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Boys annd there sexual behaviour
I am no stranger to the behaviour of most guys. Very sexual, like the jokes about sex but I have a slight problem, I don't know how to react. I have a few guys that are bothering me at this time I will explain. Well this boy called karl right he's 17 and i'm 14, well basically he wants sex and he keeps pestering me he tried to touch me up and I don't know what to do. Some boys just fancy me and I can take that. There's this other boy called Steve who's 16 but he thinks i'm going to go out with him and tries to get me to cheat on my boyfriend and his girlfriend which gets me in trouble with his girlfriend. Another boy I don't see but he's really nice, prob is he calls me all these names and keeps asking me out. A little younger boy who's a few months younger than me is asking me to strip i don't know how to answer these there a no but how do I say that assertively?
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whoa..well when Karl is 18 you'll be 15..thats like rape..you shouldnt go 4 him n damn gurl all these boys on u..some grl may think..damn y cant all those boys b on me? well lemme tell ya sumthin..don't strip 4 ne of them, have sex w/ ne of them or nething..all they want is ur sex n ur body n then they'll b outta there..find a guy lyk ur age or 15 or sumthin n if he likes u 4 whu u r go for HIM --K*Tina
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if that guy touches you again slap ihm on the face
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This may sound harsh, but these guys sound like they need a good kick in the groin.
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there's a difference between a crush and sexual harassment. the 17 year old, is harassing you. tell him to either keep his hands and his thoughts to himself or to have a little chat with the principal (school's take sexual harassment really seriously) steve is trying to get some with no strings attached. tell him that you don't want to do anything he wouldn't want his girlfriend to know. tell the other guys that they really need to grow up and learn how to respect a girl.
how's your boyfriend dealing with all this..
and darlin', i'm not trying to point fingers, but maybe they see your actions/reactions as a reason to say those kinds of things. watch what signals you send out for a while... k?
best of luck
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not to sound cliche, but say no, if you have to add a HELL no. these guys sond liek typical guys, but u gotta relize not all guys are like that, so wait for one who isnt. in the meantime, stay wiht ur boyfriend, adn tell them in a non joking manner, that it makes u really uncomfortable, and could they stop, if they dont, stop talking to them so much, theyll get the idea
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well if ur not ready to do this like have sex cheat on ur b/f or strip than say no and stick to that no matter what the say to u
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just tell them you aren't interested in them.. but be blunt about it.. you don't have to be nice if u don't like the things they are doing to u or calling u.. make sure they know how u feel
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Well, you just have to stand up for yourself, don't afraid to be brutal like, "Hell no freak!" Then, if they take it TOO far, then you can always sue them for sexual harrasment... I hope i helped! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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Say, I have a boyfriend, I'm sorry, I would never do anything to be unloyal to him. Also, do your best to stay away from these guys and never be alone anywhere with them because i'm scared they are going to try and take advantage of you. Expecally Karl who you said was touching you.
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hey! guys like to joke around with girls, a lot. these guys just seem to be really annoying though. just when they call you names either call them names back or ignore them. you choose which one fits you best. if they are trying to touch you in any wat, then just tell them to stop, and if that doesn work then puch them away, and if they cmoe back or you cant get them off, then kick them in the nuts! but you have to be strong (emotionally i mean) and brave about this. well, i'm sure that msot of them are just teasing, so go along with it (faking it) and see what happens. hope i helped, peace and love!
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No no no tell him you want to get drunk so he can take advantage of you..its quite fun if you want to be a SLUT...HAHA..cuz thats wat you ARE
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Heres a question for you. Why are these "boys" asking you these questions in the first place. Dont get me wrong guys can be a bit to overly sexual. However these types of guys dont exsist everywhere you turn, a girl such as yourself usually hangs out with them and carries on in a sexual manner along with them. My advice to you is to tell someone if it bothers you that much. And if a guy does not stop when you say no then that is considered sexual harassment and you should press charges. Ignore hormone driven insecure males.
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The guys shouldn't be doing this. You gotta say, "I'll do what i want so bug off". I cleaned the language up a bit, so you kinda get the pic. These guys are sexually harassing you! Thats a big deal and you are doing the right thing to ask us about it. So feel good about yourself and don't let the assholes get the best of you!
*Randy T*
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hun sry to say this but.. They are sexually harrassing you. The same thing happened to me last year. This guy i used to go out with sat right beside me in my 1st pd. class. But he kept askin me for head and to grab him and give him a hand job. It was nutz. Then it all started on the computer on AOL. That didnt go too well. My mom saw all the notes he wrote me everything he sent me on aol... EVERYTHING.. hes still not allowed to talk to me or come near me.
What you need to do is turn them in and tell your parents b4 this gets too far. Good luck and i hope i helped.
Christine
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In order for them to get the point, you have to take a stand and say "Look, you're being a fucking pig. Stop bothering me. I'm not going to strip for you/Date you/Have sex with you. I have too much self-respect to do that."
If they don't get the point, next time, you slap them and walk away.
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Oh, this is pretty tough. For Steve: Anyone who wants you guys to CHEAT is a major asshole and should be treated like one. Don't do anything for him! He's a louse and he's not worth you. For Karl and the younger boy: Stripping and sex is an intimate part of your relationship. Don't do it for either one unless you've been dating them for like a year and a half. Okay? These guys sound totally not worth you, and I hope you get some good advice (in case mine doesn't work.) ~*Jenni*~
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