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I'm totally in love with boyfriend. We've been togher for over 9 months. hes made me cry when i'm happy. i've made him cry when hes happy. Hes says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. i feel the same way. he also says hes lucky to have me , he stays up at night cause he can't get me out of his head , that i'm the only girl he really cares for and stuff like that. It seems to good to be true. Do u think hes telling me the truth? He doesn't pressure me into doing anything sexual that i don't want 2 and when we do have sex he says he want it to be speical . I feel the same way. But hes been doing horrible things. Hes cut himself before. The reason he did is because his dad wouldn't let him call and other times because he couldn't get me out of his head. He also admited to takeing phills. He has promised to stop for me. what should I do? Its scares me i don't want to lose him. Why do u think hes doing this? How can I help him. Please give me some advice. And please don't think hes a freak because honestly no one would ever think of him to ever do anything like that hes a good guy. Please help and thank you
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Cutting is not a good thing. My best friend has done it and it broke my heart. You have to get him to stop because everytime he does it, he will want to do it more and go deeper. So what you really need to do is tell someone about it and keep watch out. He might cut more then his wrists though if he does not want you to know or something..so thats the bad thing. x.x; But just try your best to help him. If anything, you should tell someone if it gets super bad. Because as you said, you don't want to lose your boyfriend.
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Hi hun,
Ok I have a number of friends who cut or have cut. Some people are more serious than others, not saying that all cutting isnt dangerous, but the sooner you find out the better. If your boyfriend was this open and honest about it then obviously he wants you to help him. Apperantly you guys love eachother very much and are willing to do anything to be with eachother. My advice to you is to start a journal. I know it sounds really cheesy and gay, but it works. I've done it with about 5 of my friends and it helps so much. He can put anything in it. Poems, pictures, writing anything. Try to keep him as preoccupied as possible and most of all talk to him about it. Cry with him if you have to. The thing about this is, if you aren't read y to support him 100% you cant support him at all.
I really hope I helped and good luck.
IM me if you wanna talk some more. I have some amazing stories. CaNdiShOpGurll (AIM)
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look this sounds just like me alright ya i cut my self but not becuz of a chick and he really is mad about something he is seeing or hearing i dont know but somethings up and its breaking him away from you and you need to make him stop with the drugs because pills and such make you lose affection for others same happened to me i was in love with this chick and now... its gone...soo i suggest you go to him and work it out make him stop tell him how you feel and if he does it will all be ok but u kno usually theres other reasons for cutting himself family problems and such like that just find out and talk to him becuz i bet he has other reasons for these actions and hes holding em inside becuz he feels no one cares and no one will listen sooo make sure he knows you'll listen.
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To me it sounds like hes a lil bit too obsessed with you and hes itz just that hes in love with you. If you told him to stop and that you don't want to lose him i'm sure he'll listen to you and stop. and be there to support him. maybe tell him that when he is hurting himself itz scaring you and just to stop for you. hope things go well for you. <3 Peachgirly
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It sounds like he likes you...maybe that he's a little obsessed with you if he's cutting himself because he can't call you or because he can't get you out of his head. I'd talk to a trusted adult about what he's doing because it could kill him. If you love him you wouldn't want him dying. I'm saying talk to an adult because it sounds like you already tried talking to him but he didn't stop.
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yes. He is! :))!!!!!!!!!!!
YAY! GOOO LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I WISH YOU TWO THE BEST OF LUCK!
Hope I Helped!!!
:)
Always There;
*KeLsA*
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This guy is pretty attatched to you, and I know how it feels to have a very sweet guy like that, I have one myself actually, and every sweet thing you described mine has. (uh oh...lol kidding.) But hes too attatched, you need to tell him how much it hurts you when he does that and if he wants to make you happy, to stop for you. But this guy, I'm afraid, sounds like he could become controlling of you, and I don't exactly mean controlling like bossing you around, I mean like cry and pitty, cutting, pills to make you feel bad controlling. Now listen, I totally understand that he may seem too nice, but if he already does this because of a phone call and just thinking of you, just think of what will happen if you were to just go see maybe an old friend or hang out with your friends? And your family? I think this guy could be ill. I highly doubt that he will just quit in a snap, and not that he doesn't care enough for you not to do it, hes just ill probably. I'm not saying to break up with him, I think you need to support and help him with it, and make it as easy for him as you possibly could. Because, I think we all could take a wild guess what would happen if you left him. If anything further with the self injuring happens, he will have to get help, either he is doing it because he wants to show you and impress you with his love, or this is really a problem. And both of those things aren't really good. Basically what I'm saying is, he may promise you, but there is a high chance he will break it.
-TheTeenGirl
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He is basically nuts over you he wants to do everything just for you and when he cant it just drives him crazy you have to tell him when he cuts himself and takes pills it scares you and tell him if he dosent stop you will break up with him and he will probably stop instantly
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Hes infatuated with you, when he cant have it his way, he gets pissed off and does some bad stuff. Tell him to stop, for you. He'll stop then.
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