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Question Posted Sunday August 17 2008, 6:47 pm

right, i love kissing girl(tung) but i dont no if i do it wrong or if they dont like it. can i get some tips please!??

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GodsGift2Writing answered Tuesday August 19 2008, 11:08 pm:
Haha, Alright, this is a good one. Well, since every girl has different likes and dislikes, it's kind of hard to say because it depends on her. But, there are however, some tips i can give you to improve your kissing skills.

1. Let it come NATURALLY! =]
When you begin kissing, just let your lips and hers guide you; At least to start.

2. Take your time.
Think about it, during a "make-out session" you're taking the time to explore the mouth of the person you're in contact with. So don't rush, enjoy it.

3. Don't swish your tongue around like a windmill.
Like i said, every girl is different, but i can tell you that NO girl likes it when there's a hurricane going on inside her mouth! Just be sensitive, and really get into it. The feel is the charm.

There are different types of kisses you can give. In other words, you don't have to use your tongue every time.

Lip Kisses:
You may or may not know this, but you can kiss the top lip, or the bottom lip when kissing. You may not realize this unless you really take the time to tell the difference, but i'll tell ya, the girl can definately tell!

The Ear Kiss:
On a girl, the back and side of the ear is a very sensitive place...Imagine how a soft sensation of your lips would feel to her.

Kissing the Neck:
When you're kissing a girl's neck, you want to make sure you take your time with it. Almost like you plan to kiss every inch. Start at the top, and work your way to her collarbone; Trust me...She'll love it. =]

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Cux answered Monday August 18 2008, 12:29 am:
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I know this sounds really lame, and I'm sure it is ;]

But just go with the flow. I don't really have experience in how to "properly" kiss, nor do I have experience with kissing at all! Can you say prude? ;]

Anyway- if it's your boyfriend/girlfriend- just be honest with him/her. Tell them you're nervous and you don't really know what you're doing. Apparently the people who are less-experienced is a big turn-on to some people.

Do what you feel comfortable with. If something feels awkward or uncomfortable, don't do it. If it feels right, ask the person if they are okay with that, and if they are- then you'll be fine.

There really isn't a CORRECT way to do it. Everyone does what they are comfortable with.

From my weak experience- this is what I can tell you:

1. Don't come on strong- it's really awkward for the other person.
2. Don't slobber all over the other person.
3. Don't stick your tongue all the way down their throat.

My friend on here, Laura, answered a question similar to this, and she gave a great answer. I will copy her answer, but know that credit goes to her.


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Jehmehh answered Sunday August 17 2008, 7:28 pm:
Too much tongue = not good.
I'm only one girl so I can only tell you how I like it, but I guess that's a start. For me I like for it to start of simple and sweet. Some soft kissing before any tongue is inserted. Then you can start to use tongue - just gently though. When she reciprocates with hers you can use it a little more. Just go along with what she does. If she starts using a lot of tongue - go with it. It all depends on the mood and how intense the kissing gets.

But remember, shoving your tongue down a girls throat on a first kiss is never a good idea - not saying you did that, it's just a good thing to rememeber lol.

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