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jelous?
Well i have a friend who i have known since second grade... and well i found out that he liked this girl and i dont know why but i didnt like it and i realized that i like him.. and now latly it seems like shes been trying to steal him from me and like he now like ignores me and talks to her.. and one time he was talking to me and he saw her and went running over to her and didnt say bye to me or talk to me the rest of the night.. and she gives me dirty looks and like i hate her.. is it not right that i hate her? or is it ok to?
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dump him. he doesnt have a chance to do anything with u anymore. youre friend does seem jelous, but if your boyfriends gonna keep doing this to you , its not worth it...move on...
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Hell, everyone gets irrationally jealous and mean when they feel someone close to them is forgetting about them. So in answer to you're question, stick pins in the girl's picture and cry over his if it helps but if you really want to do something about the situation you're gona have to suck it up and talk to this guy.
You don't have to tell him you like him if you think it would risk your friendship and come to nothing but at least that you feel ignored when she's around and get some reassurance from him.
If he's a good friend he'll see you have a poitn and hopefully try to include you more.
Oh by the way, sometimes it's best to actually get to know *the other woman* and form a bond with her. to start with it'll help you feel a bit more in control of the situation but you might also find out that you like her and hence get rid of some of the bitter feelings towards her.
Good luck
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I don't think it's right to hate anybody, but that's just me. I know it's hard to fight over a guy with your friend, but is it worth it??? Ask yourself this, would you rather save a friendship or gain a guy??? Sounds like you haven't even talked to her about this. If she's mature enough at all, she'll be willing to sit down and talk about what's going on. If this guy ends up liking you, don't rub it in her face. But if i were you, don't let this guy come between y'all. It's not fair to the both of you.
4Him, Disciple
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