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ok well i have a pretty big crush on a girl at school. But there is a huge problem. Two other girls like me and i dont really like them and i dont want to say no to them cause they would freak out on me... I used to like one of the girls but now i dont and she still thinks i do. what should i do. i really dont wanna go out with them i want to go out with the girl a like. How should i begin to talk with her. (link)
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Well.. I Think that you should just start off with.. Hi.. How are you doing.. Or.. Hey... What's going On... It's not difficult to talk to a female.. But.. If you like this girl.. you should tell her.. Before its too late and she has been takin by another guy... But for the other girls.. you need to tell them straight up that you dont like them.. and that you dont want to be with either of them.. So what if they freak out.. There are other guys out there that they can go out with... Talk to this girl you like.... Chances are.. she may like you too..
Good Luck.. Hope This Helps...
*Jackie*
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During 4th period yesterday, my friend, Ryan had my cell and I forgot to get it back from him at the end of class. So he had to keep it and his 5th and 6th periods are football. All the football guys know me so I guess they thought they could mess with my phone and it would be alright. Here's just a few things I found out they did:
1. changed my b/f's name to "cock sucker"
2. took pictures of themselves in the shower (surprisingly enough, I wasn't turned on)
3. sent dirty texts to people
4. changed my dad's name to "do not answer"
5. downloaded all these songs and games
6. i have a "never delete" folder for the texts i want and didn't want to delete and they of course, deleted them! (they claim this one was an accident)
7. and changed the language to German
I was furious with them when I saw my cell. Mostly at Ryan for letting them do it. So, I am not talking to any of them until I figure out if they're worth it or not. Specially Ryan. Now, he claims he is mad at me because I had no right to be mad at him because it wasn't his fault! How immature is that? I don't care that they used up my texts or downloaded stuff that cost money and I don't want them to pay me back or anything but what should I do?
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You def have the right to be mad at them... I would be very upset about it... I would def make them pay for the games and ringtones they downloaded.. that stuff can be very expensive.. and you shouldnt have to pay for it when they did it.. So I would def confront them about it.. Ryan has no right to be mad at you.. He had your phone.. and he had the responsibility to protect your phone like it was his own..
Hope This Helps... Good Luck
*Jackie*
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Well my friend is having her sweet 16 party and shes inviting all kinds of people are going to be there (including the kid i like who is one of my really good friends, and he knows i like him too) so anyways hes going to be there.. and so is the girl he likes and he seems to always leave me to go talk to her and he just kind of ignores me... any ideas on what to do? please help.. i hate high! (link)
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I was in the same sitution when i was about 16... If this guy leaves you to go talk to this other girl... then there is no since of even giving him the time of day.. but... I guess if you want to make him jealous... and give him a reason to come talk to you.. and begin to maybe like you.. find a cute guy at the party... and flirt with him a little... and make this guy see you do it....
Other than that... I would say drop this guy.. and go find someone else worth trying to be with.. or be with.... He doesnt seem like he wants to make a relationship with you by ditching you to talk to someone else... In the long run.. youd probably just get hurt anyway.. he seems like the type that would cheat..
Sorry To Say...
Hope This Helps... Good Luck...
*Jackie*
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ok i have a friend that just got a puppy and she is scared that i am going to take it away from her because the puppy like me better what should i do? i still want to be her frined but she wont hang out with her but if she is goign to not trust me then i dont think i should (link)
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Wow.. How old are you guys??? It's her dog.. and you need to tell her its HER dog.. and that you dont want it.... and its a puppy... Puppies like everyone... They like the attention... and the love they get from everyone... just because it may follow you around... and like being held by you.. its not because it likes you better... its because it likes the attention.... Tell your friend that... and tell her you want to be friends still... that you dont want her dog...
Hope this helps.. Good Luck..
**Jackie**
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i have a friend, and she copies me all the time! it drives me nuts! one day i was like "haha, stupid girl!" she says that all the time. I have like 3 pairs of flats and i wear them ALL the time and now she copies me ALL THE TIME. yeah, i know this is stupid and stuff but it just makes me mad so much that she would copy me! i mean doesnt she have her own life? what do i DO?! (link)
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Well... I think that you should tell your friend that she has her own life... and that you arent comfortable with her copying you all the time... That you would like for her to get her own style... and use that.. instead of going out and buying the same things that you have... You need to also tell you that you dont want to ruin the friendship over this but that you get really upset about her copying you all the time.... So basically what i'm telling you is... To be totally honest with her... Becuase you would want the same from her... or anyone else...
Hope this helps... Good luck..
**Jackie**
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Ok I think I'm in love with my best friend. He moved here about two years ago and since we met we have been hanging out with each other like everyday. At first I didn’t like him like him. We just became friends because I don’t know I guess we clicked. But I didn’t notice how much we flirt until my friend pointed it out to me. I really want to make our relationship more, but I don’t want to ruin this relationship we have more? What should I tell him I like him or just keep it on the down low? (link)
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well... I think that you should tell your friend how you really feel about him.. But also tell him that you dont want to ruin the friendship that you have now with him. And you definetly dont want to make things weird between you two now that you've told him that you like him more than just a friend now. See how he feels about you... and see what he wants to do. You may be surprised and he may also have the same feelings for you, but him also didnt know how to bring it up.. or even ruin the relationship. Even if he doesnt want it to be more. I'd be glad to have him as a friend then not having him in your life at all.. I hope this makes sense....
Hope This Helps... Good Luck..
**Jackie**
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Male 16
This is a complicated situation heres the story.
My friend started going out with a girl who hooked me up with one of her friends its been about 3 months and then my gf dumped me but thats not the problem the problem is me and my friends girl have become good friends but now shes starting to really like me and i cant go out with my friends ex unless it was alright with him (if she dumped him for me) and i dont wanna lose a friend so i need to know if theres is anyone to become just friends with my mates girl without hurting her feelings and without ruining hers and my m8s relationship
Any Suggestions? im stuck (link)
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well... Let's see... I think I've been in this situation before. but... truthfully... you need to be completely honest with her... You need to tell her exactly how you feel... Basically tell her what you just wrote here... Honesty is the first thing which should come before anything... So basically what Im telling you to tell her... Is that... You'd rather just stay friends with her... That you believe maybe in the long run... going out... might ruin your guys friendship... and that you dont want to lose your friendship with your guy friend... and that you wouldnt date one of your good friends girlfriends.... Alot of people are like that.... Truthfully... It's a good way to be... =)
Hope This Helps :/ Good Luck
**Jackie**
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hey umm lol me and my best friend has been friends since 5th grade..and now were going into 8th..we live very close where we can walk to each others houses..well my parents are very stritct when it comes to drinking and stuff..well i usally went to her house atleast5 times a week..well when i stayed a night one night we drank and got drunk..well any ways...her dad found out and called and told my dad..and no i cant go over there at all! and were BEST friends..i mean i stayed a night with her once this summer..just bc it was my b-day..and i cant go over there at all..ive tried telling them EVERYTHING that i wount do it again..what can i do to make them realize i wont drink again????
I RATE TOP (link)
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Well Sweetie.. Your very young... and drinking is something that you really shouldnt be doing.. But I think that your parents had a right to not let you go there anymore. But for the answer to your question. You have to give them reasons to trust you again. They arent just going to let you one day start going there again. Both you and your friend have to give them reasons to trust you. and know that you wont do it again..
Hope This Helps... Good Luck..
*Jackie*
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Hey, so heres my problem, theres this girl. We like each other. But we have(more like she has) made the decision not to date until were like 16. So thats fine i'm willing to wait. But theres a lot of other girls that like me. And i do want to date and she said that she doesn't care if i date while i wait. But.....well i really like her. Like almost love her. Cus we've known each other since like the age of 3. But i moved when i was 8. And now at 14 she shows up at my church. So i'm really confused on what to do. So PLEASE HELP ME!!!
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Hey... To be honest with you.. If you liked.. or loved this girl as much as you say you do.. You will wait for her and not date anyone else.. Do you find people who are dating and love each other dating other people? well that was a bad example.. but.. Honestly.. if you love her like you say you do.. you will wait for her and not date other people.. but thats just my opinion..
I hope this helped... If ya need anything.. Drop one in my inbox..
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i know its stupid but all my friends and other guys in my grade keep giving me crap about the guy i'm going out with. i love him so much. and he means the world to me. i hate it when people give me this crap though. and one of my friends that i thought was my friend did something that she "claims" she didn't do. its a long story, but i didn't think she'd do it. i don't know how to handle it. please help me. i need to know what to say to people when they give me this crap. thanks in advance. i rate high. (link)
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Sweetie.. If you love this guy as much as you say you love this guy... Then just let the crap they say go in one ear and out the other. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months. and I love him more then anything.. and alot of my friends dont like him.. and say some bad things about him. But when you love someone soo much. You just let it go... You know how he is.. you know your feelings for him.. dont let what they say get to you.. Act like it doesnt bother you... Like parents always so... They will just do it more if they know it makes you mad... and if they were true friends. They wouldnt say stuff about the person your in love with. I hope this helped...
If you need anything else... Just drop one in the inbox... ~*Jackie~*
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I'm 14..Well me and my boyfriend broke up because we didn't see each other(If you read my last comment you'd understand) But the night we broke up was a night at a local dance. After we broke up my best friend or what i thought was my best friend was all over him..I still really like my ex..Should I still be mad at her for that or should I suck it up and deal with it? (link)
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Well... If she was that good of a friend to begin with. She wouldnt of been all over your ex. Good friends dont date other good friends ex's.. Does that make sense. but.You have a right to be mad at her. But you need to tell her how you feel.. so that she knows.. I hope this helped..
~*Jackie~*
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I am 17/f. I had this childhood friend of like 8-9 years. We were best friends, but then we hit a ofrk in the orad and she turned to drugs about a year and a half ago. When I fisrt found out that she did it, I was pissed and told her that she was dumb and shouldnt do it again. She told me she wouldn't, that she was just tryingit so I gave her the benifit of the doubt. Her and I stopped being friends about 6 months ago. She started becoming really selfish,and just always pissing me off. She was telling me she was clean but I know her too well and could tell by how she wasacting that she was lying to me. Now she hangs around with my younger sister who is 16. I just found out the other day, that just as I thought, she is still using. My sister told me she snorts heroin in front of her all the time and that she is getting really bad. She also told me that she offered her soem to try but my she told her no. The fact that she had the nerve to offer my sister drugs really pisses me off. I feel like calling her up and telling her off. I have been debating on doing this for like the past 3 days. I cant seem to stop thinking about it. I understand that she is ruining her life but why would she encourage someone else to do the same? I wanna call her or so bad! I am so mad! I don't know what to do. (link)
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If I were you.. I would def call her and tell her how you feel.I dont have friends that are into drugs like yours is... Most of mine just do pot... and I know my sister has done that a couple times. But thats not as deadly as herion.. But... You def need to call her and tell her whats up.. and you need to keep your sister away from her.. Because one day your sister is gonna feel like she needs to do what shes doing to fit in.. and then thats not going to be good..
I hope this helped..
~*Jackie~*
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well i have some of my friends going to my advice column and asking questions, which is pretty cool, BUT.. some of the questions are involving me and idk how to answer them! help! idk what to do?! (link)
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I'm not sure what I would do in your situation. But.. What I can say is try to put yourself in the position of these people. and pretend that you arent you. Act like your name is someone elses name.. and Give them the advice youd give another person asking the same advice... Thats the only thing i can say.. I hope this helps..
~*Jackie~*
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the only way i can get a cell phone is if i pay for it, and i was just wondering how many ppl felt that it would be worth it? (link)
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The best cell phone to start out with is probably a trac phone.. Like a Nokia or maybe even a virgin Mobile.. Depending on what brand you get they are less then $100.. and you buy your phone cards... with the virgin mobile you get 20 dollars on your phone for 20 dollars.. 30 for 30 and so on.... Its very easy to use.. and this way.. you can pay for your own cell phone.. My sister has a virgin mobile phone... So this is the way you should go.. Hope I helped..
~*Jackie~*
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What iif yur best friend likes the sayme kid as yu do!?! whta do yu do0? im so0 confused riight now! i made out with this kid last night nd so0- did she!!!!...uhh ii dont no but she went to his house 2day nd who nos wuht! i new him for such a long time 2!! - he wanted to get wiht me so0 mii other friend who was there hooked us up! but i was getin tired nd didnt feel to good so0 mii bess friend went nd made out with him right after me! :( ... i dont no wut to doO! uhhh sum1 plz help me i rate good!!!! thanx
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Sweetie... I know this is a tough thing to go through. I've been through it. But to be honest with you. You don't want a guy who will make out with your best friend. If he can do that then he can do anything with any other girl. a guy like that is known to be a cheater and you dont want that. But I think you need to sit down with the guy and tell him how you exactly feel about the whole thing and see what he says and tell him exactly how you feel about him. and who knows maybe something will happen from there.. But you also need to sit down with your friend and tell her how you feel. Because if you dont shes going to think its ok to do.. and will keep on doing it.. Friends like that arent friends you want.. Sorry to say.. but.. I hope I helped.. Atleast a little... If ya need anything else.. or just to talk.. drop one in my inbox!
~*Jackie~*
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One of my best guy friends, that Ive been friends with for about 4 months now, is the sweetest, nicest, most gernerous, giving guy i know. After all that being said and done, i plan on having only a freind-relationship with him. He has the biggest crush one me and i dont know what to do. I want to tell him how i feel about our relationship but i dontknwo how to say it without him feeling uncomfortable around me when we hang out again. pleas help. (link)
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I think you just need to be straight with him.. Tell him that you dont want him to be uncomfortable around you but that you would rather just be friends.. Make sure you let him know there is nothing wrong with him. But that hes such a good friend that when good friends date, and when they break up they tend to lose touch.. and dont talk anymore. and thats why you just want to be friends with him
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