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NaMe : Amber

AgE : 17

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BdAy: September 1

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I decided to make this to help people out if they need it. I've been told I'm a good advice giver. So we'll see. =) Feel Free To Ask Me Questions About Anything! Hope I help.




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ok, heres the deal, ive been 18 for a month or 2, and heres the deal, im kinda sexually advanced, except ive never actually gone all the way. and ive always been proud of this...untill now, and its freaking driving me nuts, like i all of a sudden have to have it. and this is unbelievably unlike me cuz ive always been the upright goody goody that everyone can always depend on. so for the love of god, somebody give me some advice!!!!!! plz ladies, i need some advice

fight the urge!! lol =)

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hey well i'm really nervous about the first time i have sex. im nervous about becoming pregnant, like if the condom breaks. so i was wondering if its wrong/weird for the guy to wear 2 condoms (one on top of the other)... is that really pathetic? i know im supposed to use lube but i'm still scared so could i make him wear 2 just in case?

Having him wear two condoms increases the chances of the condom breaking.

-and you asked how I know.. I know because they teach you that in school and because a lot of condom companies warn you about that.

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A boy deep kissed(first kiss) me and i am very paranoid about catch HIV through kissing, but should i be worried?

You can't really get HIV through kissing.. thats mainly from blood to blood contact w/ a person who has it or through sex w/ a person who has it. hope it helps *amber*

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lol, ok, i kno this is dorky and all but, how do u french kiss??? i mean i've always wonder, u kno, like what do u do....lol, i kno, i kno, this is a stupid question

The simplest thing I can tell you is it just comes naturally. Because it really does. If you're worried about it, just let the guy make the first move and take it from there. Hope it helps *amber*

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My boyfriend and i had sex the first time last week. Now we are doing it w/out the condom. He says that he has his cum under control and he knows when it is comming out. So he said that when it comes out or feels like it he will get out of me and wipe it off. He said w/out cum you can not get pregnate b/c with cum it has the sperms. Now is this true or is he lying to get me pregnate. Please help Me!!!!!!! :*(

You should be using a condom anyway. There are always chances and sperm can swim so if they are anywhere near you vagina theres a chance of getting pregnant. Safety first, use a condom.

hope it helps *amber*

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is it wrong to flirt and make out and stuff w/ a guy when you aren't dating..? like little benafit buddys?

No its not wrong, its fun. (as long as you don't have a boyfriend) Its harmless. So do what you want. You only live once. =) *amber*

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When after having sex and if the sperm ejaculated in, what kind of pills are good to take to avoid prenancy from happening?

You could use the morning after pill or that "abortion" pill they came out with. Um, yea. Hope it helps.. *amber*

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hey i asked the question about being 13 and pregnant well i just found out im having twins!!! my question is wht do they do in a c-section people r tellin me in to tiny and might have to get a c-section, nd i just wanna no like is it more or less painful, and wht do they do! ill rate u, i need advice!! thnx

While its happening its less painful because they either give you something that will numb you so you don't feel anything or (sometimes your asleep). They cut an incision in you to deliver the babies, and the size will depend on how big the babies are. Afterwards they either stitch it closed or staple it.. it might hurt some after, and most likely you'll be left with a scar (at about your bikini line usually) but you don't really have to go through the pain of labor with those. If you wanna know more about C-sections do some research online and see what you find. Hope it helps =) *amber*

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ok i heard somewhere that their are 3 types of erections ppl can have like downwards straight out or almost straight up toward my chin. see and i go straight up almost is that normal? its been sorta eating at me for awhile i owe a lot to you guys for puting a lot of these questions to rest. thanks a million and 1!

Don't worry... you're normal. Nothin to worry about unless its going in a really crazy direction or something, haha. Hope it helps *amber*

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I am a 15 year old female, and i have been having a lot of sex in the past two years. Im not pregnant but i havent had my period in 2 months i have been throwing up in the morning. Im not sure i dont want to tell my mom but i don't know what to do PLEASE HELP!

You say your not pregnant, but it definately sounds like it. How many times have you taken a pregnancy test? I'd say try it again and see what it says. If it still says your not after a few times you need to tell your mom about it so you can go to the doctors and see whats up. Hope it helps =) *amber*

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This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex?

There is no age. You do it when you feel ready. But you definately shouldn't waste your virginity on someone. Sex is meaningful and you should save yourself for someone you truley care about and wait til your 100% you are ready for the responsibilites and risks. Some people say the longer you wait, the better it will be. Its always good to save yourself until marriage too, its a good moral to have. Hope it helps =) *amber*

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ok well my boyfriend wants to have like alot of sex you know and I'm not ready for that yet but once he pushed me when I said no and he yelled at me and just left I don't know why but I'm scared to say no to him and I'm doing sumthing with him tonight I need serious help

If your boyfriend is pressuring you into sex, you need to end the relationship NOW. You don't deserve to be treated that way and you need to stand up to him and end it. You should never feel pressured into doing anything. Its just completely wrong. If you don't want to end it, you need to talk to him and make sure you get your point across. And if it doesn't work then you should definately get rid of him. You should never feel threatened by a boyfriend, also. So take that into consideration. Hope it helps =) *Amber*

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what exactly is an orgasm?..and is it posible to have one if you are still a virgin?...or do u have 2 masterbate to have one?

An orgasm is described as a level of sexual arousal that reaches a peak then subsides leaving the participant feeling elated, relaxed and sexually satisfied. It is difficult to describe an orgasm because it is different for every female. Women generally describe it as a feeling of being so aroused that you are going to explode.


For more information go here : http://www.talksexwithsue.com/femaleorgasm.html


Hope it helps =) * amber *

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hey i was jw....whats an orgasm and what does ejacuating mean? whats the difference between the 2?

Orgasm- The highest point of sexual excitement, marked by strong feelings of pleasure and marked normally by ejaculation of semen by the male and by vaginal contractions within the female. Also called climax.

Ejaculation- The expulsion of seminal fluid from the urethra of the penis during orgasm.

Hope It helps =) *Amber*

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Why is sex such a big thing now? I mean young people are even doing this, I just don't get it. What happened to waiting until marriage?

It isn't really a big thing. Everyone just has this mindset that it is, just because of the pressures around us, which are normally the cause of young people having sex. It really isn't that hard to not do it. Its called self control.. And everyone has it, people just ignore it sometimes, usually when they probably shouldn't. Waiting until marriage is a good moral to have, and it would be better if more people had it. No one should ever let the pressure of people around them encourage them do do something that is best waited for. Hope I helped. *Amber*

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What are the bases? Like I know what a home run it but like the rest of them, what are they?

1st base, kissing. 2nd, above the waste stuff. 3rd, below the waist stuff, and Home of course is all the way.. Hope I helped =) *Amber*

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what is a g-spot?

A g spot is an area of tissue surrounding the female urethra and running along the roof of the vagina, postulated to be erectile and to enhance sexual arousal. -gotta love dictionary.com ;)- Hope I helped =) *Amber*

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what is a hymen on a girl?

Hymen- a fold of tissue that partly covers the entrance to the vagina of a virgin.-dictionary.com
Hope I helped =) *Amber //}

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Have you heard of any ways that a girl could make her vagina tighter?

Well, she could do Kegal exercises..They tighten and strengthen your vaginal muscles (& when done regularly can possibly make child birth easier, lol) I found some websites that could help you. http://www.childbirth.org/articles/kegel.html or http://www.geocities.com/HotSprings/Spa/4502/vagex.html

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I am obsessed with taking exposing and inappropriate pictures. I can't help it. It is just a lot of fun and addicting. Does this mean that i am prolly going to be heading toward the career as a porn star or something in that catagory? TELL THE TRUTH bc that wouldnt seem like a bad job to me. I might actually enjoy it :-)

Well, It doesn't necessarily mean anything like that. It could just mean your proud of what you have and you like to show it off. And if thats the case, then its good that you are so confident in your body. But I supose if you wanted it to head in a job-wise direction it could.. but that would happen through yourself, I can't predict it. And if it wouldn't seem like a bad job for you and you'd want it then go for it. As long as your happy with what you do is all that matters. "Hope I helped" -Amber.

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