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Hey, this is kind of a menial question, so yeah. But uh tonight I got invited to two birthday parties that start around the same time. One, is my best friend "Margaret's" birthday. We're going to Maccaroni Grill and that's it. The other is my friend from tennis, "Lucy". Lucy is pretty popular on the team and I really was happy she invited me and I want to get to know her well and stuff. But, Margaret is my best friend. At first I was like, Ok i'm defidently going to Margaret's. But.. idk. Lucy's party is we're going shopping and then spending the night at a hotel. Both are sweet 16 birthdays. My parents suggested going out to eat with Margaret and then going to spend the night with Lucy. But since me and LUcy aren't like besssttt friends, i dont' want to seem like a lot of trouble since I'm not even one of her good friends. Does that make sense? well, please reply asap! thankks! (link)
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hey i dont think that you will seem like a problem if you show up late to lucys party. but yeah you definitly need to go to maragrets birthday cuz shes your best friend...but i would say, go out to dinner, and then catch up with lucy.
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i had a rough night one night and the next day at school, i still wasn't too happy or perky like i usually am. my whole group all stands together in the mornings and my best friend was in the group and she didn't notice a thing. it confused me because i can always tell when there's something wrong with her. i put in my ipod headphones and just blasted my music. then this girl next to me was like "your music is really loud..are you ok??" and i've only known this girl for like 4 months and she is noticing.
so here's my question:
is my best friend tottally insensitive to others feelings? or is was she just not paying attention? (link)
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i think that you're reading into it too much.
so you arent so happy and perky or whatever. i think that maybe she didnt notice. i dont think thats its a big deal. or maybe she might just not know what to say. Thats the problem i have sometimes, i want to comfort people, but you dont know what to say or what not to say.
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Okay just fyi, I am a girl.
Most of my life all my friends have been guys, but I'm getting tired of it. I want more girl friends but I don't really know how to like...I dunno, befriend them, I guess? 'Cause I'm just so used to being around guys and having guys as friends. I don't know how to interact with girls as easily. Not to mention I've always kind of felt like the other girls had something I didn't. Don't really know how to explain that one, but yeah...
I want to like, have girl friends and girls nights and all that and at the moment, I have like 2 girls, and a whole bunch of guys.
It needs to change...so how do I do it? (link)
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well i suggest that you start by hanging out with the 2 girl freinds that you do have...and like just hang out with them and other girls and just act normall...and pretty soon you will get to be better freinds with their freinds.
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okay. i am 5'8". do you think that is too tall for some guys. the guys that are about my height. i mean. i would prefer a taller guy. but it doesnt really matter. are taller girls a turn off for guys? (link)
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hey. dont worry about it at all. I dont know how old you are but chances are that guys your age are still growing. I feel the same way that you do. I'm 5'10 and yeah some guys were definitly shorter than me. So if it matters to you a lot i guess just look for a nice taller guy, or even a guy just about your height. And also....a lot of guys consider long legs a major turn on...soo don't worry about turning any guys off becuause you are tall.
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what age/grade will your friends start to act more mature, and start being more than just someone to laugh with. you know, when will it be easier to find that one true friend, cause i'm pretty young, and i dont think anyone is that mature enough that they are the kind of friend that will give you a shoulder to lean on when your sad, or you can call anytime just 2 talk, you know that kind of stuff. does anyone know what age> (link)
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there isnt really a set age for that kind of age. its when you meet the perfect person. you have to go through lots of good and bad times together.
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What is your opinion of hippies? (link)
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hippies are waaay old. out of date. they were kinda weird. all druggies.
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I made the cheerleading squad this year and i love it.. but our coach said any girls that argued or talked about each other behind their baQs or caused drama were going to be kicked off the squad.. and there is a girl on the squad that is so mean to me.. she makes fun of me but says she is just pickin but it bothers me and she says rude stuff that makes me mad.. but i havent said anything to her about it because i'm afraid it will make her mad and start a fight but i'm rele tired of being treated like that... wut should i do?!? (link)
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tell the coach, the girl will get kicked off the team (if the coach goes by her own rules) and if she starts a fight with you, then ignore her, and tell your coach.
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ok i have this friend and she thinks she has the worst skin and really all that's bad is she's got kind of redish skin and a few spots of acne and its not TERRIBLY bad..but she thinks its really bad so she fricken LOADS on concealer..powder..foundation and all that junk and it takes her AT LEAST 20 min to do her make-up (meaning just the foundation n stuff) and it looks SO bad and people are now starting to talk about her and she just wears sooooo much foundation and idk how to tell her and its disgusting almost..what should i tell her?? (link)
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just be like ok u have good skin and u shouldnt cover it up bcuz people are talkin about you and i dont want you to get hurt
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Ok. Well ive gone out with this guy right? Lets call him James. But that was two years ago when me and james were in the 8th grade and he didnt take relationships seriously therefore never kept a girlfriend for more than 3 weeks. So anyways now me and James are best friends, but we like each other again. I dont know if I should go out with him though because I do not want to ruin our friendship. My question is for all you guys who went through this and did go out after being best friends, when/if you guys broke up, did you stay friends? or did it change? (link)
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ok this happens alot, when/if you break up then things might be bad in the beginning, but like all kids you will get over it, and so will he, so i dont think you shoudl worry about and yes you should go out w. him if you both like each other, bcuz, hey you might be missing out on a great thing!!!
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hi. im in 9th grade and theres about 5 or 6 girls who are obsessed with me! they are ny best friends but they treat me differently than everyone else ib our group. they fight over who gets to sit next to me, who gets to b my partner and stuff like that. like if i ask someone to do me a favor they jump to it like their life depends on it. im glad they love me n all but its kind of annoying and obsessive what should i do?
thnx (link)
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well um maybe you should like explain to them that they are like being a pain instead bein a help or sumthin like that. they might turn out to be mad for a little bit, but they are being immmature and they will realize how much of a oain they were
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What is Down Syndrom and what does it make you act like because i think my friend has it!? (link)
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unless ur friend has had this since birth, then she doesnt have it. down syndrome is a type of disease that causes you to be mentally retarded. if ur friend just acts really stupid sometimes, then she prolly doesnt have it.
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I have like a lot of friends but the only time i see them is at school or at a party i throw and none of them ever call me except for my bestfriend and maybe one other person once a month, and i just want to have people call me to see what im doing or to hang out, what should i do? (link)
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well think about from their point of view...if you never call them, they probley feel the same way as you do. so you could start by gettin their phone numbers, then try calling them. once you do this for a while, they might call you back!
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