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Down for my best friend


Question Posted Friday September 30 2005, 8:47 am

Ok I think I'm in love with my best friend. He moved here about two years ago and since we met we have been hanging out with each other like everyday. At first I didn’t like him like him. We just became friends because I don’t know I guess we clicked. But I didn’t notice how much we flirt until my friend pointed it out to me. I really want to make our relationship more, but I don’t want to ruin this relationship we have more? What should I tell him I like him or just keep it on the down low?

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EvilCheshire answered Friday September 30 2005, 4:01 pm:
Try and see if you can get his feelings out before you go about blurting how you feel about him. You only get so many chances to love someone, go for it.

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jodykid answered Friday September 30 2005, 3:14 pm:
I think you should tell him people can't hold in their emoshons for long!!!

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angelfire2708 answered Friday September 30 2005, 2:11 pm:
2 yrs and nothing more than flirting?
I think you should keep hanging out and flirting with 1 another. Somethings bound to happen somewhere along the line if theres a spark between you 2.
Sometimes actions speak louder than words!
If you do choose to let him know youre having more than just friendship feelings for him, it could either way for you.
I guess id take the chance, and maybe somehow let him know that youre feelings for him seem to have changed. Sometimes you have to just go with youre instinct. Hopefully hes having the same feelings back! You would be NO worse off than you are now.
Good Luck!

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babygirl17 answered Friday September 30 2005, 1:45 pm:
well... I think that you should tell your friend how you really feel about him.. But also tell him that you dont want to ruin the friendship that you have now with him. And you definetly dont want to make things weird between you two now that you've told him that you like him more than just a friend now. See how he feels about you... and see what he wants to do. You may be surprised and he may also have the same feelings for you, but him also didnt know how to bring it up.. or even ruin the relationship. Even if he doesnt want it to be more. I'd be glad to have him as a friend then not having him in your life at all.. I hope this makes sense....

Hope This Helps... Good Luck..

**Jackie**

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