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not like it used to be...
ok.. so i have this friend... at one time she went through some really tough stuff.. and I didn't mind helping her and talking to her and stuff... but it was like she'd put me on a guilt trip and make me feel so sorry for her.. and like convince me I was all she had.. but then when we were at dance or something.. she was all happy and idk... not even the same person... so she finally got counselling after she started cutting and stuff.. they even wanted to put her in sight care or something.... but now i'm the one thats not so stable and she doesn't even care about me anymore.... she still sends me texts every once and awhile saying things like "i'm so lonely :'(.. I have no one!" ect....so i finally come out and tell her waht's bothering me and at first she cried with me and told me everything would be alright and we had this huge talk... but now she is being such a bitch to me... she doesnt have time to talk to me or hang out with me because she's always with other people.... and when we do talk its like "hey how are you?" "ok u?" "i'm ok" "well i g2g later" and thats it!! i just don't think its fair that i was always so loyal to her ... and now that i'm the one that needs help i dont have anybody...... its much more complecated then that but i guess that'll have to do...
5's to anyone who HELPS.
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wow. i would seariously confront this girl and be like "you said i was the only one that i was the only one you had. but this obviously isnt true because you dont seem to like talking or hanging out anymore. I told you the first time how i felt and we had a huge talk, and everything was fine. then after you starting acting like a bitch to me, and i dont feel that its fair that i always have to be loyal to you, when your not to me!" have you talked to your mom or dad about her? because if you did they would understand eveyrthing so that way if you go and say tht to her and she crys, and tells her mom or dad to call yours or something, you wont get in trouble, and youll feel good because you got to tell her off, something youve been wanting to do for a while., hope i helped!
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Don't worry sweety, there are a lot of people that care for you. Have you thought of the One who made you? He is your closest friend and He will help you. I know as I tried to commit suicide a couple of times and He pulled me through. If you need someone to talk to come to advicenators and go to favorite columnists and find me Crazy4him, I'll do what I can to give you support! You are very special and deserve happiness. As for your friend, she is the one who is loosing out on a good friend! Don't worry, you will find a better friend. Good luck and will keep you in my prayrs for happiness and finding yourself and new friends! Look you already have one................ME!
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If you ask me, she is definitely not the kinda friend I would want to have. But then again, most people, believe it or not, are exactly like her. They only care about themselves and their own feelings. I think you should just try to make new friends, and get a new best friend. Someone you could talk, who actually WILL be there for you! If you told her how you feel and she is still doing this to you, she can't care that much. If you just need someone to talk to rite now, you could try talking to your mom or if you have any older sisters that might understand, they might be able to help. You could also get counselling too if you feel alone, and don't have anyone to talk to about your problems. If you want, you can IM me on AIM (my s/n is BrittanyMichx39) and be more specific and give me more detail about the problem(s) you are having, and I'd love to try and help you out or just give you some advice or suggestions on how to make things better! Good Luck!
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