what are ANY other signs of pregnancy other then sore boobs, and morning sickness???
I don't know if you've thought of this but gaining weight :-) lol
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the other day in history we were working on a section for Indians. and i think that we , as americans or whites, owe them so much! like land and money! because of everything that we have done! and they have a high suicide and alcaholism rate too! and they are on little crappy reservations! its horrible!!
if anyone on here is am Indian, i am so sorry! and I feel so bad! anyone agree or know what I could do?
thanks so much!
Kelsa*
First off, they aren't Indians, that is an incorrect name given to them by Columbus when he thought he stopped his ship in India. Hence, theres Indians from India and Native Americans were the native American people.
I understand how you weel, but just in what you've written like, "we, as americans or whites" you basically just said that everyone reading this was white or american. You should have said non-native american because america is so diverce.
Other then that I totally understand what you mean. They do have Indian reserves though. I guess you could contribute or help them.
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i really am so ready for sex and my bf and i already have it all planned out...the thing is, im not very self-confident when it comes to my body. my legs are slim, which all my friends envy, but i feel so wierd! my hands get clamy ALL the time...is there anything i can do about that? and finally, i am really self-consious about the hair on my body...like on my lower back, a tiny bit around my belly, and 'downstairs'. i dont want to shave these regions, but im just worried about what he'll think...and i dont want to be all high-maintenance about my body, but i dont know what im supposed to do! please help
I have (had) the exact problem. I didn't want to shave it because I had tried it before and it grew back and rubbed my pants. I was looking into getting in lazered off but it hurts and it was really expensive so 2 weeks ago I just got sick of it and I shaved again and put Jergens Naturally smooth shave minimizing moisture which makes it grow back slower and thinner. It works so nicely. I have to re shave like once a week but it's not a big deal.
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well im 16 and started my periods when i was 13 and i havent told my mom yet!! (ive been gettin away with it through usin loadsa toilet paper n stealin pads off her n buyin them at school, if your wonderin). the thing is i cant tell her because shes really mean and honestly does hate me and wants to put me in care - she has told me herself that she only lets me stay here still cause she gets paid in child benefits. she would laugh at me if i told her...how do i tell her that i have started without her laughing?
please dont tell me she wont or shes been through it too or whatever because i know this woman and you dont. i know she will laugh its what she does.
besides shouldnt a good mom have asked her 16 yr old daughter if shes started her periods yet anyway??
Don't act like it's a big deal because it really isn't. Just like leave them in the trash in the bathroom and if she wants to say something she will, but say um.. yea i've been getting them for 3 years now and have a like w/e attitude. I think that might be your best bet.
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I lost my virginity in Feb after my 15 birthday. Since then my boyfriend and I have had sex atleast twice a week. He pulls out so we have never completely finished, and we have never had a pregnancy scare. Recently our sex has felt diffrent though. Like it has lost the unique, wild touch it once had. Could I be bored with sex? I get the same pleasure, but instead of feeling fulfilled afterwards I just feel-there. Can someone explain this to me? I'm so confused...
You should use condoms and go all the way. Also, do different things to spice it up. Go other places, use props or toys, have more forplay, make it more exciting.
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i have a friend who is bi....but im ok w/ it .but she asked if i wanted to come over?and i told her no cuz i have plans..but i dont,and people have told me wen they stayed the night w/ her that she want to do stuff and im not like that at all....wat should i do???
Just because she's bi doesn't mean she is going to want to do something with you. If she does ask just say i'm not into that and she probally won't pressure you again.
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Girlz, I need your help! I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now...Im supposed to go to his house tonite, he says he wants to have dinner and us cuddle and watch a movie, then he wants to tell me something he says will shock me and bring a smile to my face...Here's the problem, Im on my period..I do NOT want it to screw up what is going to be a great nite...Does anyone know or ever heard of any at home remedies or anything that can stop my period? I just started, so it's a barely there kinda' thing right now, but I dont want it at all! please help!!!! I rate HIGH
If it's not that bad and you still want to have intercourse, tell him first and if he doesn't mind then it's fine. Maybe try in a shower because the water will wash the blood away. Other then that you can still pleasure him or what I would do is while cuddling plan a special night and talk about what you want to make it special, and make sure you plan it when your not on your period.
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im 17 and my penis is not that big and im worried what my girlfriend will think does it matter to girls?
to me penis size doesn't matter AT ALL. It's what you do with it lol. When you going to do something with your girlfriend for the first time make sure you have it all planed and really romantic. She'll be so in love with you at that point she won't care. If you were to go into a bathroom at a resterant and u kno it might be different. I don't know her but I bet she'll love you no matter what. Just be confident. Atleast you have one lol.
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Sadies is coming up on Friday for our highschool, and I'm going with a group of 3 girlfriends. We have pink tights, white shorts, and a pink plain t-shirt. We wanted to have a white tank underneath and then slit the pink shirt in two places in the front, to make it look cool. Does anybody have any ideas on what to do on the sides of the shirt? Like cut up it and tie or something creative? We need help thinkin of somethin cute to do ... the shirts too plain.
Thanks a bunch!
when you cut the shirts, take the extra fabric and cut them into a long thin strand and use that.
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I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and we really love eachother. We've talked about the whole sex thing and agreed that we'd wait until we were together for a longer period of time. My boyfriend said that he's ready whenever I'm ready but he doesn't want to pressure me into anything that I don't want to do. The thing is, I really AM ready. I know that he is the one that I want to lose my virginity to him and he wants to lose his virginity to me. Every time I see him, I get tempted to do more and more with him but I have to stop myself. It's not that I'm scared it's just that I feel that we haven't been together long enough to be doing anything like that. I trust him and I know he won't hurt me. I don't want to become tempted and do that. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can avoid myself from being tempted? I can't have sex with him, it's not the right time for us yet. Thanks so much if you can help! If anyone is in or has been in my situation, tell me how you handled it or how you are handling it.
I think you should talk about it. Say, when we . . . and talk about ways to make it special. That way it's in the future and when it comes around it you'll be even more excited and it will be really special. Ask me if you need more advice...
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I am no stranger to the behaviour of most guys. Very sexual, like the jokes about sex but I have a slight problem, I don't know how to react. I have a few guys that are bothering me at this time I will explain. Well this boy called karl right he's 17 and i'm 14, well basically he wants sex and he keeps pestering me he tried to touch me up and I don't know what to do. Some boys just fancy me and I can take that. There's this other boy called Steve who's 16 but he thinks i'm going to go out with him and tries to get me to cheat on my boyfriend and his girlfriend which gets me in trouble with his girlfriend. Another boy I don't see but he's really nice, prob is he calls me all these names and keeps asking me out. A little younger boy who's a few months younger than me is asking me to strip i don't know how to answer these there a no but how do I say that assertively?
Say, I have a boyfriend, I'm sorry, I would never do anything to be unloyal to him. Also, do your best to stay away from these guys and never be alone anywhere with them because i'm scared they are going to try and take advantage of you. Expecally Karl who you said was touching you.
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this is to all the girls is it norrmal to masterbate, if i dont am i weird, i mean is it like the guys if u dont jack off ur gay
ok ignor what you've heard. Why would gay guys not jack off? I personaly know all my guy friends who are gay do. Why would they not?
Ok anyway, it's absolutely normal for girls to masterbate. For exactally the same as guys do. It's less common to hear about though. Guys talk about doing it more then girls do but guys don't talk about it much anyway.
Guys like when a girl masterbates thought because when he's having sex with you, you can tell him what you know you like.
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how do you masterbate (me being a girl n all) to make it feel the best?
Ok it took me forever to get this and I never thought I would be the type of person who liked to do it but it's amazing. Ok so sometimes getting in the mood helps so read erotic stories or think about a fantacy and then take your clothes off. Then you can just play with different parts of you body to get comfortable. The true masterbation part you have to find your clit which took me forever but when you find it you'll know. It might help to look in a mirror. Theres sevral positions to do this in, sitting in a chair with your legs spread (which I do) laying on your back or squating, etc. Take one hand and open your vagania and then take the other finger and rub up and down. If you put your finger at the top where it first opens and put your finger stright behind it thats where your clit is and it's really sensitive. Rub it with one finer and try different speeds and try going in every dirrection and in circles. Soon you'll start to feel tingly and it's so amazing. If you still need any more help ask.
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Mods, please don't delete this, this is really important to me...
Okay, this question is kind of personal but i need to know if anyone else experiences this. I'm a 16/f and I have a boyfriend whom i've been with for going on 6 months now, and everytime we're together, no matter what we're doing, if it's sitting at the dinner table talking, or making out under the covers (most of the time it's more intense under the covers) I get really wet.. "down there" and it's to the point where it's kind of embarrassing.. because whenever we get sexual (not nessicarly sex..) he laughs about it, and it makes me feel really self concious.. Does this happen to anyone else?? Is it normal??? Thanks for the help..
if you don't want him to see you get wet, wear a pad. I thought that turns guys on but w/e. Tell him how you feel. Tell him you don't like him laughing at you.
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Ok im really attracted to my friend and he's a guy and i really think he's hot but idk how 2 tell him how i feel or even if he's gay. Please help i am a 14 and im a guy please help!
Ok, I'm pretty good with this because I always give my best friend whoes gay adive. Ok. I'm guessing he doesn't know your gay. If he is stright don't come on too hard because you don't want to loose a friend. When MY friend came out to me it was almost like he tested me to make sure I'd accept him before he totally came out (I was the first person he came out to) He told me some story about a guy who came up to him and asked him if he was gay. Then he said the guy asked him on a scale of 1 to 10, 1 being stright and 10 being gay what he was. My friend said he was a five and said it was inpossable for anyone to be a one and even the strightest people for 2 or 3. Then from week to week he'd rase the number, untill he finally told me.
My point is try that. Make sure your friend is totally accepting before you come out to him but when you do don't scare him off by accessive flirting or anything. If your friend is gay, after you come out, he'll probally come out too, but he might need a little more time.
When he comes out to you is your chance to flirt. Please don't flirt untill you know because you don't want to loose a friend.
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I'm 14 and going into the 9th grade. Guys pressure girls to have sex and I might be ready but I dont want to be called a slut. What should I do?
If your going to have sex don't just do it with anyone. Thats truely the only reason you'd get labled a slut. Make sure you know the guy really well and trust him. Use condoms!!
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how do i prevent the red razor bumps on my bikini line from coming when i shave? and how do i get a very close shave to where you cant even tell there is hair there? i want it all gone but everytime i shave it just turns red and gets razor burn.
make sure you exfoliate before you shave. When you shave, make sure you shave down in the dirrection of the hair, not against the hair (I made that mistake) I you want a "close shave" shaveing isn't going to accomplish that. Your going to need a bikini wax.
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