what you're doing there, lady."
But you do have the right thing in mind about taking a pregnancy test if you don't get it next week. Because a week late is more cause for concern than a month. And if it worries you enough than taking one might be a good idea to settle your mind. However, it's possible it still could be too early to judge so just keep that in mind.
It's probably best to not get to worked up about it just yet, (stress also can cause your period to be irregular) and don't tell too many people just yet -- no need to worry anyone else until you know yourself if you are or not.
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Okay well lets say his names bob,well i just broke up with bob like two weeks ago because he was flirting with this girl saying i hit that and hey sexy and stuff.Well anyways bob was talking to me about how his going to change and stuff and i was also talking to his bestfriends and they said that his been acting like a dick. Then when i seen him for the fourth of july for the first time sence then he was drunk really badly. Then awhile i was talking to bobs friends and i asked them why his been acting like that they said because he wont let go of me. Then when I tried to talk to him on myspace today he would barely talk to me.My two closest friends said that they think if he gets drunk that bad again he might
kill his self.
First off: What makes them think that he might do that? Just because he won't let go of you? Or has he said or done something to give them that idea? Because they could just be exaggerating, and if not then it could be a serious issue.
If what they are saying IS true, then do NOT get back together with him just because of that, unless you still like him and want to be with him again. Because doing that and leading him on or just being with him out of pity will not help the situation, only make it worse. Then in the end both of you will be unhappy, or even something more extreme given his situation.
Somethings I don't understand though, if he was flirting with other people and not showing too much interest in the relationship, then why is he so broken up about it now? And if he won't let go of you, then why won't he talk to you when given the chance. I don't know, some of these things just don't really add up...
Finally, how well do you know his friends? Like, how close to them are you? Because I feel like they're giving you very mixed signals. First they tell you that he's being a dick, then they say how he can't get over you and he's going to kill himself. Are you absolutely positive that they're not making some of this stuff up? And how did you find out about him flirting with that other girl/do you know if he was being serious or just joking around? He said he'd made the effort to change, but his friends said he was being a dick. I don't really get that. That he was being a dick to you, or to them?
If I were you I'd basically just try to find out as much TRUE information (pref. from reliable sources) as you can. But don't ask your ex if he ever mentioned anything related to suicide. Because if it's a lie, that could be damaging to him. And if it's true, he could feel betrayed by his friends.
I'd just advise you to make sure his friends are being completely honest with you...
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My boyfriend has a small penis.. it's not important to me I still love him but I was wondering what are the best positions to have sex with a guy that has a small penis... from the back hasnt had the best sucess.. i dont really want to be on top all the time i feel kind of self conscious lol.
I'm not really sure and I don't have much experience with this, but you being on top might not be the best for that. I've read that being on top is better for men with large penises, as to reduce pain and have control.
So maybe just you being on the bottom would be best?
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hi i am a sex addict i have never acctually had sex but i do it to myself all the time is this bad i mean i am just so addicted i need help on knowing if this is bad.....please help.
Just how addicted are you?
How often do you actually do it?
Because what you might consider "addicted" might turn out to be not nearly excessive as you'd think.
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