guys, how do you feel about a girl who is on the pill and does not want to use a condom. Girls and guys, is that weird for a girl to not want to use a condom? and if you dont mind saying..doesnt it feel better ?
It's totally up to the person, but one thing all of you need to know is that even though some of you are using birth control without condoms, there's still the risk of having stds/stis. Both partners should get tested for those before engaging in sex without a condom.
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when my old boyfriend used to finger me (we were both virgins) sometimes he would remove his hand and his fingers would be covered in really dark brown red, it almost looked like blood from my period, but it would be nowhere near the start or finish of my period. Do you know what caused this? Should i be worried?
thank you
Chances are his finger nails were long that will easily cause you to bleed.
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alright well me and my boyfriend have bin together 1 year now and well lets just say, we are so predictible in bed now thats its scary. anyways i just wanted to know if anyone had any sites i could refer to, to help me with my little problem? it would be greatly apreciated
http://www.scarleteen.com is a pretty good one.
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I was goin to bed downstairs with my parents room being upstairs, when i finally was in bed i heard a scream, so i got up wondering what was wrong then i heard all these sex noises moans and such, i was freaked out, wouldn't you be? so i called my 19 year old sister and she came home to comfort me. I couldn't sleep even after they had stopped, it was stuck in my head.
The next morning i was discusted, but still decided to talk about them about it, all they said was "we are in love you should be happy that we are still together in so in love" i go "i'm not...it's discusting to me!" they just said "you should get over it" now i can't get the noises out of my mind and i keep picturing them doing it i know they are in love but i still think it is really discusting i mean blowjobs, kissing, naked! that is what is stuck...please help me to be relived of that!
I would like to talk to you privately. Have you got any instant messengers that I can talk to you through?
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i took a ept pregnancy test and it came out positve could the test be wrong
How long ago was it that you had sex? It is best to take a pregnancy test within 10-14 days after sex. What you should do is do a few more pregnancy tests within the time range I gave you. If they all come out positive, then yes you could be pregnant. How old are you? Have you had unprotected sex? Hopefully all goes well for you.
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My boyfriend and I were having sex. The condom wasn't lubricated and it was pretty dry. I just went to the bathroom and I was bleeding a little and it hurts. I think I've gotten like, a condom burn or it cut me or something. Is it anything to worry about? Will it heal? Or will it make me anymore lose?
ppplease help!!
It is very important that you are lubed up when you have sex. It is also best to use a lubricated condom as well which kind of helps, but isn't good enough. You should have lube on your vagina and a lube on the condom. Put as much as you can on both. This should hopefully stop the bleeding.
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I planned on having sex for the first time a few months ago with the amazing guy i was dating. He is 16, im 15. Neither one of us have ever had sex. The time came and we messed around a little (fingering and handjob) and then we tryed to put it in and it didn't fit, like at all. Me and him both were surprised and a little embarressed. Him and i still talk about hang out alot but we only kiss now we have never tryed again. I have been masturbating with a toy alot since then to try and make me loosen up. Do you think that since i have been masturbating alot that it will help us when the time is right?
Reasons of why he was not able to penetrate inside of you could be because of the following.
1. You were not aroused enough. Just having a wet vagina isn't good enough. You need to be completly aroused and wanting sex.
2. You were nervous. This usually leads into a big chance that you won't be able to sex or have trouble fitting his penis in you.
3. Lack of lubrication. It is important that you use a lot of lubrication. It is preferred that you use Astroglide.
If you were relaxed, had a lot of foreplay done to you, and was really lubed up and still not able to have sex, then you should talk to your gynochologist. If you want to talk more about this whole penetration issue, stop by my advice column and e-mail me if you wish. My e-mail address is on my Advice Column.
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Does anyone know any websites where i can learn more about sex, basically the whole thing from tips to actually doing it and the consequences.
thanks♥
I've got a very good web site for you.
http://scarleteen.com
They really care for all of there people there and provide the best advice possible.
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Me and my boy friend had sex. We have done it many times with and with out a condom. The first time we (I) did it, i did not bleed or feel any pain. But after about 2 or 3 months of us having sex, one time i was bleeding. So we decied to stop fooling around for a while. so we did, for a week and a half then we had sex again and blood, now its not like a massive amount its like when you have a little cut and wipe it its a little pink. we had sex 3 different times in about a week and there was blood. Now though we have been fooling around and i dont have that problem any more. i cant tell my mom, because she thinks im waiting till marrige.
Whoa! Stop right there and listen to me! Sex without a condom has a lot of risks to it. You have a really high risk of pregnancy, and you also have a high risk of STDS/STIS. What you need to do is make an appointment with your gynochologist and request a full std/sti screening. Your partner needs to also get a full std/sti screening as well. Your partner should always wear a condom when you have sex. Now in answer to the blood issue, you need to use lots of lube! Feel free to visit my advice page and contact me if you want to talk.
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ok im 13/f and one of my friends have been "messing around" lately but i wont have sex with him without a condom. the problem is my mother stil thinks im a virgin. i dont know how to get birth control or condoms without my mom finding out. in the area i live in there is only 2 small gas stations around which both carry condoms but i have a feeling my mom would find out about me buying them, i wouldnt be so worried about her finding out if the guy was 16. i have had sex with him before and ended up missing my period for 2 months! are there any ideas on how to get protection?
please help soon! i rate well!
This may sound kinda mean, but I am almost pretty sure that there are laws in your state about people having sex under the age of 18 or 16. You better check them. Someone could be in big trouble if found out.
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i was just curious but is intercorse or any type of sex the only way u can get pregnant?
haha i kno its dumb but i'm just curious.
It is very possible that you could get pregnant without having intercourse. Cum from the male could possibly make you pregnant. This is a moderate chance that this would happen. If you would like, you could go to http://www.scarleteen.com and read articles and even sign up with the forums they have there.
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