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what do i do?!?!
One of my best guy friends, that Ive been friends with for about 4 months now, is the sweetest, nicest, most gernerous, giving guy i know. After all that being said and done, i plan on having only a freind-relationship with him. He has the biggest crush one me and i dont know what to do. I want to tell him how i feel about our relationship but i dontknwo how to say it without him feeling uncomfortable around me when we hang out again. pleas help.
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try to go out with him, he might be the one for you! if it doesnt work out say you dont want to hurt your relationship, but you want to be friends, just dont hurt him
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I think you just need to be straight with him.. Tell him that you dont want him to be uncomfortable around you but that you would rather just be friends.. Make sure you let him know there is nothing wrong with him. But that hes such a good friend that when good friends date, and when they break up they tend to lose touch.. and dont talk anymore. and thats why you just want to be friends with him
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Just say "i like u i dont want this to ruin our friendship but i think you should kno" then drop the subject im sure it wont b that akward....
hope i helped
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Dear Confused,
If you are afraid that things will begin to get awkward, find out how he really feels about you. If he does really like you, but you still only want to stay friends with him, I would let him know that you think that he is really really sweet and stuff, but you don't want to risk friendship for something more than that, and then not having things work out.
Hope this helps!
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well do you want only a friendly relationship with him because you think it's the right thing to do? because if you like him more than a friend, you should let him know. most people will probably tell you "don't go out with him because it will ruin your friendship"... I'm not saying that you DO like him, but he sounds like the kind of guy you SHOULD date.
I don't know why people think it's so bad to go out with one of your best friends, because it could turn out for the better... well from my p.o.v. anyways.
Sorry if I didn't answer your question, but I hope I helped you see it in a different way!
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Just say you can be friends with bennifits!
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You should confront him about it and tell him you just want to be friends with him. Sure, it may make him feel rejected, but chances are he will take it in stride and remain one of your best friends. Just tell him before he gathers up the courage to ask you out.
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Just tell him how you feel!! Let him know exactly how wondeRful he is, and how much he means to you, but that you'Re not inteRested in seeing him as moRe than a fRiend, because you don't even want to take the chance of huRting youR fRiendship. HoweveR, this may be something you MIGHT want to think about : "Best fRiends make the best couples". Best wishes!! Hope I helped!!
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