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Pregnancy concern
Today is Friday July the eleventh. On July the fourth i was with my boyfriend at his lake house. We took the boat out, and did some stuff in the water. However it was not sex, and i was still wearing my bathing suit. He was not. Basically he rubbed his dick all over my bathing suit clad vagina. I don't know if he cummed or not, but im assuming he did. He also fingered me right before that. I was supposed to get my period yesterday, and it hasnt come. My boyfriend thinks im overreacting, but im a bit concerned. He says that there is no way i could be pregnant, but im still unsure. I am regular with my period, Im a junior in highschool now, and i was regular since the day i got it in fifth grade. Can somebody please tell me whether i am overreacting or is there really a possibility of me being pregnant. I have decided that if i dont get my period in the next week i will take a pregnancy test and decide what to do from there.
I would really appreciate help.
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I do agree that you're probably overreacting.
You are stressing yourself out by thinking that it's possible for you to be pregnant.
It is a known fact that stress can delay a period.
Try to relax and wait a few days, cycles do change you know.
Take the test if it still doesn't come.
I'm sure you'll be fine though.
Good luck.
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Anytime stuff like this happens, you run the risk of becoming pregnant. Obviously the only way to make sure you don't become pregnant is to not do things like this ;].
There is a very small chance you are pregnant, but I would, like the other people said, take a pregnancy test next week.
Until then, ease your mind about it. The more you think about how you've missed your period by one day, the more you'll stress yourself out, and you can actually miss it from the stress.
--Jack
(16/m)
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the pregnancy test next week is a good idea but there is about a 3 percent chance you are pregnant so to ease your mind take the test but you are most likely not
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Believe it or not, "stuff" is still possible to get through even while wearing clothes (or in your case a bathing suit). And being in water doesn't prevent that either. So your boyfriend is incorrect in saying that it's not possible.
However, I wouldn't freak out just yet. As you grow your body changes, and so does your flow. So at times you could end up getting it a little late or a bit early even if you had a normal flow before that. So 1 day off isn't too bad, but when it happens after something like that it's understandable to get worried. It's happened to me in the past. I've done similar to things like that in the past, and then my period was a good day or 2 late. I freaked, but it eventually came. However it was enough to scare me to be more cautious next time around. Sometimes I think it's just your body's way of telling you "Whoaaa careful what you're doing there, lady."
But you do have the right thing in mind about taking a pregnancy test if you don't get it next week. Because a week late is more cause for concern than a month. And if it worries you enough than taking one might be a good idea to settle your mind. However, it's possible it still could be too early to judge so just keep that in mind.
It's probably best to not get to worked up about it just yet, (stress also can cause your period to be irregular) and don't tell too many people just yet -- no need to worry anyone else until you know yourself if you are or not.
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