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lately i have been extremely unhappy, between my friends not talking to me alot anymore and them ditching me, i sit home alot on weekends when all my friends go out and have fun, also theres thisguy i like but i think he only wants to hook up. im just simply unhappy, also i think i am fat and i want to loose weight, lately i have been turnign to alcohol when im home alone so i dont have to be in this world. im always so bored and i just want to get away. i want my friends, i want to go out and party like my friends do, i want a boyfriend, and i want to loose weight. is there something wrong with me.
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Being not a doctor, I diagnose you with depression.
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Obviously, yes, because it appears you are an alcoholic. I suggest Alcoholics Anonymous meetings. You're other problems are normal teenager business.
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no but you need to take a chance. Go up to the people you want to hang out with and ask them. If they say they cant, dont give up! Just ask more people untill someone says yes! If you want to lose weight, exercise, and if you want a boyfriend, start saying HI to some guys. DONT use alchoal, it makes you worse and its bad for you. Hope i helped .
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no, no, no! never think tht there is something wrong with you! it is very normal for a girl to want a boyfriend, loose a lil weight, and hang with her friends. maybe you should take up a hobbie, so tht you are not bored so much. maybe try going to the mall with your friends instead of being home alone, and then maybe you could meet a guy! when i was in school, my friends turned their backs on me and ignored me and ditched me allll the time. i just got used to it, and just hung with them when i could. tht was a bad idea to just leave it as it was, and not do something about it. then finally, i put my foot down and i talked to them about it. they did not understand and just rejected me even more, and then i found new friends. they wanted me back just because i had all the gossip. i eventually changed schools. those people are wut you can call "trash friends". try and find a new group of friends to hang with.
and no matter wut you are going through, never......ever turn to achohal or drugs to "solve" your problems. it will just make your situation worse. like i said, maybe take up a hobbie to take up the time you would have been having achohal.
and about the guy......does he like you, do you like him? BAM! ask him out! dont always wait for the guy to make the first move, because tht can show tht you are lazy.
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no theres nothing wrong with you, your just stressed. 1 im sure your gorgeous. so you dont have to do anything to your apperance 2 please dont drink alcohol! just go to someone you really trust and talk to them about it!! You should make plans with your friends just be like "hey, you wanna do something this weekend?" anything if they invite you go. talk to them more!
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