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friend needs her ownn life
i have a friend, and she copies me all the time! it drives me nuts! one day i was like "haha, stupid girl!" she says that all the time. I have like 3 pairs of flats and i wear them ALL the time and now she copies me ALL THE TIME. yeah, i know this is stupid and stuff but it just makes me mad so much that she would copy me! i mean doesnt she have her own life? what do i DO?!
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well you should just tell her or else its going to keep on going. or git her a new friend to copy
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I have the same problem with my one of my firends...eveything i like she likes now and if i say something and she doesnt like it and im like ohh i like them she will be like mee 2 and change her answer..it is annoying i dont really kno what you can do about it i kinda juat deal with it even though it is soo annoying but i guess you could talk to her about it and just be like i feel like whatever i do you want to do too... say its ok to like the same thing but she needs to kno her limits...even if it is kinda harsh
hope i helped...
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Some people are leaders and others are followers. Your friend likes you a lot and she thinks that everything about you is really great, which is a good thing, but the copying thing can be annoying even to other people around you. She's not doing it on purpose, she just thinks that you're the bomb diggity and that everything you do is the best and what's "in". You don't want to hurt her feelings since she's your friend, but this really has to stop! My advice is to start making suggestions to her. Tell her what she would look good in, or what she is good at as an individual. She likes you a lot so she will most likely take your tips very seriously. After a while if she hasn't gotten the hint, start saying negative things about what she's copying from you. Tell her she doesn't look good in this, or she shouldn't act like that because it's not her. Eventually if it keeps happening you might have to sit down with her and talk to her about how you feel. If it comes to this make sure that she understands that you don't dislike her because of what she's doing, you're just really annoyed. Good luck!
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Well... I think that you should tell your friend that she has her own life... and that you arent comfortable with her copying you all the time... That you would like for her to get her own style... and use that.. instead of going out and buying the same things that you have... You need to also tell you that you dont want to ruin the friendship over this but that you get really upset about her copying you all the time.... So basically what i'm telling you is... To be totally honest with her... Becuase you would want the same from her... or anyone else...
Hope this helps... Good luck..
**Jackie**
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