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Q: I got into a major fight with one of my friends and then all her friends turned againest me, and they were my friends to. I really like them and have said sorry. One of her friends have always hated me to. How can i make them like me, if i don't make up then I know there will be drama next year. How can i stop all this drama and resolve things?
You can't make anybody like you, but you could try being nicer and saying nice things. Try to have a sunny disposition. To stop drama, just go with the flow. Like I said, try to have a sunny disposition. I have a sunny disposition, and it seems to make my life easier and less... Dramatic. I hope this helped! :D

Q: a friend and me kissed and now she's avoiding me and spreading rumors that im a lesbian. What the hell?
First, your 'friend' doesn't sound like a very good friend. You should ignore these rumors. They're just words. And if you want, you could prove your not a lesbian, i no you aren't, by going out with some guy. Or ask a guy to help you out with this prob. I hope this helped!

Q: ok, my freind (A) used to go to my school like in 6th grade. now im going into 8th grade and she is too. my friend (I) went to her house. (I) said that (A) pulled out a cigoratte and she smoked. now (I) started BEGGING 4 one just to know what it was like. (A) said heck no and just started smokin again. (I) just keept on begging and finnaly (A) gave up and gev her one. (I) begged for another one and (A) gave it to her. thats all i know. now i dont really trust my BEST frind (I) because she lies A LOT! she says shes never had one science that day. should i trust her? she says shes not addicted but im not sure. PLZ HELP ME!!! the mail question: Should i trust (I)?
Your friend was pretty stupid for doing that. I bet she regrets it too. You should tell (I) that smoking isn't right. Get her addicted to something else. Like ice cream, chocolate or something healthy instead of smoking. She probably lies to get out of messy situations. Everybody lies once and a while. She's probably feeling crappy of her lies and smoking. You should support her just incase she tries smoking again. Hope this helped you! And good luck!

Q: i was just talking to my friend and she is mad at me and when i talk to her she just yells at me and i really want to be her friend her name is izzy and i want to talk to her but she thiks i am a jerk and arnt very nice i need help please HELP!!!!!!!!!
Hey, however this is. I'm sorry. I didn't mean to act like a buttface. And maybe you should lay off the asking questions. I know you forgive me because we talked about it on the phone, sooo... Hey, did you see this one ad for google? It's hilarious! It shows up on myspace! Write me back on myspace!

Q: Im in love with my best friend Danny. But the thing is...hes gay and he obviously doesnt like me, but hes so sweet and I really love him with all my heart. And i asked my friend Dylana to talk about it with him. he said he is uncomfortable with the fact that hes gay, and im his best BEST friend and we have known each other for years.But i cant help it. he knows i like him and hes avoiding me latly. Hes home schooled but i will call him and he says hes too busy to talk, but when dylana talks to him, he is never busy. please help me. I want danny to talk to me again!
Hi ya rachel! You should ask friends to hang out with you and Danny. Oh and Danny isn't busy this one weekend so you can come over here since he lives across my street! but it has to be Next month before summer school starts! LOVE YA! BYE!!!!!! DOGS RULE!!!!!!!!!

Q: Ok so i really like this guy and me and him would talk sometimes at school but now it's summer so i added him on myspace and i want to message him but i dont know what to say to him i mena i dont want to tell him i like him i want to become friends with him so what do i say????
Start out nice and simple like, "Hey, what's up? Not much here." Then just start asking some questions for him to answer and tell him bits and pieces of things that are happening with you. If you want you could scaduale a hang out date with him. But as for messaging him, just start out simple, don't talk too much about youself.

Q: my friend is really pretty and likes to flirt with guys. once she was over my house and the guy that i liked was on so she gave him a link to her myspace and asked him what do you think of me. he wouldn't answer since he had a girlfriend. and she goes i can't wait till he breaks up with his girlfriend so he can tell me what he thought. then she put together this lunch so i could meet up with him but she started flirting with him and he asked her to be his girlfriend. she knew i liked him so she asked me what should say. i told her to say yes regardless my feelings and the next day after she said yes she bragged about getting him is she really a true friend?
A true friend would think of you first. She needs to think about your feelings. She doesn't sound too true if she bragged. Friends who brag can hurt you later on in life.

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My name is Isabel. I live with my mom, dad, sister and two dogs. I have a brother, but he never really talks to me, which makes me kinda sad, because I was closest to him in my family. I'm a sensitive type person. I love to make friends. I don't really enjoy skool much, but i do like to learn amazing new fun things. When I'm older i want to be a writer and an acrhaeologist because i love writing and history fasinates me. I'm not exactly the smartest kid in the world, but I can be. I just like to have fun and be free. My features are dark brown hair and dark brown eyes. I'm Mexican, so i have that tanish skin, not too tan, though. My dad is Mexican, mom's American. I love to make friends, so any body need a friend come pick me!

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