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when are the chances of getting pregnant the highest? (link)
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It all depends on your body yourself. You can go in and get a ovulation chart that tells you when and such like that. =) But if you don't want to... lol. Yeah. It all depends on your body. Not one two girls are the same.
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I'm totally in love with boyfriend. We've been togher for over 9 months. hes made me cry when i'm happy. i've made him cry when hes happy. Hes says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. i feel the same way. he also says hes lucky to have me , he stays up at night cause he can't get me out of his head , that i'm the only girl he really cares for and stuff like that. It seems to good to be true. Do u think hes telling me the truth? He doesn't pressure me into doing anything sexual that i don't want 2 and when we do have sex he says he want it to be speical . I feel the same way. But hes been doing horrible things. Hes cut himself before. The reason he did is because his dad wouldn't let him call and other times because he couldn't get me out of his head. He also admited to takeing phills. He has promised to stop for me. what should I do? Its scares me i don't want to lose him. Why do u think hes doing this? How can I help him. Please give me some advice. And please don't think hes a freak because honestly no one would ever think of him to ever do anything like that hes a good guy. Please help and thank you (link)
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Cutting is not a good thing. My best friend has done it and it broke my heart. You have to get him to stop because everytime he does it, he will want to do it more and go deeper. So what you really need to do is tell someone about it and keep watch out. He might cut more then his wrists though if he does not want you to know or something..so thats the bad thing. x.x; But just try your best to help him. If anything, you should tell someone if it gets super bad. Because as you said, you don't want to lose your boyfriend.
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I am a virgin and I am ready to have sex i think about it all the time but i'm afraid that it might hurt. My question it what does the first time haveing sex feel like? Is is digusting and painful or is it wild and crazy in good way? (link)
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Haha. Don't listen to the movies. (I'm a virgin. But ALL my friends are not.) Everyone I have ever spoke to told me that it hurt like hell the first time..but if you are really like. In love with the person you do it with. Its good pain.. I don't know. That is one of the reaons why I don't want to do it.. XD I tend to stay away from the stuff that hurts me.
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okay, my friend is asking this question not me, she wants to know if the gyno can tell if you masturbate. She is going today and she masturbates but doesnt want her mom to know. (link)
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No...How could they tell if you masturbate? There is no evidence left behind unless she still leaves the sharpie in and forgets to take it out..xD
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i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused (link)
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I'm 15. I personally think it is a dumb ass thing to do to have sex until you are ready. I don't believe that there is any age limit. (Well.. I do... I mean...as you said...8 year olds are not going to cut it...) I believe you wait until you are ready and I personally know that I am not ready at all. I'm with my boyfriend and I care about him a lot, but it is not love yet. Even if it was, I don't know if I would do anything with him. I'm personally not waiting for marriage- just someone special who won't leave me and will be mine for a long time.
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Last night I was over at some friends house and I was the only girl and there was three boys (I'm 19) and we were drinking and they must have got drunk becasue they grabbed me and flung me onto the bed and started having sex and I didn't want to! Now this morning I won't stop bleeding! PLEASE HELP...oh my god I don't want this to happen to me I'M A GOOD GIRL! (link)
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First of all.
THIS. IS. GROUP. RAPE. (aka 'gang bang'). You should go tell police as soon as you can and get them in trouble! They didn't respect you at all and they could have seriously hurt you or passed a disease to you or something like that. Or you could have even gotten pregnant. (._.) So you need to do something about it as soon as you can. Don't let them get away with it.
(Oh, and fyi. Don't define them as friends if they did that to you. I would not really be calling my rapest my 'friend'. ;D)
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Well, recently, My best friend told me what happened at a party when i was 14,i am now 16. As it turns out, at that party, there was some extesy going around. Someone snuck it into my drink. I was lead away from the party,to the basement. When i woke up from the extisy, A guy was inside of me. I was sexually assaulted. I tried to get away, but he hit me again to knock me out. I had a mental block of this night, and when my friend told me of what might of happened at that party, it all came falling down. I have horrible flashbacks. She is the only one who knows. I am having some weird pains in my stomache that started at age 15, i thought it was nothing, but as it turns out, i went to the doctor. When i went to the doctor, he revealed that i had aids. What do i do? He video taped it. one of my guy friends was looking at a porno site, and said they saw someone who looked extremely like me on a video. I asked for the site, and went to it. It was the man. The tape is on a porno site. I do not want people thinking i am that way, a porno star. What do i do about this whole horrible weekend?
I thought at that party i was just going to have fun.
Please help me.
I am sorry this is long. (link)
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1)If you know who the person is, or know where he lives go tell the police about it. It might be late, but they still could get onto the man for doing this to you and having sex while he is infected with HIV or has full blown AIDs. Plus, X is a really illegal drug. There is jail time already for that. But of course you don't really have proof that he did drug you. But you do have proof of the assault. So That is why you let them see the tape before you get it removed from the site. So you have your proof.
2) Get in contact with the site and tell them to take it off. Underaged pornography is illegal. Plus, it is not by your consent. So they HAVE to.
3)You can't really do anything about the flashbacks but see help from like.. a doctor of some sort.
4)Tell your parents and don't have sex. If you have sex you can get in a lot of trouble. I'm sure you're already scared and don't have sex- but just in case.
I hope I could be some sort of help. I know saying sorry about AIDs won't do you any good. But as long as you stay healthy...yeah. AIDs does not kill you. The other virus's do, dear. =/
Good luck and best wishes. This guy should be killed.
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i am pregnet like 2 months along, and as we know your not supposed to have sex, well my boyfriend really want it, but i cant give it to him, and i dont want him cheating on me, i was wondering if you can have anal sex while being pregnet? (link)
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You can have sex when you're pregnant.. But hello. That is probably the reason you are pregnant in the first place? After like.. your 6 or 7 month you're not supposed to do it though. You can have anal sex.. But dude.. I don't know about you. But I would not enjoy something shoved up my ass. That is where you effin' shxt man. Why would you want to do that? Especially when you are just feeling shxtty? It sounds just gross to me, but whatever floats your boat. Good luck. Later. ;D
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well i kinda want to do somting with my boyfirend and i want to shave down there how can i do that with out getting ingrown hairs, rashes and etc. and i dont want to wax just somthing fast at home!!
pls help
aLLtHatJaZZ! (link)
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Do. Not. Use. Nair. It sucks bad enough on legs! God. Anyway. When you shave you should go as slow. Don't rush it. Use something creamy when you shave it and put lotion on it afterwards. If you start to get razor burn, just apply lotion to the area.
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Hey, I'm a girl and I'm 14 years old. Okay I'm sure I love guys and everything, but I'm attracted to my best friend and my best friend is also a girl and 13 years old. I know I'm not attracted to any other girls, but her. It's weird because I feel if I could be with her it would be less complex then with a guy and since I know everything about her and she knows everything about me I feel we could be very happy together. I don't look at other girls or watch porno to see girls at all. I flirt with guys but just a lot less now because I'm focused on my best friend and I. I know for a fact if she doesn't want to be with me that way I'll go back to guys and I'll have no regret in my life becuase i went for her. We've experimented 3 times now and liked it time. One time she's wanted me so badly she's licked her lips at me and at the same time stared deep in my eyes craving to touch me. We do have a plan to try to go to college together and live together and get a big house together. We feel very relaxed and happy around each other. My life couldn't feel anymore complete without her. It's like guys are a last resort because I know if I can't have be with her then I'll go for guys. I'm very scared to tell her because if I do she'll be freaked out and wouldn't wanna be best freinds with me anymore or just be around me anymore. Please help a girl out! (link)
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I'm bi myself...and kind of the same thing happened to me. If she did do those things and you could tell her anything, you should tell her how you feel. There is nothing wrong with who you like, you can't help who you are attracted to. If she tells you that she has the same feelings for you, then go for it and be with her. If she does not share the same points, try your best to move on. It will hurt, but it is better to know then to live in secret. Relationships always make things complicated though, so maybe you could be friends with benifits even? But living with this deep inside of you will kill you eventually. Tell her how you feel. That is the least you could do. Who knows? She might feel like you would feel like that towards her! Best wishes and good luck.
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Ok well I have tried to use a tampon like a million times but everytime I try to put in, It doesn't go in all the way even though it looks like it!! When I walk, it's realllyyy uncomfertable..What am I doing wrong??? (link)
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Okay. You need to push it all the way up. Take the applicator and push it in all the way to the base until your hand is by your vagina but your fingers still have a good grip on the tapon. Push the little thing in and pull it out. If you do this and it is still uncomfortable put your finger in to adjust it... yeah. It sounds gross. But you can always wash your hands.
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I am 13, I live in The Conroe area in Texas and I am very sexually active. It seems as if all my guy friends preasure me to do it. Like my friend Kellen... he always pushes himself up on me and I try to say NO but he does it anyways... once we start It doesn't really bother me.. but I really wanta stop!! and every1 asks me if I like Kellen or if we did have sex I always try to deny it cause I don't know what to do... Kellen's friedn Andy, always trys to have sex with me too! but I don't know! I don't want it to happen! what can I do to get them to stop? PLEASE help me! (link)
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First of all. Grow balls yourself and hit them in the balls. They are ONLY doing it because they know they can take advantage of you and because.. well. They are assholes. 13 is a way too young age to be having sex and tell them to get off you before you punch them in the face. If they don't listen, do just what you told them you would do- punch them in the face. They deserve it, because they are acting like total jerks and they don't respect you or your body.
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i'm 15/f. i was at my aunt/uncles house today. me & my cousin were in the basement. her dad came down to look at his cellphone, then went back upstairs. once he left, my cousin said "i think my dad is having an affair." she opened up the text messages on his cell & they were from the same woman. they said "yeah what we're doing is so wrong i hope no one finds out" etc. my aunt & uncle have always had marriage problems, but as of now, me and my cousin are the only ones who knows about his affair. I asked my cousin if she's going to tell her mom and she said "NO WAY I'LL GET IN SO MUCH TROUBLE FOR LOOKING THRU HIS PHONE AND I DON'T WANT TO CAUSE ANY PROBLEMS!" She doesnt seem to care tho, but i'm so freaked out and my question is, what should i do, (should i do anything at all...?) (link)
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Tell your parents or talk to your aunt yourself. I mean, would you like to be ran around on? I know if I told my daughter not to be looking on her fathers phone, and she did and found out that my husband was cheating on me... I'd wouldn't be mad at my daughter persay...I'd be mad at my husband. I would not want to live in a lie. Would you? Tell your aunt...because you don't want this to go on forever and her to be totally clueless.
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I'm a Christian so I want to be a virgin till I'm married, but lately it's been real hard to stay that way. I'm letting my hormones make me too curious. (I've never actually even seen a penis before.) I get really horny a lot and sometimes I ever masturbate to get over it. I'm way too young to have sex but lately I've wanted to give a handjob or even get laid. How can I keep motivated to stay a virgin? I know I'm not ready for sex. (link)
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Masturbation is your best bet, love. There is NOTHING wrong with masturbation. I personally think it is wrong that religion tries to tell you what to do and not to do sexually. But of course, that is your opinion. Anyway. Just masturbate. That is what I have been doing for a long time. If you do start to get into fingerings and such, that could lead to more temtations to even get laid. Do you really want that? From what you said, no. So you might want to watch out sweetie. Wait until you're ready. Wait for someone special. Don't throw it all away because you got horny. Hope I could have been some sort of help. =)
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Well me and my boyfriend have exsperimented "below" the belt. He never said anything before, but now hes complaining about me not shaving. I shaved once before, now i usually just trim. When i shved i hated it i couldnt stand it, it itched and hurt and it was annoying. What should i do? (link)
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I think shaving is all about what you want. Not about what the dog, your mom, or your boyfriend wants. I rather it be shaved, but I won't tell my boyfriend/girlfriend/whoever I happen to be dating at the time that they have to. If they don't want to shave...so be it. That...is really up to them doll face.
If you don't like to be shaved, tell him that. Tell him he should respect what you think and feel and ect. Tell him to shave and see how it feels. (haha.)
If you do want to get rid of the hair though, you could always try waxing..but trust me...that does NOT feel good.
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for the past 5 months. We go to the same high school, but next year he is going to a public school and leaving me at the private school we both go to now. He has had sex before and i havent. He wants me to but i tell him im not ready and he says he can wait. I love him so much and he tells me he loves me to, i just am nervous to have sex with him and then he will leave. and i dont want the condom to break and im stuck having a kid. Plus the main promblem is what will god think of me? Please Help!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Okie dokie. If you are not 700% you're ready for sex- don't do it. Sex isn't really a bad thing so to say, because it can be a act of love. But it is bad if you are pressured into it. Sit him down and tell him you're not ready at all. Try to tell him how you feel about it.
And personally, relgion has a lot of different perspectives. But really, what I think is you should wait until you are in love (and not that dumb love that people always say they are in and they know they really could give two shxts if that person died. The 'bible' says to wait until you're married... Just wait until you're ready. If you're morals are that not to have sex until you're married tell him that. If you are afraid he will leave you once you do (which is how I am all of the time and the reason why I'm a virgin ;D)just...don't. do. it. ;D Good luck.
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Is it possible to be suicidal, but to not have attempted suicide...? (link)
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Yes...The definition of suicide is:
1. Causing, intending, or relating to suicide: a suicidal act; suicidal impulses. 2. Dangerous to oneself or to one's interests; self-destructive or ruinous: a suicidal corporate takeover strategy.
So basicly it just means you are thinking a lot about ending it, but you never have done it. It means your depressed and need help, normally.
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