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Ok i have this friend that is like a big drinker and i try to get her to stop but it is just not working what should i do. if you can help write. M.Lee (link)
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M.lee,
you need to sit your friend down and tell her that her drinking is scaring you. that she should be able to come her you about everything just like how ur coming to her. she might say o everyones doing it when in reality people r doing it for the same reason. tell her your there for her. if it doesnt work ask me again but for now do that
hope it helps {member im always on!}
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ok i have a really good friend and she is hurting herself by like throwing herself into walls durring school because i think she is depressed. It seems like she really doesn't want to talk about it to anyone. The other day she almost cracked her head open. (she kind of did or maybe she just got a cut on it and it started bleeding because she was banging her head on the lockers) ya i know it sound phsyco...but i don't want her 2 be like this! i mean 2day she was slamming her head against the concrete until i made her stop! what should i do to get her to either tell me whats going on or to stop her from hurting herself????? (i rate high)
ThAnKs A BuNcH!
-*Marissa*- (link)
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marissa,
you have to tell her that her doing this makes her feel like theres nuthin you can do to help her with her problems and tell her that she can come to you for anything have her come to your house or go to hers (even better) and just talk and have her pour it all out to you. i know it might make you depressed but once she gets it out she will feel alot better that she has some1 who will be there for her. friends are the best thing to go to first to with emotion and physical problems (in your case) email me if you need to talk its all on my site AIM and email adress.
tell me what happens (im always on!)
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yeah i know what you mean it does change things im still in love with him and i did talk to him and he was just like i cant resist haha it was kinda funny any ways its all going work out he said he work on being less.......horny haha
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well im glad it worked out thanx for writing back!!!! { ask me again if you need anything else im on this site alot!!!}
luv britt
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ok one of my best friends has really strict parents. theyre making her go to military school cuz she got one D on her report card! shes leaving next year and i dont know if i can take it. shell be at school all week except for the weekends. i dont know what to do shes the only person that makes school a little more fun. im really sad. how can i get over this? (link)
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there really isnt anything you can do. just make those weekends when you see her really special
hope it helps
luv Britt
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I have a friend that never kept in touch of the peopel he knew when he moved. But another person wrote a letter saying all this junk about this one person that moved and how he loved another person. This othere person dosnt talk to me any more. what should i do??? (link)
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if i were you i would try to call. write a letter or email just trying to get back in touch try to find anyway of contact. call explain and say stuff like i miss that we never talk and try calling or email or sumthing once a week. that always worked for the friend i lost touch with. and it worked well.
write back and ask me more
Luv Britt
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I have this friend who used to be my best friend ever. We still talk alot and she is still a good friend but we have been spreading apart. We always talk about how we dont hang out enough but every time I try to hang out with her she is out with other friends or wont call me back or just doesnt pick up. Its making me really frustrated because she is awesome but I am to the point where I just want to stop trying because she never trys to hang out with me Im always trying to hang out with her. Should I just give up? And is she just trying to tell me she dosent care anymore?
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no, because there is a chance that they might be just busy. that or they might just want to blow you off. but i had the same problem and we didnt talk for a year. and we started just saying hi and then she asked me if i wanted to go to the movies and it was alot of fun. we cought up alot.so dont worry just dont act obsessed.
hope it helps
luv Britt
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my best friend and i have been like really close since freshmen year and now like everytime we want to do sumthing she always has to bring someone else along i mean sometimes i just want to hang with her like we used to because its no fun when the people she brings im not friends with and i end up getting ditched...i dont like it what should i do?????????? (link)
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before inviting your friend tell her you want to spend 1 on 1 time it should work.
luv Britt
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This is really long, but I need help! Last year I befriended three girls in my class. They became my really good friends, but one of them was my best friend. One of the other girls isn't very nice to me this year, since her and my best friend used to be best friends. I think that she's jealous. So my best friend and I haven't been hanging around the other two that much just because they're not very nice to us and some other incidents have happened. We've started to hang out with another group. They seemed really mean last year, but this one girl left and now they're all nice. So all of us are really good friends and we all get along great. We've all become closer through church, sports, and school, so I see them all the time. She my best friend and I just leave our two 'ex' best friends alone? They seem to be happy, but I do feel sort of bad. I'd rather hang out with my newer friends though. Help!! (link)
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well if i were you.i would try to hangout with both friends. and if they have issues sit them down and talk. and your true friends will stay true to you.
hope it works out
Luv Britt
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Okay. My friend told me something not to tell anyone. I accidentally told someone though, like it slipped out. She won't talk to me and she told me to tell the person I was kidding and I was just wondering, so I did and now shes like "you're crazy, you're insane" crap like that and it's really annoying but I don't know how to deal with it, because we were really good friends, and I would think she would have been more mature about something like that. Anyway, my question is what should i do about it, there is no way she is gonna let me have my say and tell her what happened and she won't even talk to me. How should I handle this? (link)
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there is nthin you can do really you kept a promise and broke it so all you can do is apoligize. srry i know you didnt want to hear that.
hope it works out
Luv Britt
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ok.i have this friend and there was a party one weekend.of course,I partied it up. But there were guys that i did stuff with. I didnt tell anyone BUT my friend. I requested that she not tell anyone about it.Then she told me the guys and 1 of my friends hated me because of a cake fight.I later found out that none of them said that. I got mad at her so she decided to tell EVERYONE about me night. When I first confronted her,she denied it. But when I asked her again she took the blame.She told me she did it because i was mad at her.I dont think I should forgive her.Can anyone help me?
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Angry Friend (link)
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angry friend,
realze that you told your friend. but she had no right to go sayin that have a long talk with her and tell her that when you get mad at her you dont go sayin stuff about her to show that you are a true friend this should make her confess to you and it will help listen to what she has to say give her a chance to explain and listen
hope you stay friends i dont know what i would do without mine.
luv Britt
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I have this one really good friend, and let's call her Jane. Jane and I met last year, when I came to her school for a gifted program. Jane and I became kinda friends, but I made a best friend that I'll call Kristen. It's a year later, and now were all good friends. But on the bus the other day, this girl I'll call Sam bad mouthed my friend. I asked Kristen if she liked Jane, and she said no not really. Jane is a really good friend of mine but I don't know what to do? (link)
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i have friends who are like that and if these so called *friends* bad mouth eachother then they really arnt good friends like i say......
"friends stay true to the eye, but the real ones still STAY TRUE behind your back."
hope it works
luv Britt
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my friend has had this off and on relationship with this guy.hes fingered her and made out alot and stuff but he goes off and does stuff like that with other people.shes like my best friend EVER and she calls me crying sayin hes makin out with some girl.it breaks my heart and i think she should leave him.all he does is break her hearrt.she deserves so much better but she claims she loves him so much.other times she hates him.can someone help me?im afraid im in the middle.
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Concerned Friend (link)
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concerned friend,
i think you should go up to this guy and give him a piece of your mind tell him that he doesnt deserve a great girl like your bff!!! and if your best friend is stil loving him try to catch him in the act or him with another girl to show her its not worth. it or the best thing is just have your friend confrot him and have her give him a piece for her mind in front of this/these girls so they know that they are being used.
hope it works out
luv Britt
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