Question Posted Thursday September 15 2005, 6:42 pm
Ok mii friend like ditches me and she leaces me out of everything!! And im sick of it!!!! and she like trys to act mature and tells me to get over it!! and stuff and it makes me mad!! whaat should i say to make her like mad or even cry!!?? i dont wanna sound mean but it has gone to far..!!..!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? erythisis answered Friday September 16 2005, 12:13 am: Let her know that her behavior is unacceptable for a friend. If she doesn't think you're worth spending time with, you don't need to spend time with her. Talk to other girls, spend time with other friends.
If she cries and tells you she wants to be friends, you need to make it clear that she either needs to have a really good and rare reason to cancel any plans/leave you out or she needs to "deal with it".
Frankly, it sounds like she's using/abusing you. If you continue to let her push you around, you're pretty much letting yourself down. So put your foot down and give her the choice of either wanting your company or quit pretending to be the friend she's not. [ erythisis's advice column | Ask erythisis A Question ]
GANGStAhBAbiiEx answered Thursday September 15 2005, 8:40 pm: you can use what she says back to you and she will get mad
imabg209 answered Thursday September 15 2005, 7:42 pm: i dont think u should want to make her cry but you can tell her that you arent hangin out with her if she acts like that. tell her she can talk about you as much as she wants but you aint changin. tell her whatever her problem is dont take it out on you
xo hope i helped [ imabg209's advice column | Ask imabg209 A Question ]
shake answered Thursday September 15 2005, 6:55 pm: Speaking of "gone too far" I think you and exclamation points(!) have also gone too far. It's probably time you took a break from the keyboard. [ shake's advice column | Ask shake A Question ]
soccer_crazii answered Thursday September 15 2005, 6:52 pm: yeah thats been happening to me too...she trys to act "cool and popular" so she'd become what shes not. i know it gets REALLY annoying. try hanging out iwth someone else and ignoring her. if she asks WHY ARE YOU ANNOYING ME again be like "why dont you get over it" or one of her stupid terms....and walk away. she may dis back and try to act cool, but who cares. shes a loser and you dont need her...make new friends... [ soccer_crazii's advice column | Ask soccer_crazii A Question ]
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