ok. first off when i have sex with my boyfriend i always get this really good feeling for about 5 seconds. i dont know if this is an orgasm of not. i have squirt before but not alot. so basically. what exactly is an orgasm (full details) and how long does it take to get it.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? GodsGift2Writing answered Monday August 18 2008, 11:24 pm: Well, for starters, let me explain that there are two types of orgasm: Clitoral and Vaginal. Now, depending on what sexual acts you and your boyfriend are engaging, it will determine which type of orgasm you may, or may not get. Believe it or not, about 70% of the time, women climax but do not orgasm during sexual activity. In general, an orgasm is a pleasurable feeling caused by sexual desire and satisfaction. Due to your description, what you are feeling is certainly sexual satisfaction. But to determine if it is truly an orgasm or not, is entirely your call. You see, when a women enters her climatic peak during sex, she feels a sensation caused by a rare feeling known as desire. So, really, your desire is surely effecting you, causing you to orgasm. The time it takes to be aroused and complete an orgasm depends soley on the woman, and how well her partner is feeding her needs. So, you can't really control when you get it, how you get it, or how long you want it to last. That's why the majority of sexually active couples are usually intimate more than one time in a single day. And keep in mind, you don't necessarily have to cum to have an orgasm, every woman is different. [ GodsGift2Writing's advice column | Ask GodsGift2Writing A Question ]
heybbylovee answered Monday August 18 2008, 1:42 am: an orgasm is a contraction of your vaginal muscles and it feels really good. how long it takes COMPLETELY depends on the woman. it can take 2 minutes or 20 or 40. it all depends on how horny she is. i think you are having an orgasm if it feels really really good. it's as if though you're almost like not in your body anymore like the thoughts running through your mind stop as you have one [ heybbylovee's advice column | Ask heybbylovee A Question ]
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