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Well here's the thing, my best friend(23) has just recently gotten engaged. She has asked me(19) to be her maid of honor and I have said yes. But come to find out she has been lying to this guy(20) the whole time they've been together. I didn't realize what she's been doing until all of us started to hang out with each other. He's really nice and really loves her. But I don't believe she feels the same about him. She is what you would call a user. If you have something that she could benefit from she attaches to you and try's to get you for all you have. She has cancer and is getting a divorce from her present husband now, there goes her medical, this new guy is in the airforce and is form a family with money, (lots of benefits and can take care of her). My question is, should I tell him about all of her lies, cheating and sneaky ways or just leave the whole thing alone and let him find out for himself. (link)
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i understand you want to help a friend but really this is thier issue and you should stay out of it. sometimes friends wont believe you and just think your trying to get into the middle if thier relationship so just let it go. but i can tell your a great friend and thats really good. xoxo angie
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Okay so I have this friend and she has a boyfriend and I am his friend a little bit like he talks to me and stuff and he gives me money but I asked him if I could have a sip of his Powerade and he said yes so I took a sip and my friend saw me and she got all mad at me and said that I have been flirting with her boyfriend, and that I like him even though I have my own boyfriend....I sent her a text message saying sorry and I even tried calling her but she won't answer. I need help what should I do (link)
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heyy.. u noe wat i really think tat u should tell her bf to talk to her and tell her tat it really didnt mean n e thing.. n the 1st chance u get tell her tat u werent and y would u do tat if u had a bf.. and she should trust u becuz u wouldnt do tat to her.. gud luk.. xoxo angie
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ok. me and my friend like the same guy and she went out with him last year and like she really likes him that she loves him. and now hes over her and he likes me and wants to go out with me and i kinda like him a little bit but he calls me and like my friend isn't over him yet. so should i go out with him??? 13/f
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first of all sry i didnt answer sooner.. but if u still need the advice.. this is kind of a hard situation.. let me give u an example..
i had 2 best friends S n G ok..G lyked this guy A and he wasnt really sure if he lyked her but she really lyked him alot... then my other friend S saw him and she started lyking him and she told me and i told her tat she couldnt do tat to her because tat was her best friend.. and she was lyk i noe but i lyk him soo much.. and normally she wouldnt have done it but this time she did.. and G didnt really matter becuz if nothing was gonna work out wit A n her then why not?.. and A and S have been together for 2 years now.. but i really think tat u should talk about it to ur friend becuz she should understand.. but remember some friends arent wat they seem to be and they will stab u in the bak when it comes to them making themselves happy.. so sometimes its ok to just think about urself and what u want.. hope everything goes well lemme noe wat happened.. xox angie
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I went out with this guy for 9 months, and I was in love. His family had to move so we broke up:( It was really hard but now were good friends and we talk on the phone and on IM. When we were going out, he was really over protective of me and he always kept me safe and all. Now that its over, I flirt with guys a lot and my "friend" told him that. Hes soooo mad at me and I dont know why. He shouldent even be mad because its over!! I just wanna tell him to shut up..but I wont..so what do I say to make him understand that were not going out and he doesnt have to be over protective and all? He even has a gurl-friend and he doesnt see me getting all mad..ugh!! (link)
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the reason hes actin lyk tat becuz its obvious tat he still has feelings for u.. he mite lyk u in the way he useto or he just cares about u.. its a gud thing n u should be happy tat hes bein lyk tat.. i noe it mite bug u but let him noe in a nice way tat u noe he cares and that u appreciate it and dont mind it to a certain point.. im pretty sure hell get the point.. gud luk.. xoxo angie
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All my friend has been doing lately is complaining. Not to be stuck up or anything but things are going a little better for me than they are for her lately and shes tryen to bring me down with her so we can share being upset all the time . On the fone she doesnt stop complaining I just want to hang up on her. I dont want to be rude to her about this but im just so sick of listening to her complain. PLEASE help! (link)
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i noe how u feel.. i useto think tat all ma friend useto do was complain complain n complain sum more.. but guess wat... shes a friend and tats wat friends do. they go to eachother and ask 4 advice and want u to comfort and support them. u mite not realize it now cuz i didnt then but ull realize it sum day.. gud luk angie
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Hey!I'm Casey(girl)and im 14.My friend is also 14 and she is in 6 month relationship with her b.f.They have had sex 8 times and whenever they are together they always do stuff(sex,BJ,makeout,HJ etc.)I sometimes start to think he is using her but then again they r in a serious relationship. Is that the way to go in a relationship? Do you think their realtionship will go far if thats all they do?If u have ne advice please write..thanx!;) (link)
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i really dnt understand y u care i mean i noe shes ur friend n all n u care about her but its her problem.. honestly i dont think a relationship will go far if its just based on sex.. so i really dont think its a "serious" relationship.. especially wen ur 14.. n plus shes to young to b havin sex..
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i recently saw my best friend (we'll call her A) and with my other best friend(B) like we are all best friends, and the other day B was showing me all the things that A gave to her for birthdays and halloween, and A didnt get me anything for her birthday, while i got her two very expencive pant that i had to return because they didnt fit! and i always give her(A)a ride to the mall and i even pay for stuf like i would spend 20$ on her when ever we go out because i buy her pop corn and everything! and then one day we went to the mall and we saw buy one get one free, and i took the one free and everyday she bugs me about it and says that its not fair! i realy don't want to be her friend but i don't know! i feel like she is the worst person i ever met! how can i tell her this!
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sry to say but all of u are basing ur relationship on material things.. n a friendship shouldnt b lyk tat.. a friendship is to have fun to talk to sumone about things n to hand out.. not to buy eachother things.. u cant really tell her n e thing b cuz its not really n e 1's fault.. i think all of u r just battling to see who buys the other more.. try to work on tat.. gud luck.. xoxo angie
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ok well here's the thing i think my best friend likes my ex... and honestly i have to be straight up but i obvioulsy still have feelings for him and still really care about him but i kno my bestfriend likes him because she keeps talking about him and keeps saying how sweet he is and i kno the both of them flirt... and also if the both of them went out i would b really shocked and i guess upset.... but haha here's the other thing my ex's gf is kinda not into him that much and well i mean i dunno wut to do... sumbody help!!!! (link)
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well u mite still have feelings for him but the past is the past.. u gotta move on.. tell ur friend tat it bothers u.. and u think its not rite.. but dont ruin a friendship for an x boifriend it aint worth it! gud luk xoxo angie
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i only have a few real friends that i like to spend time with and 2 of them are going away for the rest of the summer...how do i meet new people so that i won't be bored to death?? i was thinking about getting a job to keep me busy - would that help me meet people? (link)
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gettin a job could help u meet ppl.. but it is pretty hard gettin a job.. try callin friends tat u arent tat close wit n maybe u could chill.. but hang in there summer is almost over! xoxo angie
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how can i confront my like best friend that i hate it when me and her r goin out sumwhere lyke the movies or what ever that she has to bring a friend?? plesse help (link)
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wen u guys make the plans tell her u just want it to b u n her.. if not u jsut bring another friend along.. so no 1 feels lyk the 3rd wheel!
gud luk xoxo angie
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i dont no recently during the summer all my friends like abandoned me.. i have like 2 rly good friends but we like never hang out i dno.. what should i do?? all my friends ditched mee.. (link)
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well most of da time its hard to kit during the summer cuz ppl r doin their own thing.. but call them up n ask if they wanna chill n stuff.. n if not jsut chill dont wry once skool starts im pretty sure ull talk again n ull make more friends.. gud luk xoxo angie
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my friends r mad at me and i do not know what to do they say i need to shut the F*** up but i have not talked to them and my other friends go online as my best friends name and sends me rude messages what should i do (link)
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ur friend sr just bein immature.. n im pretty sure itll pass in a few days.. just let them have their lil break n let them come to u.. itll b fine every friendship goes thru tat! gud luk xoxo angie
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I live in a small neighborhood, huge houses and lots of kids. That is the bad part lots of kids, so i have a bunch of friends, and they are constantly fighting. But i am always stuck in the middle, and then i give advice to 1 friend and the other thinks i'm on there side. It is so confusing and bad. hOW DO I handle this?? And i already tried the whole "its not my fight so don't get me in the middle" it doesn;t work!! i rate **LaUrEn** (link)
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just let them noe its between them tat its not ur problem! or u could just tell them ur on both of their sides.. n b4 a fight starts u should just leave b4 u get stuck in the middle! gud luk xoxo angie
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Ok my bestest friend iz havin boy trouble n i try n talk to her n tell her i kno how it feels cuz i have been through the same things but she iz alwayz like u dont kno how i feel!!! Dont u think if i've been through worse crap then she has then i do kno how she feels?????
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well if ur friend doesnt think u noe how she feels then all u culd do is tell her to talk to u.. n xplain to u how she feels.. but most of da time ppl say they noe how the other person feels n they dont.. just b there for her. theres not much u can do.. it'll pass.. n tell her to always remember ppl got it worse... n her boi trouble coould b allot worse.. angita
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