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hi i am 13 and my frend alwayz says were frends and then she never does any thing wit me she is always doin sumtin wit ppl at skool and i just wundered if yall think if she is a real frend or not plz help i rate good!:) (link)
if she still talks to you and hangs out with you sometimes shes a real friend. But if she NEVER talks to you, is constantly ditching you, she doesnt seem true. Try to make more then 1 friend.


lately i have been extremely unhappy, between my friends not talking to me alot anymore and them ditching me, i sit home alot on weekends when all my friends go out and have fun, also theres thisguy i like but i think he only wants to hook up. im just simply unhappy, also i think i am fat and i want to loose weight, lately i have been turnign to alcohol when im home alone so i dont have to be in this world. im always so bored and i just want to get away. i want my friends, i want to go out and party like my friends do, i want a boyfriend, and i want to loose weight. is there something wrong with me. (link)
no but you need to take a chance. Go up to the people you want to hang out with and ask them. If they say they cant, dont give up! Just ask more people untill someone says yes! If you want to lose weight, exercise, and if you want a boyfriend, start saying HI to some guys. DONT use alchoal, it makes you worse and its bad for you. Hope i helped .


I'm having a few of my close friends over tomorrow, about ten or so of them. They will be staying all day, but the thing is, I don't have any ideas whatsoever on what to do. It will be raining all day so we can't really walk anywhere and no one is really bringing money to go to the movies. I have a lot of movies in the house, but they are all horror movies, which my friends aren't into. Suggestions on what to do will be appreciated. If it helps, I am seventeen (although the people who are coming aren't all the same age) and both guys and girls will attend. (link)
Here are some ideas of what you can do...

*paint each others nails
*Do the limbo
*Make a frappe for you and your friends ( put in blender: 1 cup of fresh or frozen strawberries, 2 tablespoons sugar, 1 cup crushed ice, and 1 cup milk. Mix it up, yummm!)
*Dance/Make up a dance
*shoot ping pong balls off soda bottles with a squirt gun.
*play tag with squirt gun
*Have a tournament
*play with chalk
*have a picnic
*if it rains, go dance in the rain!

hope i helped!


I'm so depressed my girl left me and I didn't really make many friends when I moved here from NC what can I do to cheer up or meet new friends? (link)
start hanging out with people during lunch or something. Make them laugh, give them a good impression. Making a friend will cheer you up.


ok so I'm turning 15 on october 29th (& i'm a girl) .. i'm having a big co-ed party, so far all i got is basketball and music ha.. yea so basically i need some ideas on what i can do at my party, and i don't want to rent one of those moon bounce things that everyone gets.



thanks (link)
rent like a bouny house and cotton candy machine, if you can. umm if you search "Birthday Party Ideas" on google, youll be sure to find some more idieas. hope i helped.


Why do preps call people that aren't preps preps. Sorry kinda confusing but I'm just wondering that. Cause a few of the real preps call me a prep and I deff. don't consider myself or my friends preps. (link)
well if you wear like abercrombie or hollister they might think of you as a prep. I wear abercrombie but im DEFINITLY not a prep! you know what you are though, so it really doesnt matter what they say. Hope I Helped!


14/f my friend's dad just died this morning. what can i do to show her that i care and that i'm here for her? i have no idea what to say to her because i've never experienced a real loss.. (link)
be there for her, let her cry on your sholder if she needs it. Maybe cook dinner for their family, usually people are too sad to cook themselves. DONT talk about her dad with her UNLESS she asks you to! Because if you do it could make her feel worse.


My Best Friend Likes Me... i dont know what to do i mean hes a cutie and i love his personality and everything i guess im just afrid to like him because hes like my best friend and i mean i guess we flirt like he will tickle me and carry my books some times. Im Just scared if i say no im afrid he will be upset and if i say yes and we break up our friendship will be ruined. Please Give Me Some Advice (link)

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me and my friend were best-friends since we were 4. we're 13 now and since we were 9 she's been hanging around with other people at lunch time.It didn't bother me that much .She became way more popular but it was like nothing had changed outside of school.When we 1st went into 1st year in secondary school (in Ireland)and i was really happy that she starterd hanging out with me in school again.Now we're in 2nd year and we don't see each-other outside school that much and we don't hang out in school and we're only in three classes together.she still talks to me like everything is fine.She doesn't sit beside me in two of the classes unless her friends aren't there!Sheonly sometimes sits beside me in the other class but lately she hasn't even been doing that!I think she's using me but if I tell her then she might not be my friend at all.What should I do?HELP!!!P.S. I'm a thirteen year old girl. (link)
ya the best kind of thing you can do in this situation is move on. She seems like she doesnt want to be friends anymore. Try to make new friends. ;&hearts


my best friend diana, she weighs 113 pounds and she REFUSES to eat, and i sware. shes 12/f ps shes like 5'6

diana wants to be like me. im 13/f
im really small about 5'0 and i weigh a little over 76 pounds

she wants to loose like 20 pounds and be like me.

i find that disturding because like, it just is!

how can i tell her to stop it off and well yeah!

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ps she always says she is fat and she isnt!
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xOx mel

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tell her that 113 isnt that much for someone thats 5'6. its pretty normal. tell her tthat if she doesnt stop starving herself, then you cant be friends or something like that. something that shows her that u really mean waht your talking about.


Ok mii friend like ditches me and she leaces me out of everything!! And im sick of it!!!! and she like trys to act mature and tells me to get over it!! and stuff and it makes me mad!! whaat should i say to make her like mad or even cry!!?? i dont wanna sound mean but it has gone to far..!!..!! (link)
yeah thats been happening to me too...she trys to act "cool and popular" so she'd become what shes not. i know it gets REALLY annoying. try hanging out iwth someone else and ignoring her. if she asks WHY ARE YOU ANNOYING ME again be like "why dont you get over it" or one of her stupid terms....and walk away. she may dis back and try to act cool, but who cares. shes a loser and you dont need her...make new friends...


Well i have a friend who i have known since second grade... and well i found out that he liked this girl and i dont know why but i didnt like it and i realized that i like him.. and now latly it seems like shes been trying to steal him from me and like he now like ignores me and talks to her.. and one time he was talking to me and he saw her and went running over to her and didnt say bye to me or talk to me the rest of the night.. and she gives me dirty looks and like i hate her.. is it not right that i hate her? or is it ok to? (link)
dump him. he doesnt have a chance to do anything with u anymore. youre friend does seem jelous, but if your boyfriends gonna keep doing this to you , its not worth it...move on...


me and my friend like this same guy.the bad thing about it is that they are like best friends.i dont know if i should worry about him and my best friend alone together.she is my best friend in the whole world and she told me that she would never do something like that to me.should i believe her???
I NEED HELP!!!!!! (link)
let your friend know that he is off limits-for both of you. if he asks your friend and ur friend says yes, shes obviously not interested in what you have to say. talk to her. if she says some bad answer, then shes not your friend.


so i have a low confindence level.its like am afraid of popular kids in my school and i kind of want to be one .but i dont think i belong with tem .i like to watch them and know wats going on in their lives.what is wrong here. (link)
why do you want to be popular? would that help you feel better about yourself? I think it would be better if you just be yourself, and if you do become popular, you do. and why are you afraid of them? there just normal people like you and me. they're not gonna hurt you, most of them are just ppl tryin to look cool, some r just popular cuz they are really nice and just have tons of friends. hope i helped


ok.. so i have this friend... at one time she went through some really tough stuff.. and I didn't mind helping her and talking to her and stuff... but it was like she'd put me on a guilt trip and make me feel so sorry for her.. and like convince me I was all she had.. but then when we were at dance or something.. she was all happy and idk... not even the same person... so she finally got counselling after she started cutting and stuff.. they even wanted to put her in sight care or something.... but now i'm the one thats not so stable and she doesn't even care about me anymore.... she still sends me texts every once and awhile saying things like "i'm so lonely :'(.. I have no one!" ect....so i finally come out and tell her waht's bothering me and at first she cried with me and told me everything would be alright and we had this huge talk... but now she is being such a bitch to me... she doesnt have time to talk to me or hang out with me because she's always with other people.... and when we do talk its like "hey how are you?" "ok u?" "i'm ok" "well i g2g later" and thats it!! i just don't think its fair that i was always so loyal to her ... and now that i'm the one that needs help i dont have anybody...... its much more complecated then that but i guess that'll have to do...

5's to anyone who HELPS. (link)
wow. i would seariously confront this girl and be like "you said i was the only one that i was the only one you had. but this obviously isnt true because you dont seem to like talking or hanging out anymore. I told you the first time how i felt and we had a huge talk, and everything was fine. then after you starting acting like a bitch to me, and i dont feel that its fair that i always have to be loyal to you, when your not to me!" have you talked to your mom or dad about her? because if you did they would understand eveyrthing so that way if you go and say tht to her and she crys, and tells her mom or dad to call yours or something, you wont get in trouble, and youll feel good because you got to tell her off, something youve been wanting to do for a while., hope i helped!


my freind has been wanting a laptop for sometime time now, and he finally found a mutual freind that has one for sale. hes selling it for 50-80$. he asked me if he could borrow some money from me... and i said i couldnt afford it. but now i kinda want it... would it be wrong to buy it from under him? i could actually use one? so i
want to know if this is wrong? he wont be able to buy it for a while.... (link)
its hard to tell if it would ruin a friendship, because i dont no what kind of guy he is. But he was looking for it first and has been wanting one for a while, so you should just find another computer. But about the money situation, if he asks again say, "maybe you could start some oddjobs"




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