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Making Sex Less Painful
Is there anything that my fiance and i can do to make sex less painful. I am very worried that it will hurt. Any advice would be great thank you
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Do some foreplay to warm you up a bit.
It is really important that you relax and you're not tense.
Use a lot of water based lubricant.
Instead of him penetrating you, you should take it very slowly and guide his penis in yourself.
It honestly doesn't hurt all that bad.
You'll just be a little sore afterwards.
With my first I honestly didn't feel it and I had to question if he was in or not, and he wasn't small either. I was just expecting a lot of pain when really I didn't feel any.
And with my current boyfriend (my second) it did hurt cause he is bigger but you just have to remember to relax and the pain subsides in a minute or so.
Good luck to you!
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1. Use lots of lube.
2. Relax.
3. Make sure you're 100% ready.
4. If you do sexual things already, work your way up, with fingers for example, before diving straight in at the deep end with a penis. :)
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The first thing you need to do is
stop worrying! I know that is easier
said than done sometimes. Being tense
though may make it hurt. Be relaxed
and be aroused, don't rush it, take
your time and be ready.
For most women it doesn't hurt.
Hymens are a lot of time already
broken or torn from tampon use,
or just being a physically active
person. Unless your hymen is thick
and hard to tear, you may feel no
pain at all. Even an intact hymen
is not that painful. It happens,
its over it does not linger.
So, just try to relax. Use some
lubricant (found at walmart or
any store like it) to be on the
safe side. Communicate with your
finance. You'll do just fine. :)
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